命。 Life.

中國人有一句諺語: 認命。

你相信命嗎?

 

近來我覺得做人很難。做女兒, 姊姊, 學生等等... 全都很難啊! >_<

但人生就是這樣的。 有許多很難的決策。 無論我們決定做任何事情, 最終這個決定是好或壞也就是我們的決策。你同意嗎?

 

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"YOLO" is something I learned from my little sister. I do agree with the "Carpe Diem" meaning behind it, but I'm not supporting those who yell out YOLO for every impulse they choose to indulge in.

 

Lately I've been feeling that making life decisions has become harder and harder. It could be that I'm overthinking and thus overburdening myself. But with the many many roles that we play, it's hard to please everyone and not have one party feeling selfish.

 

I've come to think of it like this: There are no "good" or "bad" decisions. Sure, there are situations where doing one thing is very likely to put you in a bad spot, and thus making it a "bad" decision. But I think that we are the ones who make it so. The choice itself is a more or less neutral act, just a "way". Ultimately, it's what we DO after choosing, that makes the decision "good" or "bad". I wonder if I'm getting my point across...

 

Taken at the -other- chinese library at Robarts. There are 2, I've taken a photo at one of them before.

 

[Kodak Portra 400VC @f/2.8]

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