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The text for this post I received as an email attachment, and I thought I would add to its shelf life, by paying tribute to my oldest childhood friend Rayomand Framroze ..we were three actually Rayo , Vimal from Sri Lanka and late Keith Kanga of Atomic Forest.

 

Rayo stayed at Khatau Road close to Wodehouse Road ..We Keith , Vimal and I stayed at Jony Castle..it was called Khatau Bhuvanwhen we were young.

 

Vimal stayed on the second floor in a house that belonged to Gazdar Jewellers Taj Mahal Hotel.Vimal and Keith were on the same wing..Keith's father Dossabhai Kanga a Parsi magnate owned the entire ground floor of their wing.

 

I stayed in the adjoining wing that was completely owned by late Nawab Kashmiri, we stayed in two room spacious servants quarters on rent ..1955 or before., I am bad with dates

  

I have not met Rayo for several years , but we connect more efficiently now that he is on Facebook.as Ray Framroze .

 

Rayo is in the white shirt ,I am in dungarees and a red scarf.. this is a very old timeless treasure of a memory...but he is now the quintessentially nomadic Bawa of Mumbai...

 

So read the attachment ..

 

A SALUTE TO THE PARSIS-A heritage to treasure

  

A SALUTE TO THE PARSIS ( An abstract from a leading Indian publication)

 

No Indian community internalised the civilizing mission of the British

As did the Parsis. Only 50,000 remain in Bombay today, mainly in South

Bombay, the most disciplined and cultured part of India.

 

In South Bombay, the cutting of lanes by drivers is punished, jumping

A red light is impossible, parking is possible only in allotted areas,

Roads are clean, service is efficient, the restaurants are unmatched -

Civilization seems within reach. South Bombay has some of the finest

Buildings in India, many of them built by Parsis.

 

The Parsis came to Bombay after Surat's port silted over in the 17th

Century. Gerald Aungier settled Bombay and gave Parsis land for their

Tower of Silence on Malabar Hill in 1672. The Parsis made millions

Through the early and mid-1800s and they spent much of it on public

Good.

 

Hindu philanthropy means building temples. They do not understand

Social philanthropy.

 

The Parsis built libraries all over India, the Birlas built 3 temples

In Hyderabad, Jaipur and Delhi. The Parsis built the National Gallery

Of Art, the Ambanis built Dhirubhai Ambani International School, where

Fees are Rs. 348,000 (US $8,000 a year in a country where per capita

Income is $ 600 per year) and where the head girl is Mukesh Ambani's

Daughter.

Mukesh Ambani is worth US$ 43 billion and the world's 5th richest man.

His brother Anil is sixth on the list, worth US$ 42 billion.

  

In the US John D Rockefeller spent millions educating black women and

Eradicating hookworm disease. He built the University of Chicago,

Johns Hopkins School of Public Health and Rockefeller University. He

Gave away $550 million ($13.5 billion in today's money) over the

Years, always setting aside 10 per cent of his earnings. The

Kingfisher Mallyas gilded the insides of the Tirupati temple with

Gold.

  

Bill Gates (who is 53) has given away $25 billion to combat malaria

And poverty. In 2006, Warren Buffet gave away $30 billion to charity,

The largest donation in history.

 

Lakshmi Mittal, the fourth richest richest man in the world says he's

Too young to think of charity... He's 57 and worth $45 billion.

 

The Hindu's lack of enthusiasm for philanthropy is cultural. The Hindu

Cosmos is Hobbesian and the devotee's relationship with God is

Transactional. God must be petitioned and placated to swing the

Universe's' blessings towards you and away from someone else. They

Believe that society has no role in your advancement and there is no

Reason to give back to it because it hasn't given you anything in the

First place.

 

Two centuries of British education was unable to alter this. The

Parsis understood that philanthropy - love of mankind - recognizes

That we cannot progress alone. That there is such a thing as the

Common good. They spent as no Indian community had on building

Institutions, making them stand out in a culture whose talent lies in

Renaming things other people built.

 

The Indian Institute of Science was built in 1911 by Jamshedji

Nusserwanji Tata, the Tata Institute of Fundamental Research was built

By Dr Homi Bhabha, the Tata Institute of Social Science was built in

1936 by the Sir Dorabji Tata Trust.

