The more you do it...
I don't suppose I'm any smarter than the rest of you who get it wrong if that's what you do but I'm very lucky being able to live my life as Jojo with few if any interuptions. There are a lot of advantages with living it out full-time as one just gets used to it and isn't always on the look out to see if they have been spotted and being relaxed confident and natural is half the battle. But as I said I am just lucky as had I known I could have lived all my life being Christopher or Jojo as they both feel right and work just as well, indeed my old friends hardly notice I wear skirts and lipstick and still call me Chris. But as you can see once I discovered Jojo properly I never wanted to go back to being male as I love being a woman in their world. As I feel like a woman it makes it so much easier for me but I have a transgendered friend who on the other hand is a lot more sexually driven like lot a lot of the girls and even though she is a lot more decided and determined and on the official HRT regime and a more advanced than me she still worries about being seen as a 'tranny'. I think the reason why she is not comfortable with herself is she is always aware of it being her way to be gay and feels strangers are aware of it too and are somehow judgemental. Of coure becoming a transsexual is quite a big deal and I would be lying if I didn't have concerns occasionally too but because being gay is not the driver I can just switch it on and off so it doesn't cast a shadow. This of course is something I am not really aware of at the time but in a way it is also a bit of a pity as it means I don't get guys or girls for that matter hitting on me which can be a nuisance but it is also a shame as I am sure if they went about it properly we could end up having a very pleasant afternoon lol.
The more you do it...
I don't suppose I'm any smarter than the rest of you who get it wrong if that's what you do but I'm very lucky being able to live my life as Jojo with few if any interuptions. There are a lot of advantages with living it out full-time as one just gets used to it and isn't always on the look out to see if they have been spotted and being relaxed confident and natural is half the battle. But as I said I am just lucky as had I known I could have lived all my life being Christopher or Jojo as they both feel right and work just as well, indeed my old friends hardly notice I wear skirts and lipstick and still call me Chris. But as you can see once I discovered Jojo properly I never wanted to go back to being male as I love being a woman in their world. As I feel like a woman it makes it so much easier for me but I have a transgendered friend who on the other hand is a lot more sexually driven like lot a lot of the girls and even though she is a lot more decided and determined and on the official HRT regime and a more advanced than me she still worries about being seen as a 'tranny'. I think the reason why she is not comfortable with herself is she is always aware of it being her way to be gay and feels strangers are aware of it too and are somehow judgemental. Of coure becoming a transsexual is quite a big deal and I would be lying if I didn't have concerns occasionally too but because being gay is not the driver I can just switch it on and off so it doesn't cast a shadow. This of course is something I am not really aware of at the time but in a way it is also a bit of a pity as it means I don't get guys or girls for that matter hitting on me which can be a nuisance but it is also a shame as I am sure if they went about it properly we could end up having a very pleasant afternoon lol.