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. Golf is all about the rhythm, mindset, tempo, and pre-shot setup. Given that it is summertime, I've got a few games going on. And while I'm out there, I can't help but relate the success and failure that I see on a personal level to issues of mindset, leadership, and innovation success. That's because we often make decisions out on the course that are similar to the decisions we make on a day-to-day basis in our careers and our organizations.
Many of those decisions are not the right ones - but we pursue them anyways, even though we know it is wrong.
Consider, for example, one of the worst, and most consistent mistakes that a golfer can make - the 'I'm going to hit it anyways' shot. That's the one where you know you haven't teed the ball up properly - it's too high and you know you are going to have a pop fly, or it's too low, and you know are going to 'skull' it, or you have it set up pointing in the wrong direction and you know it is going to go into the trees or will visit the creek or pond. Seconds before your swing, you know you are doing it wrong, but you decide, "I'm going to hit it anyways." That thought enters your mind momentarily, but you swing ... and it goes spectacularly wrong.
Because, even when you know it was wrong, you decide to do it anyways!
Companies, people, and organizations do the same thing. We consistently pursue actions that we know are likely not to succeed, and yet we do them anyways. We tend to chase the same strategies which we know will not succeed - but we chase them anyways. We make decisions that we know are the wrong ones but they feel comfortable and easy - so we make those decisions anyways. We constantly return to old behaviours that we know have not worked before - but we do them anyways. We becoming too comfortable with things we've done before that we know are doomed to fail - but we do them anyways.
There are other things we do in golf that are similar to the leadership and innovation mistakes that we make.
We will often tend to overthink our swing - facetiously, trying to remember all the items in the swing diagram above - and forget to let our setup routine and muscle memory define our action. From a strategy perspective, we sometimes overthink our course of action and response at any given moment, instead of simply doing what we know will work. We will often choose the wrong club, knowing that it isn't appropriate for the given yardage, thinking that we might pull off some miraculous new reality - in the same way that we make the wrong decision for any particular situation, knowing in our gut it isn't the right thing to do. We start to rush our swing and our setup, forgetting that a good pre-shot routine is the basis of much golf success - just as the process of careful, deliberate action is sometimes preferable for well-known, previously encountered situations. We try to do a 'hero shot' - thinking we can narrowly move a ball through a 2-foot wide gap in a set of trees 50 yards ahead - when we know in our gut that it is a fool's errand - in the same way that we try some sort of business 'hail mary' when we know the change of success is nil to zero.
There is so much in the game of golf that matches what we do in our corporate lives that it is uncanny. Years ago, when the PGA of America invited me on stage to talk about opportunities for innovation within the sport, I covered many of these issues. Every golfer in the room was nodding their head in agreement.
Including the fact that when it does not go well, we immediately think of our next opportunity.
Golf - it's a game of consistently motivating ourselves to move beyond consistent repeatable failure to a time of consistent repeatable success through the avoidance of consistent, repeatable mistakes.
Or something like that.
And we love it!
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It is so hard not to overthink things!!! Did the dotty one too but got stuck as to what to do with it!
I'm in a quandry, lol, Overthinking it?probably... I don't know what to use for Amalthea's pullstrings... lol, ideas, anyone anyone??
Our Daily Shoot assignment (#639) was "What has been your favorite Daily Shoot assignment? Give it another go today."
Daily Shoot 574 -- Don't overthink it. Make a beautiful photograph today. And tomorrow. Keep at it and discover your own view of beauty.
Well, my vision of beauty involves the elegant lines of a Greyhound, and since we never get a pink assignment from the Daily Shoot, we're creating our own today!
these two shots are very similar, but framed a little differently (the position of the sun is also slightly different). The only manipulation I've done is clearing a couple of dust specks. I'd love to get feedback on which one works better, if you have a preference.
Does the extra dark area on the bottom and the diagonal vegetation on the left here do anything to add or detract?
I wasn't thinking all this when I took the pictures; am I overanalyzing and overthinking now?
It's time for this week's EVERYDAY ESCAPE ARTISTS from yer pals EXIT Edmonton Escape on Whyte - TEAM MERM!
