lesson learnt

It seams I am more passable than I think.

While out shopping in my local town I past the florist who happens to sell a lot of vintage style dress (Yes Janet you know the florist) and in the window was flyer for a tea dance to be held locally. I continued shopping and got my bits I went out for and decided as I liked the idea of a tea dance on the way back to pop into the florist and a ask a question.

Now me being the caring sort of person and worry about people's sensibilities I thought it would be prudent to ask if I would be welcome at such an event my being trans and all.

Well the lady was a bit taken aback saying "of course you would be welcome why ever not?" On explaining a second time she said "Had you not told me dear I would never have known"

Well that shocked me and yeah OK she could have just been saying that bit I feel she was being truthful.

So one happy girl walked out clutching a flyer Hell bent on attending the event.

 

The lesson learnt is I have to stop telling people I am trans it doesn't matter.

Done