New Year Couples Chastity Challenge

Mel and I have been married for 5 years. We were kinky when we met and we’ve been kinky all along. As we have gotten older and the sex drive and stamina have lost a little ground, we have become more and more into Chastity Play.

 

Denial and teasing so much sweeter now that we are no longer in multiple times a day lifestyle. Our Chastity play has moved more and more into the Chastity fetish world and we both have fantasy’s about being kept in chastity for long periods. (but we never go very long) The idea always excites both of us and we sometime talk about it while making love right up to spectacular climaxes. The concept really turns our cranks.

 

We both have Chastity belts and we play with them for days here and there. I generally am locked in Chastity more than Mel, because in addition to our play times, I spend 5 days in chastity every month. Two years ago it was decided by Mel that as long as she is “trapped” with pads and tampons, that anytime she has her period, I should also not be sexually active with her or myself. So when her period comes, I get locked up until it’s over.

 

The longest time I ever spend consecutively in chastity days came because of a fight during the time I was locked up because of her period. I was acting grumpy about being locked up in a non-sexual time. She got frustrated with me and told me that I cannot act that way. She added one full week of chastity to the end of her period and said if it ever happened again, the next time I behave that way, it’s two weeks after her period is over and then THREE if I kept misbehaving during my lock down. Since that threat, I have been a very good boy while in chastity during her periods. It has never happened again. And those 12 days in chastity are the longest I have ever been belted. So the Story of my longest chastity belting is not exciting. But it is a story of a woman using the power of male chastity to better her life. I am very “on guard” to be sensitive and not worry about my own needs during our monthly time.

 

Other times, I am belted several times a month, but mostly as a motivation factor. Mel will say, Go put it on and give me the keys, So I do, Then she will say. “Christmas stuff down from the attic, Lights on the house and yard, go buy a tree put it up and decorate it. When your done, we can talk about the keys.” (so I often spend 1-3 days belted doing her chores). If we are having family or friends come stay with us, I can count on two things: 1) about 5 days before they arrive, I will be belted and told to get the house clean and ready for the guests and 2) The house must be completely spotless and 100% ready before they arrive, or I will spend the visit continued to be belted. Our friends and family falsely believe we live in the cleanest house in town. I am a very good maid while in chastity.

 

The longest Mell was ever belted was sort of a big surprise to both of us. We had been at a summer party where it was her turn to drive home, so she was not supposed to be drinking. After about two hours at the party I saw her pour what looked like her third glass of wine and then spill it. I went over and she was already drunk. When I reminded her that she was supposed to drive, she said she forgot. Then she got close and grabbed my stuff. She said she was sorry and that she was a bad girl who needed to be punished. I was willing to play, although irritated I had to stop drinking. I asked her what did she suggest would correct this behavior. She immediately got giddy and said, “I should be tied up and spanked”. She drew close and nibbled my ear and whispered, “You can gag me and spank me really hard”. I pulled back… “That sounds like what you WANT to do” mmmmm “We need a punishment”, I said. She thought and said: “You could put me in the chastity belt all weekend and tonight I can only give you service with my mouth”. I thought about that and said NO. Not punishment enough. She stopped and looked a little more sober, this time finally realizing that she needed to help me come up with Punishment. She said with reluctance. “10 Days in Chastity”. I thought about that and said, “Agreed, you get 10 days in chastity, but tonight I want make love so your chastity starts tomorrow after you shower. You will give me the keys and you will NOT be unlocked for 10 days” That worked out pretty well because in 11 days I was going on a week -long backpacking trip with the guys, and could let her out before then.

 

The ten days would be her longest. In the past she had done 5 days, once, just to show me how easy it was to do five days. That was back when she wanted me locked down for her 5 day period each month. This time, at three days she really struggled. She was really horny and when she thought about it, she still had an entire week to go. At five days, she realized she was half way there and her attention switched to me, I was getting nightly attention. Anything sexual she could do to me seemed to help her get along. It was amazing!! She was so horny, I could come up behind her on the couch and start to nibble her ear and she would immediately go right to the verge of an orgasm. But she was a penetrative type and could not cum without penetration. Because she could not achieve orgasm with breast or anal or other stimulus, the Chastity Belt was a serious item for her.

