Perception

Went to look at an expensive antique car yesterday. Talked on phone with owner several times seeing car was about one hundred thirty miles away.

Gave a little background on myself.

The reason I bring this up is. I really want this car if I can work it out. The person I was talking to thought I would be a good owner judging by the other vehicles I told her I possessed.

So when meeting, I wanted to project a strong confident no nonsense professional individual.

We are who we project. What you do at home and what you wear with friends are one thing. But how you are perceived by others, be it work, church, going to store, interactions, Will inevitably determine the outcome of the encounter.

And that holds so true in the Trans community. If you truly believe in your heart , that you were meant to be and live female, Project yourself as such.

This is me stopping for a cup of coffee before a ride home.

My encounter went great. After test driving and looking over I chatted with the owner for about an hour. She's an older Lady. Husband just died. He was the love of her life. She thinks he would want me to have. A daughter he never had. And that my Mother is the luckiest person in the world. Sandra and I then took her for coffee. I think in my heart..... I found a new Mother to replace my deceased one. Sandra did also.

And it all started with perception

Done