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What makes one weak?
Why I ask this question so tactlessly? Simply because the perception of ones weaknesses can help a person to perform his goals and realize a cherished dream. The analogy is rather simple. If you know your strengths, you can easily figure out the areas of knowledge, where you feel yourself confident. You start having a chance to develop yourself. We often make our life choices paying attention to our strengths, for instance, when we choose career, take part in competitions, enter into argument with somebody etc. Your strength allow you to feel yourself a happy and successful person. It gives you a sense of full life. But, strength is always like that - forceful and convincing, but what about weak sides of character?
Weaknesses are also important. When you finally know your strength, take your time and analyze your weaknesses. It is the key for understanding and excepting yourself. Don't try to avoid the weaknesses of your character. Don't try to create a picture of omnipotent. Sooner or later they come into surface, usually in the most awkward situations, leading to a complete frustration. Don't try to limit your activity to only your strengths, let your weakness display. Analyze, make a plan on weaknesses liquidation.
As any human being I also have strong and weak sides of character. Among the weak one I would definitely name excessive sensitivity, mistrustfulness and a set of fears (oh, how one can go without them?). But having weakness doesn't mean being a weak man. The only thing that it means is the need of self-work.
Be honest with yourself. You can listen to the opinions of people, but you have to remember, no one knows you better that you yourself. The answer to the question 'what makes one weak' is pretty obvious. It is we ourselves, our idleness, reluctance to work and lack of self-faith.
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Yesterday was pretty rough. I had a friend tell me some stuff that they honestly felt about me and it made me question everything and my interactions with a lot of people. I am dramatic and possibly toxic to a lot of people. I keep to myself and don't burden others with my problems, I have been pretty self sufficient but perhaps I am unloading on others more than I ever realized. It is unfortunate and requires a lot of self work,