Depth vs Sex: Perhaps What You Really Desire is a Deep Connection

Good morning on this beautiful new day. Breathing in the fresh air and feeling alive. Even though I'm a bit under the weather last couple of days I'm grateful. It has allowed me to slow down and experience life a little differently. I like when my clock speed is a little slower.. I can experience more of what I might usually miss.

 

GOING DEEP

 

So one new major insight I had that I would like to share is around depth of feeling versus the vehicles for getting there. What I mean is that I realized in all my relationships especially with romantic partners what I really desired was to go as deep as possible. And often that meant sex, but I had associated sex with being able to go deep and that's why I really wanted to have sex as soon as possible. It meant that we were going deep and that's something I really wanted to feel, a deep connection.

 

BEYOND SEX

 

So when a partner or potential partner didn't want to have sex I felt like they didn't want to go deep. And on some level I felt rejected.. don't they value, appreciate and respect who I am as a person? Don't they want to go deep with me? Then why are they rejecting my attempt to go deeper?

 

The main reason why this had come up is because I was attempting to go deep, both intimately and sexually with more than one partner a kind of poly-amorous vision but with two former lovers.

 

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