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-Dave Weinbaum

 

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Name: Tess Holliday

From: Mississippi - US

Horoscope: Cancer

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I was holding the camera up on my knee, aiming down. When I checked the view screen, this is what I got. Hey, I'm not going to argue with my camera.

Mad love to Zoe Ligon of Spectrum Boutique.

 

I was delighted to come across her shop and find a variety of affordable adult toys and self care products. We're almost all adults here, so we all should know that our sexual health is just as important in the vast Spectrum of what it is we call our personal Health. Anyway, I had problems with shipping to Guam (you know this too), so I shot an email to Zoe to see if we could work things out - and we did! She responded quickly and sweetly to my needs and has helped to make me a much happier woman.

 

SI yu'us ma'ase!

Short Hair, Don't Care.

“He was not bone and feather but a perfect idea of freedom and flight, limited by nothing at all”

~ Richard Bach

Instagram: @tessholliday

Name: Tess Holliday

From: Mississippi - US

Horoscope: Cancer

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I have no room in my life for narcissists, cancerous, toxic, and negative people. I am also done tolerating toxic people for others and in turn, making my friends tolerate them too. Enough is enough. I release all energies that are no longer in service to my greatest good.

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Instagram: @tessholliday

Name: Tess Holliday

From: Mississippi - US

Horoscope: Cancer

“If you risk nothing, then you risk everything.” – Geena Davis

Instagram: @tessholliday

Name: Tess Holliday

From: Mississippi - US

Horoscope: Cancer

"The purpose of art is washing the dust of daily life off our souls."

 

Pablo Picasso

The most commonly asked question about DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is, "Why didn't she just leave?" which I answer clearly on my blog of the same title, which can be read on my Amazon Author Page at bit.ly/thebeastiloved And for those involved in an abusive relationship, I recommend the other blog on that page, "Don't Believe the Con Man" which spells out clearly why you must leave those relationships immediately.

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“The vibrations you receive when the cat purrs on your lap are of contentment and pure love.”

 

-St. Francis of Assisi

This isn’t one of my daily subverted #selfies. Although it could be. That post will come later, & I promise to try & keep it lighter.

 

I wanted to address the 3 #breakdowns I’ve had this week, 2 of which ended up being captured on my @instagram #story #reels: 1 on Sunday night, & 1 yesterday afternoon. I had a 3rd today but I didn’t record it, although I snapped a couple of snapshots as I knew I wanted to #write about it. And yeah it does feel really fuckin’ weird to #record & #photograph yourself #sobbing.

 

I know these are #heavy. The #sobbing in my reels came about as I was talking about my shit. It could have been so easy to stop recording, but I didn’t. I know it looks like #attention seeking, & it appears #desperate, selfish, #manipulative, & like I’m just seeking #pity, #sympathy or just #likes & #follows.

 

I’m not.

 

I’m just trying to convey how the #depressed #brain can get stuck focussing on #negativity, to the point where one feels like they’ve been robbed of all #optimism. There’s also been a degree of #curiosity, wanting to be able to look back in these experiences one day when I’m in a stronger & more balanced state of being. Thankfully, the #mind can be #reframed to recognize the positive, and to breakdown #challenges into manageable tasks but this does take time.

 

Having said all that though, I do think it’s important to note that during yesterday’s breakdown, I ended up chatting with a friend of mine who said “…if you love to live in self pity no one is going to care about you.” That hit close to home and it made me respond in a rather snarky manner. I was offended and responded that I wasn’t living in self pity, but at times in a state of self hatred & loathing that comes on strong from time to time.

 

“I’m not worth pity,” was my ultimate response to her, to which I deservedly received an emoji side eye 😒.

 

#SelfLove is something I’ve always #struggled with. I’m trying, but my monkey mind often finds it easier to harshly #criticize myself to the point of #paralysis than being gentle. It’s why reframing has been such an important focus of mine in recent weeks, as I try to pick up the shattered pieces of my #life from the side of the #highway.

 

Jerry Useem, writing for @theatlantic on February 8, 2021 in an article called “Bring Back the Nervous Breakdown: It used to be okay to admit that the world had simply become too much.” Useem describes how the use of the word phrase NERVOUS BREAKDOWN first came about in 1935, during a time when “Unemployment in America stood at 20 percent. A potential polio vaccine was failing trials. The term Dust Bowl made its first appearance in newsprint. A thousand-mile storm carried away much of Oklahoma… as widespread as the common cold and the chiefest source of misery in the modern world.” Anyone could be susceptible; it could be precipitated by nearly anything, and it prevented one “from carrying on the business of normal living.” Resolution of the breakdown entailed a time-out…”

 

Over time, Useem also notes how, “…by the mid-1960s… the concept was getting pushed to the margins by the rise of mass-market, prescription-driven psychiatry… The developing field had little use for an affliction that could be treated without the assistance of physicians. Diseases like major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder—diagnosed and treated by specialized doctors dispensing specialized drugs—replaced the nervous-breakdown catchall. This did quite a bit of good: Many people with psychological ailments gained access to medical treatments that could be effective. But something important was lost… (Ultimately), the nervous breakdown provided sanction for a pause and reset that could put you back on track.”

 

So if you see someone like me posting about my suffering know that it’s ok to experience suffering. But maybe suffering is a harsh word - feel free to substitute it with the term dissatisfaction. It’s okay to be dissatisfied, it’s ok to be overwhelmed, it’s ok to breakdown sobbing. Don’t let seeing that be a point of judgment… that was a key takeaway in the mental health first aid course I took this week with @stjohnambulancebc … to listen non-judgmentally.

 

Also, for those not trained in mental health first aid, it’s also okay to ask how someone’s doing without feeling like they don’t have any answers to give to help someone out. You don’t need to have any answers at all. Sometimes, just asking how someone is doing is more than enough.

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