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Victim-blaming is an invalid legal argument, a failure of logic and of course a sign of moral bankruptcy, expecially because the “revenge porn” consumer is not aroused by graphic sexual depictions as such, but by the fact that people in them—usually
women—did not consent to being looked at. It's a clear violation of others' rights, a threat of privacy and dignity: strangers feels entitled to show to everyone people's body without their consent, violating deliberately limits posed by victim. Victim-blaming and slut-shaming are just other abuse on victims, because it's used to state that victims rather than the perpetrator bear responsibility for the crime committed by the perpetrator. We should remember that people who shared private material without consent to others are committing a crime. They are criminals and fully responsible for their actions.
(This is not mine, I just found it on the internet and I wanted to share)
TRIGGER WARNING: Rape & victim blaming.
It is estimated that only 6% of rapes and sexual assaults are actually reported, which is a frightfully low number. I have started a new project aiming to explore the reasons behind this, which started from the #ididnotreport hashtag on twitter - where survivors or rape/sexual abuse tell of their numerous reasons why they didn’t report it to anyone. This is the first series of images - numerous things that victims are told time and time again whenever they do actually report their abuse to someone - be it a friend, parent, family member, stranger or the authorities. We live in a society of rape culture where the victim is almost constantly blamed - told that they drank too much, wore too little, were out too late by themselves, flirted too much, are too “slutty”, are too “frigid”, are making a big deal out of “nothing”, the rapist was their partner so it obviously wasn’t rape because you can’t be raped by someone you’re in a relationship with. The things that victims constantly get told by the media, the people they know, rape “jokes”, songs, the authorities…they are painted on them so that they can never forget. To remind them that it is all “their fault” - if they hadn’t gone there/drank alcohol/wore that skirt/flirted etc, it wouldn’t have happened. Obviously.
I intend to expand on this series of photographs in the near future, and there is a lot more to come from this project, this is only the very starting point. My aim is to bring the idea of rape culture, slut-shaming, and victim-blaming to the attention of more people. To try and examine why 94% of rapes/assaults/abuse are never reported to the police, and to try and make that number decrease.
You can see more/the full-size series at:
It really pisses me off when people slutshame Farrah Abraham for doing a porn video..
Yes, she's a mother, BUT it doesn't mean that she can't enjoy sex with whoever she wants, and celebrate her body goals in any fucking way she wants.
Y'all need to stop being such sexist assholes..
BTW THE FATHER OF THE LITTLE SOPHIA GIRL IS DEAD,
oh, and the dick that she rides in her video (james dean) is just..magnifique, lucky her! <3
Next on my Top 1000, Kitty Wells' "It Wasn't God Who Made Honky Tonk Angels." Just because I recognize the power of a song doesn't mean I fully endorse its message (but damn, this is one great unfairly judgmental slut-shaming song from 1952, the year before I was born -- and I can remember from my pre-teen years many whispering half-heard married Mississippi women talking about the honky tonk angels who had [allegedly] brought pain to others):
As I sit here tonight, the jukebox playin'
The tune about the wild side of life
As I listen to the words you are sayin'
It brings memories when I was a trustful wife
It wasn't God who made honky tonk angels
As you said in the words of your song
Too many times married men
Think they're still single
That has caused many a good girl to go wrong
It's a shame that all the blame is on us women
It's not true that only you men feel the same
From the start
Most every heart that's ever broken
Was because there always was a man to blame
It wasn't God who made honky tonk angels
As you said in the words of your song
Too many times married men
Think they're still single
That has caused many a good girl to go wrong
Woman wearing blue wig and "Wonder Woman" costume holds up sign about sexuality, other anti-rape protesters march behind her.
Woman with breasts coverd by tape, carrying a sign about being a stripper and being sexually assualted.