 

On days 8 and 9 I was starting to tease her while she took care of me. I would grab and rub her and talk about the chastity to get her all tuned up for Day 10. (right before I was to leave) At some point, I asked her “would you like to be in chastity all the time?” and she started to shake. She stopped and said, “OMG I just came a little”. Wow that was unexpected. The next time I started talking about keeping her in chastity she was crazy horny, and I slapped her bottom. I told her to ask me to keep her denied in a chastity belt for a year. I slapped her bottom again. She said “OK”, she took a few breaths and said “ Please Please won’t you keep me in the Chasssssss…….” Again she started to shake and lost control while she had her 2nd non-penetrative orgasm of her life. She never even finished the sentence to ask me to keep her in chastity for a year. This was getting interesting.

 

Day 10 came and we went to dinner and drank some wine. After the food arrived and our conversation waned, I said. “I wanted to talk to you about chastity in a non sexual moment” She replied “Honey, I don’t have non-sexual moments anymore”. We both laughed.. I said “Seriously, I think you need to be in chastity more, although I miss having you.” “What do you think about that?” She smiled and said “I have been thinking about it too. I want out so bad, but when I think about being locked up for longer I get hotter than any normal horny and I kind of want to stay belted. It doesn’t make any sense, because I really really want out of this chastity belt and to make love to you tonight.”

 

That night I came to bed, without the keys. She didn’t even ask for them. I had a devious plan. I was going to make her beg for them, then I was going to tell her they are hidden. She will have to do certain things in order to earn clues to the keys location. The keys were in the toaster oven. She would never look there. I was a cruel and fun plan. It would be familiar to her, because she did exactly the same thing to me more than once at the end of my monthly five days.

 

We started to make out and waited till she was pretty hot and I pulled up and I told her that she needs to ask me. That was all I said. “You need to ask me”. Remember, I was going to make her beg for the keys and make her look all over the house. Much to my surprise, she must have been thinking a lot about the restaurant conversation. I was shocked to see her moving down my body kissing my chest as she got lower and then say: “Please keep me in chastity while you are gone.”

 

 

Wow, that was not what I was expecting, but I sure liked the sound of it.

 

The next day, as I was packing, she was looking sad and frustrated. I looked at her and said “Second Thoughts?” She nodded yes. I said I want this chastity thing to be perfectly Real for you. So beg if you feel you need to beg, (I raised my voice a little and pointed at her) but I am not unlocking you before I leave. I am not giving you the key. You are in chastity till I come back. PERIOD. She protested, “What if there is an emergency”.

 

In the garage is a large black jar on the top of the freezer. The lid has been super glued on. Inside the jar in plastic jar the keys are inside that jar suspended in wax. That lid is super glued on as well. In an emergency you can break both jars and dig the keys out of the wax.

 

It MUST be an emergency. I am serious,(pointing again) a real emergency. Not anything social. It must be Serious Health Issue and life threatening situation. If you have an emergency and have to get the keys, You will explain it to me. If I do not agree that the situation was an emergency, then you go straight back in the belt for a MINIMUM of 30 days and a Maximum of 90 days. I will decide. But 30 days minimum. Do you understand? She did and I could tell she was close to cumming again at the situation.

 

When I returned from the trip, she was still in the belt. I was stinky and gross, and she didn’t care. After I showered and unlocked her for a truly glorious loving event, we both passed out. We got up later in the evening and had a glass of wine and talked. She asked about the trip and I said, I would tell her all about it and show the photos, but I needed to know about her week in Chastity went. She reported that the first day she was so horny that she thought she would die. Then the next day was easier and by the fourth day, she was totally not horny and just annoyed to have a steel chastity belt wrapped around her so she could not ride a bike or go swimming. Then she said about 36 hours before I got home, it started to ramp up and the hours before I got home she was so horny. She had concluded that without me around the chastity belt didn’t work to keep her horny just to keep her from ever doing anything.

