sorafu
~ Tell me again I can´t wear a dress ~
Sponsored by :
Static, Lelutka, Eliavah & Cureless
Huge shoutout to my amazing partner and love Kaname Kuze who posed with me for this one. I love you babe <3
I am aware that it has become quiet around me in the last few weeks. As some may have noticed, something happened in my RL from mid-May that required a lot of my attention and energy. But things are calming down and not everything ends badly fortunately. But I was and am tired, which is why this outfit was a long time coming.
It wasn't without a message
A few weeks ago I overheard a wonderful man from our community posting a picture of his avatar in a dress. He felt beautiful and free and he was! But he had harvested a lot of hateful comments underneath, which just frustrated me. I was sorry because his self-esteem was obviously suffering and he certainly didn't deserve it. Nobody has that.
Just a few moments later, I saw a picture of one of the most well-known bloggers wearing the same dress I'm wearing here. He meant it as a joke and a lot of people celebrated the idea. But honestly.....it wasn't funny at all to me anymore. With this range, it sent a completely wrong signal. And if some now say I've got a stick up my ass... fine with me.
I didn't like it at all. As someone who fights for us to be normal in looks like this..as someone who constantly exposes himself to ridicule and sits just because he likes to wear dresses and skirts, I found it sickening.
It's not funny for people like us. Mockery and scorn are not funny and it doesn't help if you literally put a crown on it without even wasting a thought on the fact that you can also misunderstand it. Especially in Pride month
This is my statement on this and I call on everyone to do the same! Dare and put on your most beautiful clothes. Show me you in your dresses and skirts. You are kings and queens!
If my opinion is too stiff for you, you can leave. It's not funny, it makes me puke. I am a queen and I stand for everyone who cannot build up enough self-confidence because of people like you.
FIGHT ME! HAPPY PRIDE!!!
~ Tell me again I can´t wear a dress ~
Sponsored by :
Static, Lelutka, Eliavah & Cureless
Huge shoutout to my amazing partner and love Kaname Kuze who posed with me for this one. I love you babe <3
I am aware that it has become quiet around me in the last few weeks. As some may have noticed, something happened in my RL from mid-May that required a lot of my attention and energy. But things are calming down and not everything ends badly fortunately. But I was and am tired, which is why this outfit was a long time coming.
It wasn't without a message
A few weeks ago I overheard a wonderful man from our community posting a picture of his avatar in a dress. He felt beautiful and free and he was! But he had harvested a lot of hateful comments underneath, which just frustrated me. I was sorry because his self-esteem was obviously suffering and he certainly didn't deserve it. Nobody has that.
Just a few moments later, I saw a picture of one of the most well-known bloggers wearing the same dress I'm wearing here. He meant it as a joke and a lot of people celebrated the idea. But honestly.....it wasn't funny at all to me anymore. With this range, it sent a completely wrong signal. And if some now say I've got a stick up my ass... fine with me.
I didn't like it at all. As someone who fights for us to be normal in looks like this..as someone who constantly exposes himself to ridicule and sits just because he likes to wear dresses and skirts, I found it sickening.
It's not funny for people like us. Mockery and scorn are not funny and it doesn't help if you literally put a crown on it without even wasting a thought on the fact that you can also misunderstand it. Especially in Pride month
This is my statement on this and I call on everyone to do the same! Dare and put on your most beautiful clothes. Show me you in your dresses and skirts. You are kings and queens!
If my opinion is too stiff for you, you can leave. It's not funny, it makes me puke. I am a queen and I stand for everyone who cannot build up enough self-confidence because of people like you.
FIGHT ME! HAPPY PRIDE!!!