Compared to the 1st, the second miscarriage was so much easier physically, but much harder mentally. I felt like a failure. Then I had everyone giving me advice like I should have gotten a D&C, and saying things like 3rd time's a charm, and asking what I was going to do now. It's now 3 years later and I still don't know what I want to do, I do want to give it another whirl, but I feel like I've let myself go physically and I want be healthy before attempting this. When I got pregnant, I stopped cutting my hair also, it was long then and I used to give it a trim once a month or so. I haven't cut it since.

Plus I'm scared. I don't want to go through another miscarriage, I don't know how I'd handle it.