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King Baby
WHO IS KING BABY?
To understand King Baby, lets imagine for a moment we’re returning to the womb. Here we feel warmth, security, comfort, freedom and power. All our needs are taken care of. We are the center of our universe. We are cared for just because we exist, and we are perfectly content.
Infancy also encourages our King Baby attitudes. Our loud demands for food, attention and care are answered immediately. We are again the center of a vast kingdom; our wishes are all important. Through the natural maturing processes of childhood and adulthood, most of the King Baby mentality is discarded and replaced by appropriate coping skills.
Some of us, however, advanced through the stages of physical growth without shedding this immature creature—King Baby. For us, King Baby never forgets the wonderful, warm security of prenatal and infant life and will try again and again to experience it. King Baby strives to recapture the total contentment of every need being met.
KING BABY CHARACTERISTICS
In attempting to regain the security of infancy, King Babies continue to function with the same feelings that gratified them so long ago. When infantile traits continue into adulthood, the person is spoken of as immature and this immaturity is tied to the traits of feelings of omnipotence, inability to accept frustrations and doing things hurriedly.
King Babies share a wide range of personality traits. None of us has all of these traits, but we will probably find many that describe us. King Babies may show these characteristics:
1.often become angry at or afraid of authority figures and will attempt to work them against each other in order to get their own way.
2.seek approval and frequently lose their own identities in the process
3.are able to make a good first impression but are unable to follow through
4.have difficulty accepting personal criticism and become threatened and angry when criticized
5.have addictive personalities and are driven to extremes
6.are self-rejecting or self-alienated
7.are often immobilized by anger and frustration and are rarely satisfied
8.are usually lonely even when surrounded by people
9.are chronic complainers who blame others for what’s wrong with their lives
10.feel unappreciated and think they don’t fit in
11.see the world as a jungle filled with selfish people who “aren’t there” for them
12.see everything as a catastrophe, a life-and-death situation
13.judge life in absolutes: black or white, right or wrong
14.live in the past while fearful of the future
15.have strong feelings of dependence and exaggerated fears of abandonment
16.fear failure and rejection and don’t try new things that they might not do well
17.dream big plans and schemes and have little ability to make them happen
18.are obsessed with money and material things
19.cannot tolerate illness in themselves or others
20.prefer to charm superiors and intimidate subordinates
21.believe rules and laws are for others, not for themselves
22.often become addicted to excitement, life in the fast lane
23.hold emotional pain within and lose touch with their feelings
King Baby
WHO IS KING BABY?
To understand King Baby, lets imagine for a moment we’re returning to the womb. Here we feel warmth, security, comfort, freedom and power. All our needs are taken care of. We are the center of our universe. We are cared for just because we exist, and we are perfectly content.
Infancy also encourages our King Baby attitudes. Our loud demands for food, attention and care are answered immediately. We are again the center of a vast kingdom; our wishes are all important. Through the natural maturing processes of childhood and adulthood, most of the King Baby mentality is discarded and replaced by appropriate coping skills.
Some of us, however, advanced through the stages of physical growth without shedding this immature creature—King Baby. For us, King Baby never forgets the wonderful, warm security of prenatal and infant life and will try again and again to experience it. King Baby strives to recapture the total contentment of every need being met.
KING BABY CHARACTERISTICS
In attempting to regain the security of infancy, King Babies continue to function with the same feelings that gratified them so long ago. When infantile traits continue into adulthood, the person is spoken of as immature and this immaturity is tied to the traits of feelings of omnipotence, inability to accept frustrations and doing things hurriedly.
King Babies share a wide range of personality traits. None of us has all of these traits, but we will probably find many that describe us. King Babies may show these characteristics:
1.often become angry at or afraid of authority figures and will attempt to work them against each other in order to get their own way.
2.seek approval and frequently lose their own identities in the process
3.are able to make a good first impression but are unable to follow through
4.have difficulty accepting personal criticism and become threatened and angry when criticized
5.have addictive personalities and are driven to extremes
6.are self-rejecting or self-alienated
7.are often immobilized by anger and frustration and are rarely satisfied
8.are usually lonely even when surrounded by people
9.are chronic complainers who blame others for what’s wrong with their lives
10.feel unappreciated and think they don’t fit in
11.see the world as a jungle filled with selfish people who “aren’t there” for them
12.see everything as a catastrophe, a life-and-death situation
13.judge life in absolutes: black or white, right or wrong
14.live in the past while fearful of the future
15.have strong feelings of dependence and exaggerated fears of abandonment
16.fear failure and rejection and don’t try new things that they might not do well
17.dream big plans and schemes and have little ability to make them happen
18.are obsessed with money and material things
19.cannot tolerate illness in themselves or others
20.prefer to charm superiors and intimidate subordinates
21.believe rules and laws are for others, not for themselves
22.often become addicted to excitement, life in the fast lane
23.hold emotional pain within and lose touch with their feelings