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You have no idea how long your words can stay in my mind
and how hurt it can be.
I know you didn't mean that way.
and you won't ever hurt me.
but it did, it did hurt and still does.
i'm too sensitive and overthinking, but every girls will think this way.
you're right, i know, i know you just want the best for me, but still freaking sad.
Overthink, underthink...
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Sean took me out for my birthday dinner tonight - with the kids. Tomorrow night is the kidless night. Party over here - Woot! Woot!
Anyway, on the ride home I had a 5 minute meltdown...pity-party...whatever you want to call it. I'm much better now...but this photo is pretty much how I feel.
I am a photographer - its the only thing I've ever wanted to be...its the only thing that makes me feel alive. But...I have such a hard time remembering numbers that aperture vs. shutter speed and all that just seems so overwhelming sometimes. Perhaps its that I overthink everything - because when I just "DO" it seems to come naturally. Anyway, I told my husband that it feels like everything is in latin.
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11th February.
We are meeting with the financial advisor, to see if we can afford to move house. I do not like overthinking financial stuff.
Update: It seems we can get a mortgage! Woot!
I keep you in a flower vase
With your fatalism and your crooked face
With the daisies and the violet brocades
And I keep me in a vacant lot
In the ivy and forget-me-nots
Hoping you will come and untangle me one of these days
Come and find me now
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Reality just came crashing down. I've been way overthinking this whole
situation and he's just not getting it, not really. He's JUST getting back
into dating, and he did tell me it was casual. So I'm aware he's dating
other people too, casually. But when he turned my idea for a date (although
I didn't actually use that word) into inviting my family over, I just lost
it. And my little brother stood in the kitchen with me and hugged me
because I was crushed. And BFF talked to him at some point and although he
likes me, he's still sorting stuff out, and going really slowly. And I'll
just have to go with it. Don't want to push him.
Part of this isn't just normal liking a person stuff. I have some major
mood swings still, even on medication, that are getting checked out. I can
go from a high to feeling like no one loves me in half a second. I hate
crying at stuff like that. I really do.
Throughout the initial years of high school, I was extremely introverted and would always hold in my opinions. The constant restraint from speaking my mind and fear of judgement or even rejection at times caused me to overthink more often, as I suppress my feelings for every little thing I knew one day I would shatter allowing me to muster up the courage to speak my mind because how much can a person bottle up all that goes on?
This post is something that could earn me a lot of hate messages, as I'm about to completely contradict most people's perspective of love. I'm about to sound completely idiotic, completely stupid, completely senseless to most people. But that is exactly what I don't care about. Now, those of you who are mature would realise that it's not most of the people that I don't care about, but what most of the people think- what goes on in the minds of most people that annoys me. That's what I don't care about.
Dating, posting photos of the two of you on Instagram, buying expensive gifts for one another, messaging something everyday without fail, overthinking about what the other person feels, spending time for the other person while you should be doing something important for yourself or for those of your family, spending time unnecessarily to travel to the other person's place even though it is a complete waste of time, promising infront of the other person's face that you've left a bad habit which the other person wants you to stop, but secretly continuing to do the same thing again and then using fake means to cover up what you've done, supporting the other person and saying, "It's okay, I know that it's tough" or "I know that it's hard for you, it's fine"- all these have become today's definitions and standards of love.
At this point of time, I'd like to make it clear that I don't want to pretend that this is a problem that occurs naturally. Because it isn't. And I'd like to admit that it annoys me. And I don't appologise anyone if it hurts anyone, because what I'm about to ask you is the truth. And anything other than this is purely fake, and you all know that it is.
People know for themselves that none of this is even slightly close to what love ever can be. People know that simply posting photos on Instagram and then a few months later, breaking up and deleting all those photos from Instagram isn't love. People know that it's not required to buy expensive gifts for one another, and that the simplest things would satisfy them very much. People know that the easiest, best, and the least chaotic way of dealing with things (whatever they may be), is to be straightforward. People know that when they spend time for the other person compromising their responsibilities, they're going to face trouble later. People know that bad habits are meant to be left for good, and that when the other person knows about your secret habits, they're going to get hurt badly. People know that someone has to tell them that what they're doing is wrong, or they're going to end up in trouble.
What really annoys me is that, inspite of knowing all this, people continue to do the same thing, they continue to not address the wrong things and continue to support them, leading themselves and the other person to a bad situation.
