a whole lotta trouble
A whole lotta trouble!
I could be fooling myself and most probably I am! but just lately my look has really come together to give a passible presentation.
The problem is it comes at a price and the what ifs.
The price is the unsolicited sexual comments from the occasional viewer although on the whole my followers are very polite.
The what ifs are a little more complicated.
Friday night on the way back to my car I got a little attention from a couple of lads calling after what they thought was a girl on her own. this could have turned nasty had they been closer and realised I wasn't what they thought. and this leads onto how would a lad react if he made a move only to discover I was the same as him! Not that that will happen because being 5ft 11in I would be easily read.
Basically the rules change as we develop when we start going out and our look isn't that great the abuse if any we get would be trans related however when the image gets perfected and you become an object of desire the repercussions can be more serious. A guy who tells his mates he like the girl at the bar who turns out to be a guy can only damage the lads ego and that can lead to violence. so do we stay at home? or do we make less of an effort when out? or just avoid mainstream life?
Not that I have ever experienced any bovver but I can see being Helen can at times be a whole lotta trouble.
a whole lotta trouble
A whole lotta trouble!
I could be fooling myself and most probably I am! but just lately my look has really come together to give a passible presentation.
The problem is it comes at a price and the what ifs.
The price is the unsolicited sexual comments from the occasional viewer although on the whole my followers are very polite.
The what ifs are a little more complicated.
Friday night on the way back to my car I got a little attention from a couple of lads calling after what they thought was a girl on her own. this could have turned nasty had they been closer and realised I wasn't what they thought. and this leads onto how would a lad react if he made a move only to discover I was the same as him! Not that that will happen because being 5ft 11in I would be easily read.
Basically the rules change as we develop when we start going out and our look isn't that great the abuse if any we get would be trans related however when the image gets perfected and you become an object of desire the repercussions can be more serious. A guy who tells his mates he like the girl at the bar who turns out to be a guy can only damage the lads ego and that can lead to violence. so do we stay at home? or do we make less of an effort when out? or just avoid mainstream life?
Not that I have ever experienced any bovver but I can see being Helen can at times be a whole lotta trouble.