Writing Your Story #1
Authoring Your Narrative, Crafting a Life Worth Telling.
☑️ Reflecting on the past, paving the way for a brighter future.
☑️ Embrace introspection, unravel clarity, and stride towards a better tomorrow for both Alphas and Betas.
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. . . D/s Tale . . .
Chapter #1 Beliefs
She often ponders why people struggle to let go of toxic and harmful relationships, even when the truth about these connections is crystal clear.
In simple terms, there are three main reasons why some people continue to tolerate these unhealthy dynamics, regardless of how much they deteriorate and cause them pain.
Firstly, it's their beliefs, which can be deeply ingrained ideas about love, loyalty, doing good or self-worth.
Secondly, it's the difficulty of facing the truth, as it can become blurred or distorted by their bias and weakness, making it harder to recognize the reality and toxicity.
Lastly, it's the daunting task of making the decision to move on, which is accompanied by fear to fail and uncertainty.
These factors intertwine, keeping people trapped in destructive relationships.
The only solution to this problem is wisdom and a strong spirit, both of which stem from diligently training oneself in self-awareness of the truth.
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These problems often affect betas more than alphas. Since most alpha people tend to view and prefer accepting things based on reality and unpleasant truths, while betas prefer to view things based on their comfortable feelings and attitudes that support their weaknesses. The way they think often leads many of them to become victims of their own weaknesses and makes them experience real pain in relationships.
1. Beliefs
☑️ Most Alphas believe in proofs and filtered evidence. They place their trust in science, nature, and truth. On the other hand, most Betas believe in what they feel, their ideal thoughts based on illusions such as love, feelings, morals, attitude, behavior, manners, faith, and destiny.
☑️ In the beta's world, there are many factors that make their beliefs distant from the reality perceived by alphas. Betas, on the other hand, prefer to perceive the reality as it should be, the nature as it should be, the ideal human, and the ideal feelings.
☑️ So when an alpha and a beta decide to build a relationship, it is not difficult to imagine how severe the toxicity and pain in the relationship between these two different kinds of people can be, and it is often the beta who is hurt and unsatisfied in their relationships.
☑️ There are two beliefs that are often found in BDSM relationships, and they are the main reasons that make most betas tolerate unhealthy relationships and refuse to let go of their alphas, regardless of how much they suffer and are hurt.
First Belief - The power of goodness and dedication prevail over all.
The belief is that their goodness and dedication over time will eventually win the heart of their Alphas. They believe that one day the Alpha will recognize the beta's goodness and change their behavior accordingly, aligning with the ideal and proper ways it should be.
" Someday, you will treat me the way it should be. Someday, you will listen to me the way it should be. Someday, you will care about me the way it should be. Someday, you will love me the way it should be. "
But for alphas, the way 'betas think' they deserve is not the way things should really be. That's why their demands are never met.
Second Belief - Pretending to be stupid is a smart move.
Pretending to be ignorant, pretending not to know, and pretending not to see the wrongdoings that the Alpha engages in is a clever strategy to sustain a long-lasting relationship. This approach enables the betas to extend the duration of their relationship, as they hope to have more time to make positive contributions to win alpha's hearts. They anticipate that, eventually, their Alphas will develop empathy, appreciate their efforts, and modify their behavior to align with the desires and aspirations of the betas.
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Alpha is always one step ahead because they are aware of Beta's beliefs right from the start. Beta is like an open book, easy to read, control, and persuade.
What most Alphas always do is:
Support and affirm Beta's beliefs.
" I can change, but it takes time. Everything can change for the better, but changing a person requires significant effort. Goodness will ultimately prevail, but perhaps not today or tomorrow." (not today, tomorrow, next year, or even in the next 3, 5, or 10 years.)
" Smart people don't have to pretend to know everything. Silence is a clever expression too. "
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The truth is...
☑️ Goodness doesn't win everything.
☑️ To pretend to be stupid is to show that you are really stupid.
" Pretending to be ignorant for years, wasting time hoping that someone who treats you poorly will eventually treat you well, and investing 3-5 years of expectations into just a single day when your alpha will value you the way you desire, is a clear demonstration of foolishness. Don't continue pretending to be ignorant for an extended period, as it can ultimately transform you into a genuinely unintelligent person. "
_________ Scarlett Saphira
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How can a foolish man be truly admired?
No matter how long one pretends to be foolish to sustain a relationship, it is crucial to cease this behavior and strive for personal growth. Only by doing so can one enable others to recognize their true value.