Mom is flying back to New Brunswick tonight ☹ so team MERM took on one last escape room before her departure. After plentiful practice throughout the week, attempting our Medieval and Escaping from the Catacombs (both in one day), these bloodhounds sniffed out every corner and clue making a star-striking breakout from the CLINIC using only 38 minutes!! Despite the fact that these were the first ever rooms MERM has played together, they tackled the puzzles very efficiently. Fortunately, these escape artists generously walked us through their elaborate scheme. Here’s just a few tips from their expansive list:
“Spend 5 minutes to work up an idea for solving each puzzle. If nothing turns up, don’t waste anymore time and use a hint.”
“When one idea falls through, turn to a different suggestion. Come at the puzzle from all angles.”
“Don’t overlook or overthink your clues, the answer really isn’t that hard to find”
Thanks for all the great pointers! Team MERM carried their evening on with a victory barbeque and sadly, Mom went home that night… only to recharge and return for more glory!
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What do I like about London? The quirkiness, the raw uplifting music from
Bow, indulging on a fat greasy English breakfast, that London is just a
stopover for many(are there some people actually from here?) cute London
blokes and gals, that cycling is nearly impossible, the politeness when
people want to pass, all that art!, the outrageous fashion sense, that
everyone is calling you love, sweetie or lassie, when you ask for directions
you get answered in a Jamaican accent.., all that history and mystery. Old
factories, Everyone loves music in London, that it takes you over an hour to
go through the Time Out London (That nearly everything I like is sold out
already, I will forget at the moment) ,People dressed up as poodles while
rotating in a pedestal at a stuffy museum.........and Brick Lane!
*Overthinking more I like while sipping my beer at 1001 Cafe/Brick Lane
with good music on,enjoying that I finally have wifi again. *
WE HAVE EVERYTHING WE NEED. (09.09.2021)
“Be in Love with our life. Every minute of it”
Principal’s Message:
We should be so busy loving our life that we have no time for late, regret or worry or fear. Life is not a sharp knife to cut all those bad memories. But life is a needle to weave golden thread of sweet memories. Therefore, we should live our life gladly. It is the only one we have on the earth. William Shakespeare said “I always feel happy. You know why? Because I don’t expect anything from anyone. Expectations always hurt. Life is short, so love your life. Be happy and keep smiling. Just live for yourself and Before you speak, Listen. Before you write; Think Before you speed, Earn Before you pray. Forgive Before you hurt. Feel Before you hate. Love Before you quit. Try, Before you die, Live” Where there is love there is life our life is as good as our mind set. Loving ourselves will work miracles in our life.
No one is useless in this world who heightens the burdens of another. We are shaped and fashioned by what we love. Overthinking is the biggest cause of our unhappiness; Life is a journey and if we face in Love with the journey. We will be in love for ever. We are connected to this source of love at all times.
Let us always remember that our life is our message to the world. We should ensure it is inspiring.
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You have no idea how long your words can stay in my mind
and how hurt it can be.
I know you didn't mean that way.
and you won't ever hurt me.
but it did, it did hurt and still does.
i'm too sensitive and overthinking, but every girls will think this way.
you're right, i know, i know you just want the best for me, but still freaking sad.
Overthink, underthink...
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Sean took me out for my birthday dinner tonight - with the kids. Tomorrow night is the kidless night. Party over here - Woot! Woot!
Anyway, on the ride home I had a 5 minute meltdown...pity-party...whatever you want to call it. I'm much better now...but this photo is pretty much how I feel.
I am a photographer - its the only thing I've ever wanted to be...its the only thing that makes me feel alive. But...I have such a hard time remembering numbers that aperture vs. shutter speed and all that just seems so overwhelming sometimes. Perhaps its that I overthink everything - because when I just "DO" it seems to come naturally. Anyway, I told my husband that it feels like everything is in latin.
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11th February.
We are meeting with the financial advisor, to see if we can afford to move house. I do not like overthinking financial stuff.
Update: It seems we can get a mortgage! Woot!
I keep you in a flower vase
With your fatalism and your crooked face
With the daisies and the violet brocades
And I keep me in a vacant lot
In the ivy and forget-me-nots
Hoping you will come and untangle me one of these days
Come and find me now
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Reality just came crashing down. I've been way overthinking this whole
situation and he's just not getting it, not really. He's JUST getting back
into dating, and he did tell me it was casual. So I'm aware he's dating
other people too, casually. But when he turned my idea for a date (although
I didn't actually use that word) into inviting my family over, I just lost
it. And my little brother stood in the kitchen with me and hugged me
because I was crushed. And BFF talked to him at some point and although he
likes me, he's still sorting stuff out, and going really slowly. And I'll
just have to go with it. Don't want to push him.
