Day 226: Attachment.

So I'm not so lucky in love, and always experience unrequited love, all this is because of my next secret...

 

My 14th secret is this: I get too attached too easily. Emotional attachment.

 

It's just the way I have always been. Getting too attached to guys when they pay the slightest bit of attention to me, I grab hold of it and it scares them. And then unrequited love is the result. So yup.

 

I've been told countless amount of times not to get too emotionally attached. Ivy always tells me and reminds me of this.

 

And thus, I always refer to Proverbs 4:23 "Guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life". Time and time, when I need reminding, somehow, somewhere, miraculously this verse pops up. And my guess is, it's God reminding me.

 

Because a lot of the time I don't guard my heart. And then I get too attached to some guy. And then it messes me up.

 

In uni I did a module called "Communicating in relationships". And basically it was more psychological than anything. And my problem with attachment can be explained by the Attachment Theory table [which I totally agree applies to me, personally, and perhaps my sisters too....].

 

So that concludes the three secrets relating to the heart. My heart. Three juicy secrets. I believe there's a reason for my attachment problem. But God is working something out :)

 

For the rest of this month of May, I have decided to take this opportunity to do the

30 SECRETS IN 30 DAYS challenge! I will tell you my secrets. Day-by-day :) Ok, some may seem like facts, but they're still things not many people know about, thus qualifying them to BE secrets. Heh.

Done