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Chapter #2
Writing Your Story #1
Authoring Your Narrative, Crafting a Life Worth Telling.
☑️ Reflecting on the past, paving the way for a brighter future.
☑️ Embrace introspection, unravel clarity, and stride towards a better tomorrow for both Alphas and Betas.
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
. . . D/s Tale . . .
Chapter #1 Beliefs
She often ponders why people struggle to let go of toxic and harmful relationships, even when the truth about these connections is crystal clear.
In simple terms, there are three main reasons why some people continue to tolerate these unhealthy dynamics, regardless of how much they deteriorate and cause them pain.
Firstly, it's their beliefs, which can be deeply ingrained ideas about love, loyalty, doing good or self-worth.
Secondly, it's the difficulty of facing the truth, as it can become blurred or distorted by their bias and weakness, making it harder to recognize the reality and toxicity.
Lastly, it's the daunting task of making the decision to move on, which is accompanied by fear to fail and uncertainty.
These factors intertwine, keeping people trapped in destructive relationships.
The only solution to this problem is wisdom and a strong spirit, both of which stem from diligently training oneself in self-awareness of the truth.
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
These problems often affect betas more than alphas. Since most alpha people tend to view and prefer accepting things based on reality and unpleasant truths, while betas prefer to view things based on their comfortable feelings and attitudes that support their weaknesses. The way they think often leads many of them to become victims of their own weaknesses and makes them experience real pain in relationships.
1. Beliefs
☑️ Most Alphas believe in proofs and filtered evidence. They place their trust in science, nature, and truth. On the other hand, most Betas believe in what they feel, their ideal thoughts based on illusions such as love, feelings, morals, attitude, behavior, manners, faith, and destiny.
☑️ In the beta's world, there are many factors that make their beliefs distant from the reality perceived by alphas. Betas, on the other hand, prefer to perceive the reality as it should be, the nature as it should be, the ideal human, and the ideal feelings.
☑️ So when an alpha and a beta decide to build a relationship, it is not difficult to imagine how severe the toxicity and pain in the relationship between these two different kinds of people can be, and it is often the beta who is hurt and unsatisfied in their relationships.
☑️ There are two beliefs that are often found in BDSM relationships, and they are the main reasons that make most betas tolerate unhealthy relationships and refuse to let go of their alphas, regardless of how much they suffer and are hurt.
First Belief - The power of goodness and dedication prevail over all.
The belief is that their goodness and dedication over time will eventually win the heart of their Alphas. They believe that one day the Alpha will recognize the beta's goodness and change their behavior accordingly, aligning with the ideal and proper ways it should be.
" Someday, you will treat me the way it should be. Someday, you will listen to me the way it should be. Someday, you will care about me the way it should be. Someday, you will love me the way it should be. "
But for alphas, the way 'betas think' they deserve is not the way things should really be. That's why their demands are never met.
Second Belief - Pretending to be stupid is a smart move.
Pretending to be ignorant, pretending not to know, and pretending not to see the wrongdoings that the Alpha engages in is a clever strategy to sustain a long-lasting relationship. This approach enables the betas to extend the duration of their relationship, as they hope to have more time to make positive contributions to win alpha's hearts. They anticipate that, eventually, their Alphas will develop empathy, appreciate their efforts, and modify their behavior to align with the desires and aspirations of the betas.
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
Alpha is always one step ahead because they are aware of Beta's beliefs right from the start. Beta is like an open book, easy to read, control, and persuade.
What most Alphas always do is:
Support and affirm Beta's beliefs.
" I can change, but it takes time. Everything can change for the better, but changing a person requires significant effort. Goodness will ultimately prevail, but perhaps not today or tomorrow." (not today, tomorrow, next year, or even in the next 3, 5, or 10 years.)
" Smart people don't have to pretend to know everything. Silence is a clever expression too. "
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
The truth is...
☑️ Goodness doesn't win everything.
☑️ To pretend to be stupid is to show that you are really stupid.
" Pretending to be ignorant for years, wasting time hoping that someone who treats you poorly will eventually treat you well, and investing 3-5 years of expectations into just a single day when your alpha will value you the way you desire, is a clear demonstration of foolishness. Don't continue pretending to be ignorant for an extended period, as it can ultimately transform you into a genuinely unintelligent person. "
_________ Scarlett Saphira
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
How can a foolish man be truly admired?
No matter how long one pretends to be foolish to sustain a relationship, it is crucial to cease this behavior and strive for personal growth. Only by doing so can one enable others to recognize their true value.
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
Chapter #2