All I'm asking is, when you know that the other person is unnecessarily wasting time doing what they're not supposed to do, why don't you tell them to do what's right? Why do you suggest the easy way and not the right way? One may argue that staying nice to the other person earns their trust. True. But don't you realise that you were in the position to stop them from doing thing and ending up in trouble? Don't you realise that they'd end up in trouble, in a helpless situation, and still not realise that you didn't stop them from doing the wrong things even though you had the choice?
When you know that the other person is coming to pay you a visit that's completely a waste of their time, why don't you tell them that it's not worth it? One may argue that visiting each other and meeting each other helps improve bonding. True. But if your relationship is so weak that you have to meet each other all the time to stay in love, it's time you start rethinking your perspective on love.
When you know that the other person is spending money on expensive gifts that won't give you the satisfaction you get by simply seeing the other person happy, why don't you tell them that it isn't needed? Or, when the other person has a mindset of expecting a lot from you, why don't you try correcting their mindset by saying that placing so much expectation on anything other than one's self isn't the right thing?
When you know that the other person wants you to stop a bad habit whose harm is known to both of you, why do you still continue to secretly succumb to it and make false claims infront of the other person's face that you've left it? Why don't you discontinue it completely, or at least admit it in front of the other person's face?
When you generalise it all, people are giving more importance to feelings than thoughts and ideas. People don't think any more. They feel. People don't question anymore. They assume. People don't analyse any more. They guess. People fall for those who are nice. Not for those who are true. People are more comfortable around those who support wrong than those who point it out and suggest changes.
I think... no. I know, that we can do better. We can sprinkle some love. True love.
I learned a long time ago to not think too hard about the mission you’ve been given; overthinking things has been the death of many, and it’s best to be honest with yourself about these things. If it’s your time, it’s your time. I am a producer of results, whether those results are the banishment of the Krudian Empire from a far out Rim world they had enslaved, or finding some posh senator's dream meal. Seeing as I have coverage of all expenses up to Theta 1B I might as well enjoy the wonderful beers this little back water world has. Taking my helmet off is generally not allowed but due to the covert nature of my work, I'm required to stay undetected… I discovered that the hard way. My first time in a store to pick up supplies after landing garnered me some very strange looks… almost like they’d never seen a Galactic Federation Space Ranger before… “OH YEA! THEY HAVEN’T!!”
Well.. I have to be very honest.. Yeah sometimes I get mad with little things, i have to recognise. But, there are some little details that used to be different, not so much time ago. Am I just overthinking? I'm not so sure.. probably it's just my head messing with me like it always does..
I could wonder.. Are you happy? Yes.. you told me that once.. so maybe there's no more overthinking again. I just wanted to clear my head and just say it.
I always overthink layout, especially when it’s going to be a gift. Plus I still have to decide what fabric to use for the stars too.
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Ruins the situation,
turns things around,
makes you worry,
and just makes things worse
than they actually are.
Over the years, Drake has had many restless nights. Ever since his childhood, he’s been a victim of insomnia, often being kept awake by his anxious and depressing thoughts. Even when things are good in his life, he still finds it hard to get any rest—oftentimes getting caught up in his contentment to let his mind settle down, as even his happiness is something he can’t help but overthink about.
However, this time, that isn’t the case. Lately, Drake has been dealing with feelings of guilt, anxiety, longing, and confusion—brought about by issues much different from the stressors of his past. These issues feel more present—hauntingly so—because it’s not just for himself that Drake worries; it’s also for the two people he loves so deeply—ones he keeps very close to his heart—one of which who’s sleeping right beside him, blissfully unaware of his mental turmoil. He’s afraid of being the one to hurt them both, and in a way, he feels he’s deserving of his restlessness.
I was overthinking the Craft Roulette parameters this week and went to Pinterest for a butterfly color palette and found this palette: www.pinterest.com/pin/289356344851338234/ and this pin that inspired my card: www.pinterest.com/pin/32651166043524728/
Following Craft Roulette 269 Parameters:
Project: Square card, 4.25 square
Colors: Butterfly
Element: Clouds/Cloudy. The torn edges remind me of clouds at sunset
Random: Tied. Twine is "tied" around the card
Using: An old textured paper pad torn and inked with Distress Oxide Inks: Vintage Photo, Antique Linen, Rusty Hinge, Rustic Wilderness and Old Paper.
Sentiment: Hampton Art Celebrate stamp set
Catherine Pooler ink: Macchiato
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