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HIM, Birmingham o2 Academy, 19/3/2010, Copyright 616 Photography, AlternativeVision.co.uk, DO NOT USE WITHOUT WRITTEN PERMISSION!
she taught him how to sign "i love you" while they were in line waiting to have their tickets and luggage checked.......... poor little P&S was herniating trying to get a picture at a distance and with backlighting
Caught him again later on during the day in a different part of town, it seems i was always catching a glimpse of the fellow as i never actually heard him play his acoustic.
Vista Theatre, Los Angeles. April 29th, 2008.
As seen in: thescenestar.typepad.com/ss/she-him-vista-theatre.html.
+ baby cry sound effect: www.youtube.com/shorts/A3QjqhIGSoo
Husband: hey hunny, he’s crying too much right now, can you please take him to a different room?
Wife: [rolls eyes] yea, ok. [lifts son up and takes him into a different room]
[in Wife’s head]: why does he have to work so hard? all the time? i’m glad he has a job and know that we need the money, but why does he have to work all the time? he doesn’t even have time for me or his son.
[in Husband’s head]: um, this big ass house, home renovations, patio furniture, fire pit, the nice cars outside, the expensive vacation you planned (when we just went on vacation a few months ago), the private school our child goes to, shopping at Whole Foods, your nice outfits, name brand purses, jewelry, trips to the spa, expensive restaurants you like to eat at… yea, all that shit costs money. so i have to work, to pay for all this crap. are you gonna do anything other than complain all fucking day? what do you do all day anyways? SHUT THE FUCK UP! hey, why won’t you say anything? i’m talking to you! why aren’t you speaking to me? SEE, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT! THE BITCH IS IGNORING ME AND WON’T TALK TO ME. then she whines and bitches that i don’t care about her damn feelings. how can i care for her feelings when i have no god damn idea what’s wrong?
Random Idiots: it could also be that the both of them don’t want to address their childhood trauma. the lack of a childhood or being raised in a healthy and safe home. Their parents were probably not very self aware or present with them. now as adults, they use continuous amounts of office work and the purchasing of a bunch of useless shit as a numbing agent (coping mechanism) and distraction from addressing their deep emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual wounds. They enjoy continuous noise, so they don’t have to sit in silence with their thoughts. Thoughts of pain, suffering, destruction, abandonment (rejection), fears of death, dishonesty, disloyalty, deception, unfairness, injustice, fear of failure (sometimes we need to know when to STOP), and eating too many calories.
[in Wife’s head]: he old and ugly as fuck, shut up! you have no idea how much i do for this family. i do so many things inside the house. our house is in working order because of me, you ungrateful idiot! why you ignoring me? I’M TALKING TO YOU! SEE, he NEVER talk to me about his feelings or tell what happening in his life. he just sit there and pretend i don’t exist. i know you not reading anything, you only pretending to read. YOU IGNORING ME! WHY ARE YOU YELLING AT ME? stop yelling at me like that! i’m not a dog! I’M NOT YOUR SLAVE! SEE, he SCREAMING IN MY EAR! he don’t know how to keep his mouth shut. anything he think of he SAY. he don’t care he hurt my feelings, he don’t care what he say make me cry. my husband is ASSHOLE. ungrateful ASSHOLE. he want me to be like other women on TV, on internet, and my friends. he want me to be #BossLady. why he no tell her to give him children then! tell that bitch to cook and clean for this family.
Random Idiots: there could be a whole lot of stuff going on here. maybe some jealousy, unresolved anger issues (painful past experiences, which is affecting the present moment, and fears of the future), inability to stay focused on the task at hand, feelings of being misunderstood (language barrier/heavy accent/life), comparing their life to someone else’s (social media), imposter syndrome, too much ego (power struggle/control/focusing only on oneself), inability to laugh at themselves and not take everything so seriously, high expectations of themselves and others (perfectionism), feeling invisible (not seen or heard), not feeling good enough (for her husband, friends, society), discontentment, cluttered and complicated lifestyle, incredibly materialistic, poor eating habits, inability to keep a budget (no idea how much things cost), not being grateful, hypercompetitive spirit (instead of collaboration or friendly competition/if they win, i loose. if i win, they loose mentality), gossip, codependency, judgmental as fuck, people pleasing behavioral patterns (i got it from my mama and papa), etc.
