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What are the consequences of having attachment for people and/or things?
Having attachment turns into expectations, then into disappointment and later, into frustration. Pujya Niruma discusses this in the video. She explains that attachment ultimately leads to abhorrence. We should set such an understanding that whatever we get from another person, be it love or anger or hatred, we will accept it with equanimity. To reduce our attachment, we should analyse what we expect from a person, and then convince ourself not to have such expectations. In the end, such attachment and expectations only lead to suffering and sorrow.
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In English: www.dadabhagwan.org/path-to-happiness/relationship/true-l...
In Hindi: hindi.dadabhagwan.org/path-to-happiness/relationship/true...
In Gujarati: www.dadabhagwan.in/path-to-happiness/relationship/true-lo...
The Corps!
The not so adventurous adventures of 2 Platoon, RNLRAF Marine Corps.
Grunts inspired. Expect a strip every once in a blue moon. Best viewed in Original size. No, really.
Sorry for any cruddy editing.
Umm this photo is a series of 3 photos taken on the same day... this one is dedicated to my Mom.. taken on the roof of my building...watching the sunset...
USC School of Dramatic Arts production of Great Expectations, Mar. 1-4, 2018, at the McClintock Theatre. © 2017 Photo by Craig Schwartz for the USC School of Dramatic Arts
People doing the "truffle shuffle" at the Sadie Hawkins Alleycat. Columbia Rd & Ontario Rd NW, Washington, DC.
USC School of Dramatic Arts production of Great Expectations, Mar. 1-4, 2018, at the McClintock Theatre. © 2017 Photo by Craig Schwartz for the USC School of Dramatic Arts
USC School of Dramatic Arts production of Great Expectations, Mar. 1-4, 2018, at the McClintock Theatre. © 2017 Photo by Craig Schwartz for the USC School of Dramatic Arts
Jeimar Tapasco (CIAT) shows us his expectation for the training: His hopes to fill in the knowledge gaps, that will help with the negotiations
USC School of Dramatic Arts production of Great Expectations, Mar. 1-4, 2018, at the McClintock Theatre. © 2017 Photo by Craig Schwartz for the USC School of Dramatic Arts
Arrived at our chalet in Grindelwald, Switzerland, looked out the window to find an amazing view of the mountains and a flower pot on the windowsill...
It was one of those times when your destination far exceeds your expectations and in fact left us in awe of the place.
So this isn't a shot that was taken today. It's from Saturday, as I sat in Abbot House, a fifteenth-century dwelling sited close to my home, which has a truly wonderful cafe (although the old uneven flagstone floor makes all the tables a bit wobbly :o)) . Before me (aside from the delicious slice of farmhouse cake) is an unopened copy of David Vann's Legend of a Suicide (Penguin Books), and rushing around my bloodstream is the bibliophile's most addictive hormone - great expectation.
The 'great expectation' was generated courtesy of Penguin publicist Joe Pickering(@joethepublicist on Twitter) and his almost incessant (but most welcome) evangalising of the book. This was added to by a bunch of respected fellow lit-bloggers, who are saying some wonderful things about this 'novel'.
Great expectation is a wonderful thing - a real passion driver and motivator, but it can also be a 'killer', when expectation doesn't reach the lofty heights one expects it too.
Today is Tuesday of course and I'm now reading Legend of a Suicide (as you'd already know if you follow my Reading Journal). And with the cloud of 'great expectation' hanging over it, the book had a lot to live up to from the outset. When I read the initial 'chapters' guess what? I didn't feel those expectations were being met. Sure these chapters are well written. Sure these chapters are engaging. But they weren't really moving me to any great degree, or fulfilling me to any great depth.
That was until I began the latest and longest 'chapter' in Legend of a Suicide, which is actually a novella in it's own right. You know that 'great expectation' that I felt wasn't being met initially? Well now I feel like I'm overdosing on it. Too soon to draw long-term conclusions of course, but early indications suggest that this could be a book for which its expectations could never be set too high. I'll let you know the outcome before the weekend.
