Lessons Amidst Chaos ❤️

Hungry for Victory

 

" Beware the dangers of those relentless in their pursuit of triumph."

 

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. . . Femdom Tale . . .

 

Chaper: Level Rules & The Chaos of Poly Life

 

Your Miss leaves you for a man or a new sub who is at a higher level than you. Is there any way to get her back?

 

1. Prioritize self-respect, let her go and move on with a woman who is at her level or higher. (she may pursue you to win your new girl.) or...

 

2. Improve yourself to surpass her new boyfriend. Then, make an effort to win her back.

 

3. If you don't want to take the first or second steps, if you refuse to move on, if self-improvement isn't your priority, and if you're hesitant to compete directly knowing you might lose to her new partner, then consider these options: winning her back without necessarily surpassing her new partner through self-improvement.

 

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A: Dear, I need your help. This guy, he's way more awesome than me, and he stole my Miss! No way I'm letting that happen. Gotta get her back.... but she's crazy about him.

 

B: Hold up, my man. Is your Miss into the whole "one person at a time" thing, or is she more open-minded? (Mono or poly?)

 

A: Nah, she's totally poly. Just like you are.

 

B: Okay, trying to break up a poly relationship...not ideal. Listen, if you're not throwing cash around (sugar baby situation?), you gotta seriously up your game, you know? Is she more into guys who pay (Findom) or guys she just clicks with (Femdom)?

 

A: More like a domme, actually.

 

B: Alright, that changes things! There's still some luck, then. Don't lose hope!

 

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The triumph of a low-level loser

 

☑ Lazy folks who don't want to level up themselves.

☑ Not flirting with a new girl to make his ex chase after him.

☑ Not interested in investing more in himself

 

But he wants to win over her new partner, who's of a higher level than him and her, and ultimately get her back.

 

This is how it went down: There was an ex who managed to mess up her poly relationship really badly until it fell apart. I can share his tactics with you, if that could be helpful.

 

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" When a woman leaves her ex for a new, better man, it's seen as fair and in line with nature's laws. But some folks want to go against this and try to break this rule."

 

To break this rule, you must know the basic nature of Polys.

 

Her inventory is easily divided into 3 groups:

1. Main dishes 2. Desserts 3. Trash bins.

 

1. Main dishes

☑ Official Boyfriend (with status)

☑ Lovers (no status)

** For giving her Best, sharing passion and romance

 

2. Desserts

☑ Sex Toys, FWB, Bad Boys (sex only)

** For Variety

 

3. Trash bin, Toilet

☑ Nice Guys (supporters)

** To support her Negativity

These low-level guys are there for her bad emotions, to absorb all her negative, rotten feelings that she wants people to listen to. They must endure all her uncomfortable issues, problems with her partners, the place where she wants to vent all the issues of her life, and they must pay attention, cheer her up, and provide comfort. They are where she goes to release her boring, complaining, weak, negative sides, ones that she doesn't want her main course and desserts to know.

** Endure all negativity for 100-200 days in exchange for having sex with her just 2-5 times a year. (at her mercy)

** This group of men plays a crucial role. They take care of her, helping her wash away her negative emotions until she feels better. They encourage her until she's positive and in a wonderful, beautiful state. They, like important tools, take care of her so well, just to send the wonderful woman to the Alphas' hands (main dishes).

 

Main Games:

☑ What she likes to do when she already has official partner is to find lower-level men to keep in stock.

☑ Things you need to be careful of - Don't let her perceive you as low-status. 'AVOID' being categorized as her Dessert or Trash bin.

 

" Remember, your goal is to become her boyfriend again. Always maintain a high level to position yourself as the main dish. "

 

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1. At first, she may be infatuated with her new boyfriend. Let it be. Avoid contacting her at all. Wait until they reach the settling-down stage, where boredom sets in between them. This typically happens around 3-4 months. If the new boyfriend is attractive and holds a very high status, you may need to wait for 7 months or even a year. Use this time to gather new experiences, engage in self-discovery, and enjoy trying new things while you wait.

 

Stay patient and stick to the 'no contact rule' firmly. If she keeps reaching out, consider blocking her. Trying to reconnect while she's all into her new boyfriend will make you seem low-status. She'll still see you the same way she did before.

 

2. When she enters the settling-down period with her partner (where they're starting to get bored and the passion begins to fade between them) That's when you should say 'Hello'

 

Just have a general conversation, avoid flirting. Talk and ask about stories. Ask how her relationship is going. She might complain. Listen like a good friend, without flirting or encouraging negative thoughts to make her break up with him. Always maintain a positive and upbeat attitude.

 

Talk about new things you discovered. Show off your new qualities. Share new stories from your life. Don't tell bad stories about yourself. Avoid mentioning that other women have treated you poorly or that you've been dumped by anyone. Instead, focus on positive things. Talk about how kind other people are to you, how well they treat you, and how happy you've been.

 

3. Make an appointment to meet and talk openly with her. Don't focus on sex, flirting, or showing neediness. Avoid allowing her to perceive you as a desperate beggar seeking sex from her. Present yourself as desirable. She shouldn't view sex as a means to satisfy a craving, but rather as an experience with someone who is fulfilled and confident.