[in Husband’s head]: see, i get NO RESPECT!
Random Idiots: [rolls eyes or blank stare] and literally, NONE of us wanted him…
[in Husband’s head]: RIGHT YOU BITCHES, RIGHT! THAT’S WHY I WENT TO ANOTHER FUCKING COUNTRY TO GET HER. SHUT THE FUCK UP ALL OF YOU. it was nice screwing you whores, i had a really good time. thanks for coming to my wedding. WHICH ONE OF YOU BITCHES GAVE US $25 AS A WEDDING GIFT?
Wife: when’s next time we can have lunch [name]? so i can sit there and be jealous of you the entire time and act like i’m not drilling a hole in your head. i’ll also watch everything you eat and hope to god you’re counting calories so you can loose some weight and look better. i may yell at you for drinking too much water and then judge you for using the restroom one too many times. then you can be one of my HOT FRIENDS and i may or may not let you be a bridesmaid. depends on how good you look in that dress. also, if you look better than me in a dress, THEN YOU NO BE MY BRIDESMAID! I HOTTEST BITCH HERE! ME! me! he marrying only ONE woman, ME! i love of his life, ONLY ME! why you no pick up the check? i know you have more money than me, you pay for my lunch. i don’t care i talk your ears off for 3 hours, PAY FOR MY FOOD NOW! when we meet again so i can get another free meal? i bring 7 more of my friends, you pay! when you going to wear better clothes? why you wear this outfit today? why you chewing so loudly? when you become doctor? when you become dentist? why you no volunteer? why you no go church every Sunday and take Holy Communion? when you going to have baby? when you going to have boy? when you going to have girl? when you get bigger house? when you get nicer car? when you cooking more at home? this food very expensive, you bring me back next week. why you no say anything about my hair? why you no say anything about my outfit? you know i doctor back home, in my country. why you still just hygienist? it like cleaning woman or something? this food have too much salt and sugar, no good for you. i make better at home, you still paying right? your kids married? your kids have children yet? why not? they the gays? something wrong with them, they no can push out babies? why you have C-section? why you still so fat? why your husband so dark? oh, this your son! your husband not so dark. why you wife so black? why her hair look like that? why his face so ugly? why your kids act like that? something wrong with them? how come they no eating? how come they so loud? how come they so quiet? how come they so rude? you still paying right? how come you no bring me goody bag? i don't really care what in goody bag, nobody care about Trader Joe's anyways. i your only friend, so pay! I AM YOUR ONLY FRIEND, PAY FOR MY FOOD BITCH! i want divorce my stupid husband and get new husband or new boyfriend, i deserve the world. you should divorce your husband, you deserve to be treated better! i know good divorce attorney.
there were a couple of these crabs on the pier tonight....but they ran away when you got close. i guess i bugged this one enough and he actually came back after me. you could just faintly hear his mouth snapping. i have more shots, but need to edit them when i get home. this macbook just isnt doing what i want it to tonight.
Went to Texas for 2 weeks in May for a Cob Workshop Work Exchange. We built the Foudation~Best adventure in a long time!
Paul Oscar, i went to his house to make an interwiew with him for a tv show, then i asked him to strike a pose, he asked me what he should wear and i sugested that jacket. I abosoulutely adore him and love him, he is one of our best singers, and so talanted, i love you paul oscar!!!!
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She & Him at the Orpheum Theatre
She & Him played the Orpheum Theatre in Vancouver on October 24th, 2010. The Orpheum is a huge theatre and it was packed, a tribute to the drawing power of a Hollywood starlet.
Photos were strictly limited to the the first three songs, so this is what you get.
Other photos and a review can be found at Guttersnipe News and at Beyond Robson.
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Oranges with lemon juice and antipasto style rotelle with pepperoni.
The purple fringing kind of annoys me but that happened in all the pictures. It's not as noticeable in this one.
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