#Cyberbullying Tactic #SlutShaming Image – Free Public Domain Edu. Graphic by Michael Nuccitelli, Psy.D. #iPredator NYC
#CyberbullyingExamples #SlutShaming Image – 31 Free Public Domain Educational #Cyberbullying & #Cyberpsychology Images by Michael Nuccitelli, Psy.D. #iPredator New York, USA goo.gl/Y8HsCk
Four young women reading from sheets of paper at rally, two holding microphones, all wearing "slut" costumes, some with writing on their bodies.
National #Bullying Prevention Month – Free Edu. #Cyberbullying Example #SlutShaming Internet Safety PSA by Michael Nuccitelli, Psy.D. #iPredator NYC #BeBest
Woman wearing blue wig holds up sign about sexuality, woamn next to her gestures with hand, woman behind them holds up sign about slutwalk Denver.
I designed this article using red accents to represent emotion. Using 120 color photos to represent the enormity of the issue, I kept the photos black and white and the clothing in color to emphasize a woman's right to wear whatever she wants.
Four young women reading from sheets of paper at rally, one holding microphone, all wearing "slut" costumes, sign below them about "Denver Slut Walk".
SOCIALLY [UN] ACCEPTABLE
Wednesday 24 - Friday 26 July 6pm £15.
Kings Arms Studio 1, 11 Bloom Street Salford M3 6AN.
Have you ever been r*ped? You're not alone. Be challenged & confronted by the personal experience of sexual assault through a series of autobiographical vignettes. Unapologetically honest and confronting, this show will challenge and inspire you. Inspire you to change the narrative in today's society, to shut down slut shaming and victim blaming. To give young people the strength and the confidence to be true to themselves. To start conversations that will change the future of sexual assault. Let's change the narrative. "Raw & painful & visceral" Great Scott! "Powerful & vulnerable" The Adelaide Show. "Merciless & confronting" Stage Whispers.
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SOCIALLY [UN] ACCEPTABLE
Wednesday 24 - Friday 26 July 6pm £15.
Kings Arms Studio 1, 11 Bloom Street Salford M3 6AN.
Have you ever been r*ped? You're not alone. Be challenged & confronted by the personal experience of sexual assault through a series of autobiographical vignettes. Unapologetically honest and confronting, this show will challenge and inspire you. Inspire you to change the narrative in today's society, to shut down slut shaming and victim blaming. To give young people the strength and the confidence to be true to themselves. To start conversations that will change the future of sexual assault. Let's change the narrative. "Raw & painful & visceral" Great Scott! "Powerful & vulnerable" The Adelaide Show. "Merciless & confronting" Stage Whispers.
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Sunny, having unveiled her exceptional "There's no such thing as a slut" shirt. This was the key theme of her talk. It's just not a concept that should exist, and there's little sense in trying to reclaim it. The crowd was asked how many of them had been called "sluts" at some point in their lives, and an awful lot of hands (including mine) went up. People experienced this even as children. And, sadly, many of us have at one time called someone else a "slut" or thought of them that way. Using the word "slut" means you accept the idea that there's something bad about enjoying sex and sexuality, and that there's something wrong with people who refuse to pretend there is.
The SlutWalks in Toronto, Ottawa, and other Canadian cities were held in response to a comment made by a Toronto police officer that women could avoid sexual assault if they did not "dress like sluts."
In the ensuing outcry from outraged men and women across the country, the officer apologized for his remarks, as they put the onus on women to prevent sexual assault and perpetuated the myth that clothing has any bearing on consent or willingness to have sex.
The SlutWalks were intended to highlight the fact that no one deserves to be sexually assaulted and that slut-shaming effectively legitimizes attacks by diminishing the responsibility of the offender.
Some people sought to "reclaim" the word slut, but I liked the message of the keynote speaker that there's no such thing as a "slut." People should be allowed to live their lives without being stigmatized for enjoying sex or dressing in a certain way, and should not be blamed and lectured about how they were dressed, or when and where they were, when they are sexually assaulted. The blame belongs entirely with the perpetrators of the assault.
Young woman marches with sign "My Body, My Clothes, My Choice", other protesters with signs around her.