Penguin Books | 29 October 2009 | £7.99 | PAPERBACK | 240 PP | ISBN: 9780141043784
Late morning on Monday, October 5, and we step off the train into yet another quite warm autumn day, this time in hectic Varanasi, at the eastern edge of Uttar Pradesh. Though we’d be going to Delhi/New Delhi on the noon train tomorrow, I didn’t realize at the time that this would be the last of my photo shooting in India for this trip. (We were in Delhi for roughly 48 hours, but I got sick from train food on the 18 hour journey between Varanasi & the capital. Since the capital seemed way too smoggy, dirty, congested, disorganized…I didn’t feel like I’d missed out terribly, though there were a few places I would have liked seeing there.)
I’ll finish this posting on a good note, though, and focus on Varanasi. Before getting there, I wasn’t terribly excited about the tourist attractions I’d read about, but that’s not why people come to Varanasi. Varanasi is to Hindus what Mecca & Medina are to Muslims, or Jerusalem to Christians. It’s their holiest city. On the banks of the Ganges, people come here to die, then have their ashes spread in the river.
Varanasi has a lot of poor and indigent people as well, who come and hope to be cremated and buried in the river, and there are a few places that serve as pseudo-hospices to help them. They tend to try to collect donations from anyone to afford to pay for the wood – it’s a specific wood they use for the cremation – so they can help these people.
So Varanasi is an interesting place. There are many ghats (ghat is like…a pier, or a place where you can access the river), and the most famous are probably Dashashwamedh Ghat (the liveliest and most colorful) and Manikarnika (the Burning Ghat). There are many other ghats, as well, and some have specific histories attached to them.
For me, the best plan was to stay in a hotel near the ghats in the Old City so we could enjoy the sunrise and stroll around. The Hotel Alka was my random choice, and it turned out to be good. It’s cheap, riverside, has a decent restaurant (though, as it’s a hotel restaurant, not as good as many of the others where we’d eaten in the past two weeks), and overall a comfortable room.
After getting checked in (and this place was pretty crowded), I took a shower, then headed off with a local guy who gave me a tour of the Old City. Now, a word on that… It’s not recommended that you go with any local who offers because most of them will steer you into various businesses, or towards people who are all too happy to try to get your money. I was very firm with this guy, though, and told him the maximum price I’d pay regardless of what he showed me, and that he should plan accordingly. He didn’t, and was a bit disappointed when I paid him exactly what I said I would.
The tour included stops at a few temples – they all started to look a bit alike after the second one – and at Manikarnika (one of the places where you’re herded and they try to make you feel guilty if you don’t fork over five million dollars to pay for everyone’s cremation). The last stop was at his boss’s store, well away from the old city, over in the Muslim Quarter, where I had to sit patiently through a whole lot of lecturing on textiles and their pleading that I buy the entire building. I tried to be as polite as possible with the last part, stating up front that I wouldn’t buy a thing before going in, though that disappointed them to no end. In the end, perhaps it’s better to go on your own…
After about four hours with my guide, it was already dusk and the city actually felt less safe than others. (There were a lot of police out and about.) It turns out that there wa s a religious ceremony that the police were banning this particular year for some reason, so there was a bit of tension. And since Varanasi isn’t a city that is lit up much at night, there wasn’t much to see, so I was glad to just get to my room and call it a day.
Waking early on Tuesday morning, I caught the sunrise over the Ganges, then wandered up and down the ghats for an hour or so. This really was an interesting experience as it seems the entire city comes to bathe in the river, and everyone seems pretty happy. There are plenty of boat tours, too, which I skipped, as I just wanted to take a walk.
After an hour or so of wandering the riverside, I went back to the Alka, had breakfast, and enjoyed my remaining few hours just watching the sun rise higher before heading to the train station for the unofficial (though still unbeknownst to me) end of this trip to India.
