Ouch.

Singer/Songwriter Showcase Hosted by Karla Vega. Band Breakup Season. In this picture: Elina Sherman (Vocals), Fernando Perdomo (Vocals, Guitars).

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SOURCE: www.coaching-online.org/getting-over-a-breakup/

Getting over a break can be tough. It may be easy, liberating and in some cases, necessary for some people. But for the majority of people, a breakup is like being in an emotional rollercoaster. Most of the time, they need counseling, therapy or some sorts of sorrow-managements for coping. There are so many effective ways to get over a breakup and move in with one’s life. This article is a summarized version of some of those compelling techniques and psychological methods that have helped so many people with broken hearts to get over their breakups.

First thing first, and it is re-defining yourself. Most people don’t see themselves equally before or after a breakup. There are some people who may find themselves worthy and happy only if they’re in a relationship. This lack of individualism is an unhealthy lifestyle where redefining oneself is necessary. So if a person is experiencing breakup and trying to find a way to move on, he/she should rediscover himself/herself. Once you have redefined yourself, now try and redefine the borders after a breakup. Think about what your version of happy relationship looks like. Check on the details like how much time you want to spend with your dream partner, how much time to spend on friends and family, but most importantly how much time do you want to spend with yourself, on yourself, on goals and careers. These will shape your next relationship and also give you the clear conception of what You want. Now that you’re done with fixing your personality, it’s time to fix what’s more important- your heart. When you’re in relationship, your brain pours a lot of hormones. Now that you’re in a breakup, your body deprives of those hormones which is comparable to the withdrawal of the cocaine! So to survive this, don’t listen to your brain which is unreliable at that time. Try to reason your breakup. Stop going to those happy memory lane and let it go. Try to be active socially. You know that there were also things you shouldn’t have done. So after you have cleared your head and got a hold on your emotions, it is now time to contemplate on the mistakes from your side. Be honest with yourself and try to analyze your fights and the factor that triggered you. And of course learn from them. Try to value your opinion too. But don’t be too selfish about it either. It also applies on your sex life. If you are 100% in the head of other or concerned about your partner’s pleasure, a healthy sex life is not possible. It’s also impossible if you’re only concerned about yourself. So try to maintain a balance.

Wow! You have worked on your self-esteem. You have fixed your broken heart. You’re done with the silly mistakes from your part and you’re now taking consideration of your own need. Your next relationship should be awesome. But hey, if not, don’t give on yourself. Good luck!

Later afternoon thunderheads fall apart as evening approaches.....

Over three short days at the end of February, it seems the star-crossed lovers Cheryl and Darnell have known love's sweet caress and parting's bitter sorrow. And I guess it all involved this picnic table.

A few feet away, an older willow had woven back and forth through the links of the fence, growing thick enough that the metal of the fence had pressed into the wood before the groundskeeper cut it above and below, leaving just a section of trunk hanging in the fence. (Screefeet in MoW)

意外發現前面那個騎機車的鐵杆

讓畫面一分為二

...剛好切合主題

Sweetheart is offstage on the right (that black thing is the handle of a retractable leash).

2014 May 2nd

Some of us hiked up the hilly Red Hill Trail, and others took the flat route. Beyond the lower Bayview Trail you see the old salt evaporation ponds in San Francisco Bay.

broken-up sea ice between Greenland and Canada as seen from a plane.

Ice floes in early May after spring breakup on the Yukon River.

Here's a zoom of the phone on the roof.

What's the story?

My best guess is that someone in my building got really pissed at their significant other. Probably a breakup. So the threw the phone out the window (probably from the patio) and also threw some picture frames.

At the Cobourg marina last Saturday.

Pencils designed by Greenwich Letterpress featuring thought provoking questions. Set of 8.

The Breakup Season, No Fights Fest 3

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Breakup Buddies, NING Hao, China 2014

I'm writing this to you in reverse

Someone better call a hearse

I can see it all from here

From just a few glimpses

Now that lightbulb's gone off

And it's pulling my wince

And now the lightbulb's gone off

I've seen it in your eyes

I've seen you blankly stare

And I wanna show you how I love you

But there's nothing there

I can see you blankly stare

Writing in Reverse by Spoon

Cover for the Kwanza Jones single Not a Breakup Song from the album Supercharged. www.KwanzaJones.com

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hair: Kito Jones of Lavish Hair Spa

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Whatever

Last photos of our beloved XL1, not that we don't love you anymore but moving to a HD platform is what we need to do. I hope you understand and don't take this breakup too hard.. I hope we can still be friends and honestly you deserve someone better.

Breakup Quotes : QUOTATION – Image : As the quote says – Description More

www.aboutquotes.net/2019/09/25/breakup-quotes-fucked-up/

Go offline | published in 'Love Hurts | The Damaged Issue' of United Academics Magazine

How yoga helps in overcoming the emotions after breakup.

"If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story."

Orson Welles

It would be lovely to say that this was spring break up, but as winter hasn't officially even started yet..... Nonetheless, it was nice to see the sun cracking this all up. And the sound was amazing as one ice floe slowly merged into another!