Part of this isn't just normal liking a person stuff. I have some major
mood swings still, even on medication, that are getting checked out. I can
go from a high to feeling like no one loves me in half a second. I hate
crying at stuff like that. I really do.
Throughout the initial years of high school, I was extremely introverted and would always hold in my opinions. The constant restraint from speaking my mind and fear of judgement or even rejection at times caused me to overthink more often, as I suppress my feelings for every little thing I knew one day I would shatter allowing me to muster up the courage to speak my mind because how much can a person bottle up all that goes on?
This post is something that could earn me a lot of hate messages, as I'm about to completely contradict most people's perspective of love. I'm about to sound completely idiotic, completely stupid, completely senseless to most people. But that is exactly what I don't care about. Now, those of you who are mature would realise that it's not most of the people that I don't care about, but what most of the people think- what goes on in the minds of most people that annoys me. That's what I don't care about.
Dating, posting photos of the two of you on Instagram, buying expensive gifts for one another, messaging something everyday without fail, overthinking about what the other person feels, spending time for the other person while you should be doing something important for yourself or for those of your family, spending time unnecessarily to travel to the other person's place even though it is a complete waste of time, promising infront of the other person's face that you've left a bad habit which the other person wants you to stop, but secretly continuing to do the same thing again and then using fake means to cover up what you've done, supporting the other person and saying, "It's okay, I know that it's tough" or "I know that it's hard for you, it's fine"- all these have become today's definitions and standards of love.
At this point of time, I'd like to make it clear that I don't want to pretend that this is a problem that occurs naturally. Because it isn't. And I'd like to admit that it annoys me. And I don't appologise anyone if it hurts anyone, because what I'm about to ask you is the truth. And anything other than this is purely fake, and you all know that it is.
People know for themselves that none of this is even slightly close to what love ever can be. People know that simply posting photos on Instagram and then a few months later, breaking up and deleting all those photos from Instagram isn't love. People know that it's not required to buy expensive gifts for one another, and that the simplest things would satisfy them very much. People know that the easiest, best, and the least chaotic way of dealing with things (whatever they may be), is to be straightforward. People know that when they spend time for the other person compromising their responsibilities, they're going to face trouble later. People know that bad habits are meant to be left for good, and that when the other person knows about your secret habits, they're going to get hurt badly. People know that someone has to tell them that what they're doing is wrong, or they're going to end up in trouble.
What really annoys me is that, inspite of knowing all this, people continue to do the same thing, they continue to not address the wrong things and continue to support them, leading themselves and the other person to a bad situation.
All I'm asking is, when you know that the other person is unnecessarily wasting time doing what they're not supposed to do, why don't you tell them to do what's right? Why do you suggest the easy way and not the right way? One may argue that staying nice to the other person earns their trust. True. But don't you realise that you were in the position to stop them from doing thing and ending up in trouble? Don't you realise that they'd end up in trouble, in a helpless situation, and still not realise that you didn't stop them from doing the wrong things even though you had the choice?
When you know that the other person is coming to pay you a visit that's completely a waste of their time, why don't you tell them that it's not worth it? One may argue that visiting each other and meeting each other helps improve bonding. True. But if your relationship is so weak that you have to meet each other all the time to stay in love, it's time you start rethinking your perspective on love.
When you know that the other person is spending money on expensive gifts that won't give you the satisfaction you get by simply seeing the other person happy, why don't you tell them that it isn't needed? Or, when the other person has a mindset of expecting a lot from you, why don't you try correcting their mindset by saying that placing so much expectation on anything other than one's self isn't the right thing?
When you know that the other person wants you to stop a bad habit whose harm is known to both of you, why do you still continue to secretly succumb to it and make false claims infront of the other person's face that you've left it? Why don't you discontinue it completely, or at least admit it in front of the other person's face?
When you generalise it all, people are giving more importance to feelings than thoughts and ideas. People don't think any more. They feel. People don't question anymore. They assume. People don't analyse any more. They guess. People fall for those who are nice. Not for those who are true. People are more comfortable around those who support wrong than those who point it out and suggest changes.
I think... no. I know, that we can do better. We can sprinkle some love. True love.