In hindsight, this was a terrific two weeks. Though I enjoyed Uttar Pradesh, I wouldn’t go out of my way to return here – unless going to different parts of the state, and I would certainly include a trip to Agra in that – but Rajasthan…I would gladly go back to anytime. However, India has a lot to offer, and I’m not sure if I’ll return here or go to different parts of the country. Anything is possible…
Riverside Trail
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Great Expectations by Charles Dickens at Montague Close
This student got as close to the 1000 BWU maximum as the possibly could without hitting it exactly. This exceeded my expectations by not only having correct math the whole way through but also because they were able to be between 950 and 1000 BWU.
It was a happy afternoon
My colleagues were on a holiday mood
I was little earlier for a meeting in our conference room
Saw my mobile and did some experiment
Camera Settings:- 10secs Self Timer, Exp Bias: -2, White Balance: Fluorescent
I WISH YOU ALL A BRIGHT AND COLORFUL HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Garden Grub 91/120
We had the most wonderful, terrible day -- after almost literally a year of planning, we finally hit the US Open with Katebits. It was beyond all our wildest expectations (and Pookie and I had even been there twice before!). We enjoyed a sassy 10th-seed-getting-upset-in-straight-sets match on the new Court 17, then sat in the front row on Court 14 watching mens doubles from five feet away. The US Open is the coolest sporting event in the universe. But... then the terrible started. Driving home from Flushing sucks. We broke the trip home into four steps:
1. Getting out of Queens
2. Getting down the Turnpike
3. Getting down Route 1
4. Getting into the house and drinking a cold Diet Coke
The first two steps weren't so bad. The third step was interminable and torturous. We were looking so forward to the simple and satisfying fourth step... until we got home and discovered our power was out. HOW COULD THE FOURTH STEP BE WORSE THAN THE THIRD??? Route 1 is the worst pain on earth, except for the pain of finding out your power is out after spending all day in the sun at the US Open. After five whole insufferable, soul-destroying minutes the power came back on, though. THANK GOD. And as we chugged sweet, sweet Diet Coke nectar of the gods, we ordered some pizza and enjoyed a long, wonderful evening of having the power on.
There is absolutely nothing from the garden on this food. And we loved it.
--Schn.
USC School of Dramatic Arts production of Great Expectations, Mar. 1-4, 2018, at the McClintock Theatre. © 2017 Photo by Craig Schwartz for the USC School of Dramatic Arts
My most recent temari balls, motivated by leading a free workshop at my local library last month. All successful, but at the same time all disappointing in not meeting my own personal expectations. Ever onward!
Japanese textiles weblog jtex.wordpress.com
I am told these are Cineraria buds. About to bloom now, and I hope they turn out to be like a bunch I shot at home some time ago (link below):
Do you know there are only so many separate elements you can bring in on a photo. Take today’s effort as an example. I was thinking I’d be really clever and meet 3 challenges – the Photo a Day, the fruit challenge and the “curiously consumed” challenge. The Photo a Day was the easy part, I’ve done 48 others, how hard can it be? The fruit challenge – well, after seeing this, this and this, I knew that sliced kiwi fruit on a light box just wasn’t going to cut it. And “curiously consumed”? Well, all I could see in my head was the Monty Python character who refuses the after dinner mints in “The Meaning of Life” – how can I possibly imagine anything else... (well actually, I could imagine a couple of other things, but this is a family site, so I won’t share them with you...)
So, armed with a bag full of books, my camera gear, 2 photogenic bunches of grapes, I headed over to Red Door Creative for some creative fun in the sun. Daniel was a most willing model and I decided that Daniel would be “curiously consumed” by the fruit inspired books. I went to the trouble of changing the titles of the books beside him, in fact he’s reading “Grape Expectations”, but you can’t read them. I even drew fruit, photographed my drawings, inverted them, turned them into brushes and overlaid them onto the background – as can be seen here – but in the end, it wasn’t really matching the image I had in my head. And because I couldn’t decide on whether I wanted B&W or colour, I’ve uploaded two versions of the same image. Oh well. There’s always Day 50. There’s always another challenge around the corner.