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Memorial to Grace Sutton - Stockton Parish Church

"Sacred to the memory of Grace Sutton, wife of George Sutton, of Stockton, Esq.

 

Who resigned a life passed in the exercise of every Christian virtue, on the 17th of January 1814, in the 57th year of her age. She was fervent in her devotion, unbounded in her benevolence, personally administering to the wants, and consoling the sufferings of the afflicted: thus zealously endeavouring to fulfil her duty to her God and to her neighbour. To perpetuate the memory of this estimable woman, her female friends in this place have united to erect this tablet, as a recording homage of esteem and veneration for private worth from public affection."

 

Grace Sutton d. 1814 (by Benjamin and Robert Shout - Pevsner)

 

From The Annals of Stockton by Henry Heavisides, 1865

 

"GEORGE WILLIAM SUTTON,

 

Born at Stockton in 1802, was the eldest son of John

Hutchinson, Esq., previonsly noticed in these pages. He

was educated at Oxford, and after having received a good

education, he took the tour of Europe, accompanied by his

tutor, Mr. Jackson, and his favourite groom, Mr. Henry

Smith. His grand-uncle, George Sutton, Esq., dying without

issue, Feb. 14th, 1817, at the advanced age of eighty- two,

bequeathed his estates to the subject of this brief memoir ;

and on Sutton's return to England, he married, on the 21st

of April, 1824, Olivia, second daughter of Henry Stapvlton,

Esq., of Norton, senior, male descendant of the anoient family

of •Stapylton of Slyton, and had issue two sons and three

daughters.

 

On his marriage, Sutton and his bride took up their

residence at Hardwick Hall, Sedgfield, and on obtaining

possession of bis estates in 1825, be removed to Elton Hall,

near Stockton. He bad a fine taste for poetry and general

literature. He was, moreover, a tolerable Latin scholar, and

while he resided at Elton he published, for private distribution,

a volume of poems, entitled "The Slop Basin," comprising

various effusions, which be designated his " Poetical Slops."

He was also an excellent letter writer. I enjoyed a long

epistolary correspondence with him, and have a large collec-

tion of his letters written on various subjects. The style of

his epistles was somewhat Byronic — it was pithy, racy, and to

the purpose. When dining with him once at Elton Hall, I

entirely forgot to deliver a letter with which I had been

entrusted by his worthy friend, Henry Faber, Esq., solicitor,

and on Sutton being informed by that gentleman of my

extreme carelessness, he sent me the following note, ap-

parently delighted at the circumstance: —

 

" Elton Hall, Wednesday Evening,

March 11, 1840.

Dear Heayisides, —

 

You are a poet and nothing else. A pretty fellow you are, at

fifty years of age, to let Poesy make you forget the letter entrusted to you

by friend Faber, who must have considered your head more trustworthy

than his own. When he related to me, on Monday last, your for-

getfulness, I told him jour soul was above briefs and every thing litigious-

What a piece of bardish carelessness it was on your part. Wordsworth is

not to be trusted with anything. Indeed all men of mind and genius are

oblivious at times. I am delighted with you ! You must be a true poet in

every sense. If you had remembered the letter, I would not have given a

curse for you. I would have thought no more of it than you did the

moment I breathed the air of the fields. The poet Scott, being a legal

chip, might perhaps have remembered " the crack of the whip ;" but

Byron, Moore, and Coleridge, would alike have left it to its fete. Burns

would have lighted his pipe with it, and Bloomfield used it for the vilest

purpose. Altogether I'm delighted. You have now proved yourself a true

son of Parnassus. I venture to say, my worthy friend will not make a

scrivener's errand boy of a poet again. I have laughed heartily at the

affair, by which you have done more for your poetical character than the

writing of a thousand ' Homes ' could have done for you.

Health and fraternity,

 

Yours very truly,

 

G. W. SUTTON."

 

By this awkward affair being treated in so jocular a manner,

I got well over it, though I considered such a piece of negli-

gence at my* age almost unpardonable.

 

I deem it necessary to say, that Mr. Sutton occasionally,

when excited, laboured under slight mental aberration; but

-when not afflicted with this sad infirmity, I always found him

a perfect gentleman in his manners. No one ever possessed a

more kind, a more feeling heart, than he had, or displayed a

more frank and generous disposition than he did. " They who

knew him best loved him the most."

 

In the spring of 1852, as Mr. Sutton was returning home in

a gig, accompanied by a groom, the horse attached to the

vehicle took fright, and ran away. The groom immediately

jumped out, but Mr. Sutton sat still ; and the result was, that

he received a severe injury on one of his knee caps, which

ended in his death. This took place on the 17th of April,

1853, after he had been about a year confined to his room, and

had received the best medical aid. He died at 50 years of

age, deeply regretted by every one who knew him. The fol-

lowing unpublished stanzas are from his pen : —

 

(in* Iter fottjr %\tt.

 

" One hour with thee 1 Entrancing thought!

Long wished, long hoped, and vainly sought !

My wild blood rushes warm to trace

The witchery of thy magic face.

My sorrows, griefs, and cares are o'er,

I'll clasp thee to my heart once more !

 

One hour with thee !

 

 

Thou fairest of Eve's loveliest blue-eyed daughters !

 

And have I passed again one hour with thee, *

 

Who now art gazing on the " dark blue " waters

 

Over the bosom of th' unruffled sea P

 

Thy love is worth the wide world's wealth to me,

 

Thy image glides before me in my dreams,

 

And when I heave a deep drawn sigh to thee,

 

Fond recollection o'er my fancy streams,

 

And gilds my wayward path with Hope's prophetic dreams.

 

Hope, did I say ? Yes, Hope shall cheer me still,

The haven of my hopes thy love shall be ;

 

rd anile on mit'iy — neither good nor ill

 

Should erer alienate my heart from thee !

 

Though we be parted by the billowy feea,

 

I'd fix mine aching eyes on one bright star,

 

Breathe fervent blessings on it, call it thee,

 

And echo still should answer from afar,

 

And tell to the load winds how dear to me yon are !"

 

 

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