 

She finished off by saying the belt was a tough thing to wear long term and she didn’t want to really do 17 days again. I nodded and then said. “Well I really like you in a chastity belt while I am gone, and I want to always do that when I leave”. Her eyes rolled back in her head just a little and I saw a little shake. But her mouth said NO. I asked her again, “Are you sure, I really think we both want you in the chastity belt whenever I am out of town” She rolled her eyes again, shook again and whimpered, “YES, Yes damn-it. I want that too.”

 

These two stories were our biggest Chastity Belt Experiences.

 

We talk a lot about our fantasies and we have a lot of semi-teasing each other with “seriously, I’m going to do that to you some day” and even “someday I’m going to stop switching and go totally Dom on you, You’ll be belted full time and permanently.”

 

Eventually we started talking about setting up something were one of us would experience some serious chastity time. At some point, Mel, said: “I wish there was a way to do this both of us.” At that point we first talked about maybe giving both keys to a friend or another couple. We didn’t really want to share the experience with others. So the idea of The Challenge started to form. Maybe it is more of a contest?

 

Right at New Years when we start the 2020 Valentines Chastity Challenge. The rules are pretty simple. We are both belted and hold the others keys. Either of us can ask for sex at any time and then we both retrieve the keys and both get out and have sex. BUT the catch is, that the person who breaks down and asks to have sex first, will then be chastity belted right after sex and the complete slave to the other person until Valentine’s Day. So one of us will face 5.5 weeks of chastity with only one night of relief somewhere in the middle. While the other will face a certain amount of chastity and then unlimited orgasms while having a full time chastity slave.

 

THE SEVEN RULES of The Valentines Chastity Challenge:

 

1)Both Man and Woman are Chastity Belted on January 1st, 2020

2)They hand each other the opposite’s keys.

3)When one person (loser) can’t wait any longer, they will Present the Keys to the other person and say: “Get my keys and let’s make love, I am your Valentines Toy”

4)Upon turning over the keys and saying the words the other person (Winner) the winner will then get the losers keys and a grand night of love will be had.

5)After the Glory, the Winner will re-Chastity Belt the Loser and take the keys, while the winner remains free of chastity.

6)The loser will remain belted and subservient to the Winner until Valentine’s Day

7)Valentine’s Day, the Loser will be released from Chastity and Subservience.

 

 

THE UNWRITTEN RULES and STRATEGY

 

We have spoken greatly about how all of this will play out. We both think it is likely that one of us cave-in over the first two weeks and then have to spend a month or more in chastity? Or maybe we both go a whole month together and the Loser only does a week or two?. We think it’s more likely that about half way through the challenge, someone will realize, that half way is pretty good and all they have to do is repeat what they just did and they will be ok.

 

Note there are no rules of behavior. Mel has already said, she is going to buy lingerie and fetish items and just wear them around the house all the time to wear me down.

 

We also talked about not having any rules against bluffing. I seriously don’t want to spend 5.5 weeks in chastity, I’m going to get her with a bluff.

 

My plan is on the second Wednesday, I’m going to start talking about how I can’t make it till Saturday. Get her all going and then Thursday do the same thing. I will make her believe that I have already decided I can’t make it past Saturday and I’m going to hand her the keys on Saturday.

 

Then Friday, I’m going to jingle the keys in my pocket and talk about how I don’t think I can make it to Saturday. I’m going to get her completely horny. I’m going to ask her things all week like: “You won’t be too cruel to your toy will you?” I am going to make her believe that I plan on giving up on Saturday. I’m going to talks about chastity craziness and kiss and caress her as much as I can all week. By Saturday she will be completely ready for sex. Then, I am going to back out and tell her I won’t give up, she might just cave in, right on the spot. If she doesn’t I’ll start to tell her about how I plan to tease and torment her while she is my slave. That might push her over.

 

Bondage, teasing and spanking are all must be consensual. Those techniques are legal to use, so we must be careful. I know for a fact I will not let her tie me to the spanking bench. She is too cruel with that paddle. She always gets what she wants with the paddle. She will win, if I allow myself to be strapped to the spanking bench, so I certainly won’t let her spank me during the challenge.

 

So we are ready to go.

 

Done