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I would like to think of myself as a very kind person. If someone needs something from me at work, I am always there to help whoever it is, even if I am super busy. If I cannot help right then and there, I will return whenever I get the chance. If someone is ever down, I feel like I am really good at helping them feel better, but am not the person who pushes that just makes it worse for a person, if that makes sense. I know, that if someone has a problem, they may not want to speak about it right then and there. Sometimes a shoulder to cry on, or a person to vent to is all a person needs to feel better at times. I am an overthinker, I know that for sure. It can be a good and a bad thing of course, but I think it is a better trait for good than for bad. Sometimes I feel that the approach that I have towards people makes them think that I might not be that good of a friend, as I don’t ask what’s wrong, I try to make them feel better. I feel lonely at times, which is fine.

 

My girlfriend on the other hand thinks I am also very kind, but not the best person when it comes to venting. The reason she said that I am not perfect when it comes to her expressing herself is because sometimes, I lack the care, and push towards the solution more. I can somewhat agree with her on this, and of course am going to try and do the opposite now! But she does think I am very kind and charismatic, and always putting other people before myself. The example she gave me was if we wake up from a nap at the same time, I always give her water first, before I drink some (Every one is thirsty when they wake up!)

Overall I think the stories that we told are similar in some ways, it is nice to know that I am thought of as kind! That is what I go for.

 

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