Quotes By The One And Only Massy Xander

Momento Mori-

Some people live their lives as if each day will be their last.Some approach love the same way,in a desperate attempt to outrun the tiny changes or huge ones that are always looming on each of our horizons.But the sense of urgency that comes from wanting to experience life and love to the fullest can force decisios that are not always in your best intrest or anyone else's,for that matter.In fact,sometimes facing the consequences of your choices can be even worse than death.You may live only once,but you don't necessrily want it to feel like forever.

 

Sometimes You Have To Go It Alone-

No guts,no glory.Like a kamikaze,there are times when you may be required to leave the life you knew behind and give it over to a greater purpose.The costs can be high,to your heart,soul,and reputation.Whether or not what you gain will ultimately outweigh what you gave is impossible to know,and really irrelevant.Your comfort comes in the knowledge that some things are worth sacrificing for.

 

Keep The Change-

Holding on to someone you know you have to let go of is not just a way to delay the inevitable for them,but for yourself,as well.It protects you from having to make the transition you are about to impose until you are good and ready.Like canceling on an out of town guest you've been longing to see,but never quite had the time to plan for,its the convenient,easy way out-for you.

 

I Against I-

We are often so distracted by the internal war between what we want to do and what we have to do that we overlook what we need to do.Not need in the sense of an obligation to others,but in the sense of a compulsion to preserve our own sanity.When doing what others think we should do comes into direct conflict with what our heads or hearts demand,it's time to choose wether our top priority is to please others or to please ourselves.

 

Missed Oppurtunity-

We don't miss what we never had,but we miss terribly things we almost had.And we miss things we used to have most of all.Though we hope and pray for our relationships,our looks,and our lives to improve,having more also means having more to lose.

 

Critical Condition-

just as love blinds us to imperfections in others,it magnifies those we see in ourselves.but if this is true,then the opposite must also be the case.we can take comfort in the fact that our faults will be invisable to those who love us.The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about eachother,but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.

 

thats all i can get for now,my fingers are killing me.

 

all quotes are from the book,Ghostgirl Lovesick by Tonya Hurley,an amazing writer,i love her books <3

 

i hate how this makes her face look filthy >.<

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