 

The Wadias built hospitals, women's colleges and the five great

Low-income Parsi colonies of Bombay. JJ Hospital and Grant Medical

College were founded by Sir Jamsetjee Jejeebhoy. By 1924, two out of

Five Indians - whether Hindu, Muslim or Parsi - joining the Indian

Civil Services were on Tata scholarships.

 

The Parsis patronized art and culture. They gave Bombay Jehangir Art

Gallery, Sir JJ School of Art and Taraporevala Aquarium. The National

Center for Performing Arts, the only place in India where world-class

Classical concerts are held is a gift of the Tatas.

 

There are 161 Friends of the Symphony Orchestra of India

(www.soimumbai. In).. Ninety-two of them are Parsi. For an annual fee

Of Rs 10,000, Friends of the SOI get two tickets to any one recital in

The season, they get to shake hands with artistes after the concert

And they get to attend music appreciation talks through the year.

 

Donations of Rs. 1 million to the Tirupati Temple (www.tirumala. org)

will bring the donor and his family three days of darshan in the year,

one gold coin with the lord's portrait and 20 laddoos.

 

They know who their gift is for - not society - and so diamonds and

gold are the preferred offerings, things that cannot be used other

than as ornamentation to prettify the deity. The temple's budget for

2007-8 was Rs 9 billion (Rs 904 crore/ US $193 million!!!).

 

The Parsi dominates high culture in Bombay and this means that a

concert experience in the city is unlike that in any other part of

India. Classical concerts in Bombay are always full in halls that can

seat as many as two thousand.

 

Zubin Mehta, the most famous Parsi in the world, is in Bombay this

month for a series of concerts. Mehta, director of the Israel

Philharmonic Orchestra since 1969, will conduct the tenor Placido

Domingo, the pianist Daniel Barenboim and the soprano Barbara

Frittoli. Four concerts will be held at the Jamshed Bhabha Opera House

and then one at Brabourne Stadium with a capacity of 25,000.

 

No other city in India has this appetite for classical music and in

Bombay this comes from the Parsi. Despite their tiny population, the

Parsi presence in a concert hall is above 50 per cent. And they all

come. Gorgeous Parsi girls in formal clothes - saris, gowns -

children, men and the old. Many have to be helped to their seats. Most

of them know the music.

 

The people who clap between movements, thinking that the 'song' is

over, are non-Parsis. Symphony Orchestra of India concerts begin at

7pm. Once the musicians start, latecomers must wait outside till the

movement ends. The end of each movement also signals a fusillade of

coughs and groans, held back by doddering Parsis too polite to make a

sound while Mendelssohn is being played. No mobile phone ever goes off

as is common in cinema halls: his neighbors are aware of the Parsi's

insistence of form and his temper.

 

The Parsis were also pioneers of Bombay's Gujarati theatre, which

remains the most popular form of live entertainment in Bombay. Any

week of the year will see at least a half dozen bedroom comedies,

murder mysteries, love stories and plays on assorted themes on stage.

The Parsis were the pioneers of this, writing and acting in the first

plays of Bombay. They also built the institutions that supported this.

Bombay's first theatre was opened by Parsis in 1846, the Grant Road

Theatre, donations from Jamshetjee Jejeebhoy and Framjee Cowasjee

making it possible.

 

The Parsi in Bollywood caricature is a comic figure, but always

honest, and innocent as Indians believe Parsis generally to be,

rightly or wrongly.

 

In the days before modern cars came to India the words 'Parsi-owned'

were guaranteed to ensure that a second-hand car listed for sale would

get picked up ahead of any others. This is because people are aware of

how carefully the Parsi keeps his things. His understanding and

enthusiasm of the mechanical separates him from the Hindu, whose

horror of it comes from his culture. Most of the automobile magazines

in India are owned and edited by Parsis.

 

The Parsis are a dying community and this means that more Parsis die

each year than are born (Symphony concert-goers can also discern the

disappearing Parsi from the rising numbers of those who clap between

movements).

 

As the Parsis leave, South Bombay will become like the rest of Bombay

- brutish, undisciplined and filthy. The British left when they had

to, but they left some of their civilisation behind and the best of it

remains in the possession of this great Indian community, the Parsis!

 

Preserve this race.....

You are privileged if you have A Parsi Bawa as your friend......He is indeed a "Heritage" to treasure.

             

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