The Wedding Planner (Plan)

Elin and I had been dating for 4 years. We had a fun relationship. Very kinky and playful. Over time she began to enjoy being the DOM more and I was more and more into the role of SUB.

 

Still we took turns spanking each other and putting each other in handcuffs. I guess what really started the change was the Chastity Play. When she got me into the chastity belt, it was like a horny machine for her. She would lock me up on a Friday and keep me locked up all weekend. Those weekends she would require my attention many many times more than if we were just having a normal weekend.

 

The chastity play grew from weekends to full weeks. Eventually going three weeks at one point. I was so horny I actually asked her to tie me up and spank me, just for the sexual attention. As it turned out, I never asked that again, as she ended up loving the activity. She spanked me right to her climax. While I did not enjoy the intensity of the thrashing my bottom received.

 

But that day opened the door to more spanking, as she had never realized that she could get off on spanking me into tears. Over the next six months she used the spanking bench to get me to change the kind of car I was going to buy, change my vacation plans and most importantly, get me to commit to painting the house the color she wanted. When the deadline to have the house painted came, and I was not done with the trim, I thought it was no big deal. Let's just say that I finished the house trim with a very sore bottom and the resolve to never miss a deadline again.

 

While this might sound terrible, at the same time something WONDERFUL was happening. You see, I am a Sweater Fetish Guy. When she wears a thick knit sweater or makes me wear a fuzzy sweater, then the world is PERFECT. I love to shop for sweaters for her, and any sweater activity. I am overjoyed to have sex in sweaters.

 

While previously, I was always asking and begging her to wear more sweaters, since the time that she started getting into the chastity and spanking stuff, she has also been more into wearing sweaters. I think the trade off is good. She knows she is doing it for me and I love it.

 

So that brings me to this photograph I have posted. One Fall day, we were checking out wedding places in South Carolina for a May 1st Wedding. We were in a cafe talking about the wedding on a cool fall day. She was wearing the sweater you see in the photo with jeans. I loved it.

 

I kept interrupting our planning with "I love that sweater" and reaching over the table to touch it. She was getting a little annoyed.

 

Elin then said, "Fine, let's talk about my dress, if you are only focused on what I am wearing"

 

I agreed and blurted out, "Why don't you wear that sweater, it's white! and it won't be too warm on May 1st." I smiled knowing that what I said was so ridiculous, it was funny, but at the same time, it made my pants move.

 

She paused and thought. She then said that this was an interesting idea. Maybe it was a way to tie up some other things that she had been thinking about with the wedding plans.

 

OH MY GOD, She is considering getting married in a thick fuzzy sweater!! I LOVE HER. She paused more and continued.

 

I've been thinking a lot about our wedding and how I think a wedding should really set the tone for the marriage. So I would seriously consider making a wedding dress that features this sweater.

 

I was going to pass out with excitement. She continued.

 

I know how important it would be to you to not just marry your sweater girl, but to have a big fuzzy sweater girl across the alter from you.

 

There are things that are important to me too. Things that I want in the marriage and things I think should be included in the wedding as well.

 

So here is our plan. On April 1st, you go into the chastity belt and you will stay in the chastity belt, without relief until 6 months after the wedding. Now I want you to pay careful attention to that language. April 1st in the chastity belt and not out again until 6 months after the wedding. So if for any reason the wedding is post-poned, you STAY BELTED until 6 months after the wedding. Sort of my "cold feet insurance".

 

Also understand that during this time, I will not be able to manage your behavior, by withholding sex or teasing you. Your behavior and my expectations will be managed with the paddle. At least Monthly you will be strapped down for a review. This could change to weekly, but we can see how that goes.

 

So that's it babe. That is my proposal. I think it does two great things, 1) I demonstrate to you my absolute commitment to being your sweater girl for life and 2) Our marriage starts on a foundation of you under my control, but as your choice, and managed with a chastity belt and paddle.

 

How does that sound?

 

My pants showed at at least part of me approved. Well I don't have to tell you my answer, The photo above is one of our wedding photographer photos.

 

We did it. She wore the sweater all day and night at the reception and I was belted for a month before and six months after.

 

I should note, our wedding was unusually warm and she always had the sweater on. She made sure on our wedding night my butt paid the price for her discomfort.

 

The 7 months in chastity was grueling. But now two years later, I am so happy we did it. The wedding plan really set up the whole marriage and we are both happy.

 

 

 

Done