Bondage on a budget
See www.flickr.com/photos/barryslemmings/352323849/ for the full story.
These are two more of my 'skin toys' for games of tie and tease. The central item is a large koosh ball which I got from Toys R Us about four years ago. I think it cost about £3. It is very soft and cool to the skin and ideal from stroking a partner with. I like all my tools and toys to be dual-use so the koosh ball also doubles as a piece of safety equipment.
Most consensual BDSM people have a 'safe word' which stops play. You never use 'no' or 'stop' as a safeword as many submissives like to beg for mercy when really they are enjoying what is happening. So the stop word is normally an unusual word like rhubarb, custard or else they use the well established 'traffic light' code of green, amber, red.
Red means stop, amber means slow down or ease up and green means keep going. However if the submissive wants to be gagged, stop words or safe words become impossible. When a gag is being used the koosh ball is put into the submissive's open hand. If she then wants to say 'red' she simply drops the koosh ball with a rubbery thud and the game stops immediately. [hint: in a noisy nightclub replace the koosh ball with about six inches of noisy silver chain instead].
The black and blue pads are two 'Bluehawk' textured paint brushes and are another fun toy. Dusted with a little talcum powder they just glide over the back or body like a cool mink glove. These are normally used to put the swirls into 'Artex' ceilings but as a sex toy it is your partner who will be in a swirl. Find them in DIY stores among the 'plastering' or 'textured paint' tools.
Bondage on a budget
See www.flickr.com/photos/barryslemmings/352323849/ for the full story.
These are two more of my 'skin toys' for games of tie and tease. The central item is a large koosh ball which I got from Toys R Us about four years ago. I think it cost about £3. It is very soft and cool to the skin and ideal from stroking a partner with. I like all my tools and toys to be dual-use so the koosh ball also doubles as a piece of safety equipment.
Most consensual BDSM people have a 'safe word' which stops play. You never use 'no' or 'stop' as a safeword as many submissives like to beg for mercy when really they are enjoying what is happening. So the stop word is normally an unusual word like rhubarb, custard or else they use the well established 'traffic light' code of green, amber, red.
Red means stop, amber means slow down or ease up and green means keep going. However if the submissive wants to be gagged, stop words or safe words become impossible. When a gag is being used the koosh ball is put into the submissive's open hand. If she then wants to say 'red' she simply drops the koosh ball with a rubbery thud and the game stops immediately. [hint: in a noisy nightclub replace the koosh ball with about six inches of noisy silver chain instead].
The black and blue pads are two 'Bluehawk' textured paint brushes and are another fun toy. Dusted with a little talcum powder they just glide over the back or body like a cool mink glove. These are normally used to put the swirls into 'Artex' ceilings but as a sex toy it is your partner who will be in a swirl. Find them in DIY stores among the 'plastering' or 'textured paint' tools.