Cao 018

Sorry for the picture repost, yesterday, for the first time, someone posted something very negative about me, and frankly, it hurt. It’s the little ugly hearted people that were the reason I quit Second Life the first time. So for myself, I am facing this issue for once because this world is filled with bullies and I am just so sick of it. Here was the post:

 

“Cao, Are you really so stupid? Are you really that dumb!!! ll you are so dumb you are really dumb!!! How can you help the Humanity??? You need to bang your head against a wall!!! AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH AH You're not a model. You're just some random scene girl.”

 

My answer to this person:

 

I have to admit, this rant caused me great pause. I smiled and walked away, but *sigh* even though the coward later deleted it, I just can’t let it go. First of all, if you are on my friends list, and we know you are, please delete me because I don’t need a friend like you. I won’t bother you ever, because honestly? I surround myself with better. This is a Second Life, not my first. Why would I want this, well this crap, around me?

 

If it is dumb to be encouraging and caring to others, well, yes, then I am dumb.

 

If it is dumb to be a happy sort of person instead of melodramatic, hateful and spiteful, um, yes, then I am dumb.

 

If it is dumb to just truly love people, in spite of our differences, yes, again dumb, dumb Cao.

 

If it is dumb to model for fun and not to win, well, then yes, I am extremely stoopid.

 

If it is dumb to want to help others because as a person who has much to be thankful for and knows so many others who do not, well, yes, frankly I am an idjit of major proportions.

 

If you are dumb enough to think I am not a model, that’s your short-sightedness, not mine. I have a portfolio, friends, photographers, and designers who say otherwise.

 

If you are dumb enough to think I am a “scene girl,” I beg you to look up the definition, because the word in no way applies. I am not annoying, slutty, insecure, immature or in any way promiscuous, which makes me wonder about the person who went out of their way to make the sordid comment…..

 

To my friends, here, in SL and on Facebook, I thank you for the friends you are.

Done