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Sim/Place: Fantasy Faire - Willows of Niena (April 2018)
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I stumbled upon a topic on 'Gaslighting' recently and after reading about it a lot, man I felt it to my core! So I'd like to share with everyone. I know not everyone will read it but that's okay. Sharing is always caring. (^_^)
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Did you ever question whether or not you were the toxic one in that relationship?
Did they have you thinking that, you were the one manipulating?
That you were the one hurting them?
That you were the one making mistakes?
Did they reverse everything around on you.. when you bring up issues?
Did they say that you were the issue.. your reaction was the issue?
Rather than the thing that they did.. in order to avoid having to discuss it or take responsibility for it?
Did they always make you feel like everything wrong in relationship is your fault?
And when they sense they are losing you.. that's when the love bombing begins.
They will shower you with love, thoughts and words. Anything they can do to shift your emotions back to being on them.
They temporary become everything you want them to be in order to get you to forgive them or accept them back.
And as soon as you do, you can be sure all the old behaviours is on his way back almost instantly.
That's Gaslighting!
This will leave you empty and can also makes you feel unworthy.
It will hurt so bad but you have to walk away for your own peace.
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ā«ā« when you go ā«ā«
When you go,
if you go,
And I should want to die,
there's nothing I'd be saved by
more than the time
you fell asleep in my arms
in a trust so gentle
I let the darkening room
drink up the evening, till
rest, or the new rain
lightly roused you awake.
I asked if you heard the rain in your dream
and half dreaming still you only said, I love you.
Picture taken in Relax Relax
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HAIR.ā„Doux || Valeria Hairstyle at Level
GLASSES.ā„Moncada Paris || Nicky Minaj V2 Eyewear
OUTFIT.ā„Little Fox || Tessa Ribbed Dress at Kustom9 (Jun. '22) then Mainstore
BAG.ā„Movement || Folded Wallet
POSE.ā„Lyrium || Bea Breathing / Static Stand Set at Mainstore
.::WoW Skins::. YAIZA skin @ WOW Skin mainstore
[PureRich] STELLA-{Jewel}-{Hand} @ Purerich Mainstore
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Texture with thanks to Kerstin Franks Art. :)