How do I know what my boundaries are?

Been out of pocket from SL quite a bit over past months. Felt like trying something inspired from RL (...a lil 50 shades of something)

 

Used my tablet, drew all hair, eyebrows & shadows/shading from scratch, no brushes used.

 

Skin: Glam Affair December II (post-processed alot-a-bit)

 

Raw Image

Done