Read my Palm What is my Future
I'm sure many of you whether you are attracted to transsexuals or not must be fascinated by Jojo's story which bit by bit I like sharing with you. For a start a lot of people will be wondering what on earth one was thinking about to suddenly go from having a nice settled male life to that of a women if they weren't even gay or even interested in cross-dressing. Then there are the many obstacles to overcome like dealing with horrified famlly members and losing friends one has had since their teens and then there is the practical side like what to wear and deciding whether perhaps going to the dentist or a funeral one ought to revert back to being male for the day. My answer to all that is just take your time and take it one day at a time and if you decide to just dress up in private or to meet at the weekends that's fine, but if you now feel this is you and you need to be a trans woman you need unwavering self-belief and a lot of determination. If one can do that all the little problems melt away and one one can concentrate on living the life and as I've found even a muddled sexuality sorts itself out quite naturally if we let it. Also it doesn't bother me that because of everything I've taken and been through it has made me a gay girl for the guys. Once it's happened and I've turned sexually it no longer even feels like that long held percepton of a penalty or punishment or even sacrifice I've had to pay. Thankfully it happened naturally in the end because being straight is a definate handicap and if one doesn't want to spend the rest of their life saying no every time it becomes the only way for it to work and then it slips into place. I'm sure a part of Christopher somewhere in my upbringing like my brothers would be disgusted perhaps but I'm not him any more I'm Jojo and what's worse I feel like a budding porn star because to be honest I wanted to be what I am long before I even thought about it. Yes some are born with it and as Boris Johnson said "oven ready and ready to go" for others it's a long journey and it takes an agonising lifetime to discover who we are.
Read my Palm What is my Future
I'm sure many of you whether you are attracted to transsexuals or not must be fascinated by Jojo's story which bit by bit I like sharing with you. For a start a lot of people will be wondering what on earth one was thinking about to suddenly go from having a nice settled male life to that of a women if they weren't even gay or even interested in cross-dressing. Then there are the many obstacles to overcome like dealing with horrified famlly members and losing friends one has had since their teens and then there is the practical side like what to wear and deciding whether perhaps going to the dentist or a funeral one ought to revert back to being male for the day. My answer to all that is just take your time and take it one day at a time and if you decide to just dress up in private or to meet at the weekends that's fine, but if you now feel this is you and you need to be a trans woman you need unwavering self-belief and a lot of determination. If one can do that all the little problems melt away and one one can concentrate on living the life and as I've found even a muddled sexuality sorts itself out quite naturally if we let it. Also it doesn't bother me that because of everything I've taken and been through it has made me a gay girl for the guys. Once it's happened and I've turned sexually it no longer even feels like that long held percepton of a penalty or punishment or even sacrifice I've had to pay. Thankfully it happened naturally in the end because being straight is a definate handicap and if one doesn't want to spend the rest of their life saying no every time it becomes the only way for it to work and then it slips into place. I'm sure a part of Christopher somewhere in my upbringing like my brothers would be disgusted perhaps but I'm not him any more I'm Jojo and what's worse I feel like a budding porn star because to be honest I wanted to be what I am long before I even thought about it. Yes some are born with it and as Boris Johnson said "oven ready and ready to go" for others it's a long journey and it takes an agonising lifetime to discover who we are.