 

Before the appointment, prepare to introduce her to a special menu she has never tasted from you before. Offer a delicious new menu that surpasses anything you've presented previously. Ensure it's not the same dull fare she's accustomed to.

 

During the meeting, focus on being attentive and engaging in meaningful conversation. When the time feels right, smoothly transition to intimacy (sex), ensuring it's 'a well-planned' and thoughtful experience that 'showcases your newfound' confidence and allure.

 

4. If it's really good, it clicks, it's impressive. Poly's first bad idea was wanting to lock you into her new sex toy stock. This is where the game gets tough because she will TRY TO KEEP you at a lower status than her boyfriend. What you have to do is not allow it to happen. Remember that women are hypergamous. They will only be paired with superior - men of higher status. (so don't be her toy.)

 

During this time, she will chase you, flirt with you, and be nice to you. Be careful not to have sex with her, instead, avoid it during this period. However, you can playfully tease her, give her hope, and make her invest in you as much as possible, causing her to feel a sunk cost.

 

Make her invest a lot of time, care, love, or anything she offers into you. Accept all she offers and encourage her to offer more. Avoid engaging in sex, refrain from providing it to her.

 

After investing heavily with high hopes and pursuing you relentlessly, she may ask to confirm your status as her sex partner or FWB. At this stage, be firm and clearly DENY her request. Do not allow her to keep you as her backup plan or dessert.

 

Your refusal will make her feel that you're on a Higher Level than her. You're not cheap, you're not someone who can be easily persuaded with sweet words, sex, care, and concern.

 

5. Engage with her as a good friend, always ready to listen. However, don't always be available for her when she seeks sex, as you're not just her sex toy. She can have sex with you at the right time that you've planned, as you control the game.

 

When she sees you as superior, she will ask you to be her lover, her main course.

 

Agree to be her lover, but withhold the status — no announcements, no revelations, and keep her boyfriend unaware. Don't settle for being beneath her boyfriend, maintain secrecy and avoid displaying neediness or pursuing a relationship with her.

 

Don't move into her house. Don't join the family to be under her boyfriend. Do not let her succeed in doing it.

 

6. Remember..........

 

☑ People don't easily break up due to boredom, monotony, or dullness.

 

People break up because of:

1. Fights. 2. Serious problem that can't be solved.

 

☑ Time is their relationship

 

Time is Relationship.

Time is Togetherness

Time is Creation.

Time is Growth.

Time is Life.

 

Take His Time:

Starting to always be unavailable, only available when he had to be with her.

 

Share His Time:

The main reason why you shouldn't lower your level is because it's about the right to share.

 

Her boyfriend is of a higher level. She avoids risks and doesn't share her time with a high-level boyfriend to spend it with lower-level men. However, if she sees that you are of a high level, she will be willing to share the time she spends with her superior with you.

 

Shared time is kept secret. She may use a different account to share his time with you, then claim to her boyfriend that she was busy, so she needs to be online less with him.

 

Pick a time before she meets him. Our hormones are limited. When they're gone, it's too late to create new ones.

 

She'll try to keep things this way forever. She might invest heavily in her alt account to lock you down. Don't let that happen. Don't grant her any status. Don't allow her to use that account to secure you as her partner. Keep your position elevated and independent.

 

7. As she spends less time with her boyfriend, her energy fades, hormones drop, and sometimes her words don't make sense and fall out of reality. They avoid each other often. Her boyfriend begins to ignore her more. They get frustrated and bored, and he might start cheating. Being of a higher level, he may grow to dislike her. He talks without caring, they argue, and she feels sad. The passion and love between them fade away.

 

Before their fading passion revives and ignites again, make other beautiful women your close friends. Make it seem like these other women are starting to become her competitors. Make her afraid of losing you. She will feel stressed from both sides - his and yours. Eventually, she will break up with someone of high level like him and choose you, who never needed to improve your level at all.

 

8. People who cheat with you will cheat on you, you stole her from others, and others can steal her from you. At this stage, enjoy the moment together to the fullest, knowing it's a time-bomb relationship that could end anytime. Finally, you will face your settled moment, get bored with each other, face higher-level competitors, and drift apart like the cycle you've ever seen. So take it as much as you can, enjoy everything to the fullest, knowing things are impermanent.

 

How long or short it lasts depends on the choices you make and how you utilize this period:

 

Choice 1

Embrace it fully, make it beautiful, enjoyable, and memorable, recognizing that it will eventually come to an end.

 

Choice 2

Enhance your skills and level up yourself to diminish competition. (although there will always be competitors.)

 

Choice 3

☑ Consider manipulating, hypnosis, brainwash, dominating, controlling, enslaving or even drugging her mind to ensure she becomes reliant on you, you alone, no one can take your place.

☑ Change, modify her sexuality and taste till those must depend on you alone.

 

" Ugh, this isn't what I wanted to do at all, but... well, let's just say you're making things pretty tough. I didn't want to go down this route, but who you are is leaving me with no other choice. I've invested too much to give up. I've put in a lot to get this far, and giving up was never really an option for me. I need to come out on top. Honestly, having you on my side would be the real win. If I couldn't be the best at everything and win over all men, then I just had to win you over to win it all. "

 

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The Big Lesson

 

" In the Race to Win, Learn from the chaos, but beware the dangers of blind ambition. "

 

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