" In Charge, In Control "
. . . Exploring the Reality . . .
Chapter: Controlling and Training Higher-Level Men
" Tips for Controlling a High-Quality Man Without Eroding His Ego or Diminishing His Quality."
☑ How do you get him to surrender you?
☑ How to make him chase your game instead of you having to chase his game?
SMV (Social Market Value) encompasses various aspects, and while you may excel in all of them, engaging in strategic maneuvers with higher-level men will make them more likely to surrender to your game.
Remember, just being beautiful isn't enough, your lower intelligence, charisma, and skills won't succeed in making him chase and surrender to your demands.
It's obvious that he's of a higher level, and you attract him because of his superiority. You want to win someone better than you, so you must accept the fact that your lower SMV can't beat him. Therefore, choose one of your SMV aspects to make him surrender - having options of higher-level men in your inventory now is key. Don't rely solely on him.
A superior man may not surrender to you solely based on your attributes—beauty, sex appeal/skills, personality, reputation—but rather because he refuses to lose you to another superior. He tolerates you not because of your qualities (inferior to his) but because he cannot bear the thought of losing you to a man superior to him.
Key 1
He won't surrender you for your qualities. Instead, he'll tolerate your game because he can't tolerate other men, especially if they're superior to him. He'd do anything to avoid the pain of losing. ( It's not about accepting your lower qualities that aren't as good as his.)
Key 2
Narcissistic or arrogant people often struggle with jealousy. They can't stand seeing others succeed, possessing true happiness that comes from being happy with someone who's better than them. They'll do anything to stop that from happening. They might even agree to pursue someone of lower status just to avoid losing her to a better man. (This works in case he doesn't know her yet or hasn't lived with her for so long that he's really bored with her./ But in the cases where he has been with her until a bad impression and hatred has developed, he won't pursue her again, no matter if she pairs with someone better than him.)
This is the strategy of a clever woman determined to win the game. She dates a higher-status guy but doesn't play by his rules fairly like other women of lower status treat him. By staying on top, she pressures him to play along with her games and put in effort, even though he's much better.
Pick an option. Choose from 3-4 options and decide who you're going with:
1st
Top-notch guy (Best)
2nd, 3rd
High quality guys who are a step down but still ahead of you.
4th
High quality guy who is the lowest of the bunch but still higher than you.
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1st - The TOOL
☑ To be used to tame 2 and 3 to be under your control.
☑ Top-notch guy
2nd, 3rd - The TARGET
☑ Your real target, the guy you really want.
☑ High quality guys who are a step down but still ahead of you.
4th - The Troublemaker
☑ The troublemaker is to be used to punish your target when he's being stubborn towards you.
☑ High quality guy who is the lowest of the bunch but still higher than you.
" Your target will get annoyed when you pretend to be more interested in and prioritize the 4th over him. To avoid the negative feelings caused by annoyance, he tends to give you what you want more easily to escape the annoyance he faces. "
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The show you will do
☑ Pretending to pursue 1
☑ Pretend to focus on 1
☑ Spend time with 1
☑ Be busy with 1
☑ 2 and 3 will interest you more than before.
☑ They will be better and more adaptable to your game than before.
☑ They will accelerate themselves to make you like them and increase their commitment to you more than before.
☑ They will allow you to control them more easily and compete to win against 1, to feel victorious and consider themselves successful and superior to 1.
P.S.
" These strategies mostly work with WINNER-type men, but they don't work with most Heroes as most heroes are of the loser type. They are broken and fragile easily under stress and negative impressions, often breaking down and fleeing from all Arenas. They can't endure and lack the resilience needed for competition. Just seeing the competitor in front of him, he dropped his weapon and fled, even though he didn't know whether his opponent had learned to fight or not.
If you encounter a hero, don't pressure him into competing or fighting - just let him go, as these men are easily discouraged. Not only does he refrain from fighting his opponents, but he also won't push through every obstacle that life throws your way while journeying with him. He doesn't even fight for his own happiness and well-being. Simply let him go. There's no need to force it. Find a new winner-type to fill the void."
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Unveiling the Truth: Behind the Curtain of the Show
" Why doesn't she pick 1 when they spend a lot of time together? "
Because 1 is her bonus. She knows well that 1 cannot be controlled and will never choose her. He won't choose her because he has too many choices of women who are much better than her and are still chasing his games as he wishes. So, 1 is her bonus in life, he cannot be the real man she can truly possess and rule.
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. . . Letting go . . .
" The strategy of defying nature and cheating the game involves practicing and controlling until exhaustion sets in. Eventually, you'll come to realize that for all these years, you've been manipulating and controlling nature, twisting it from what it should be. It becomes tiring, and you yearn to stop and rest. You crave some time to relax and allow life to take its natural course without interference.
Even though relinquishing control often leads to unfavorable outcomes, and sometimes even dire ones, there is a certain peace in surrendering to the laws of nature. Stop controlling and cheating, embrace natural living, accept its unfavorable results, and release the beasts you've confined into the wild to live freely without your control. This can bring a sense of fulfillment to you eventually, at least for a while."
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" In Charge, In Control "
. . . Exploring the Reality . . .
Chapter: Controlling and Training Higher-Level Men
" Tips for Controlling a High-Quality Man Without Eroding His Ego or Diminishing His Quality."
☑ How do you get him to surrender you?
☑ How to make him chase your game instead of you having to chase his game?
SMV (Social Market Value) encompasses various aspects, and while you may excel in all of them, engaging in strategic maneuvers with higher-level men will make them more likely to surrender to your game.
Remember, just being beautiful isn't enough, your lower intelligence, charisma, and skills won't succeed in making him chase and surrender to your demands.
It's obvious that he's of a higher level, and you attract him because of his superiority. You want to win someone better than you, so you must accept the fact that your lower SMV can't beat him. Therefore, choose one of your SMV aspects to make him surrender - having options of higher-level men in your inventory now is key. Don't rely solely on him.
A superior man may not surrender to you solely based on your attributes—beauty, sex appeal/skills, personality, reputation—but rather because he refuses to lose you to another superior. He tolerates you not because of your qualities (inferior to his) but because he cannot bear the thought of losing you to a man superior to him.
Key 1
He won't surrender you for your qualities. Instead, he'll tolerate your game because he can't tolerate other men, especially if they're superior to him. He'd do anything to avoid the pain of losing. ( It's not about accepting your lower qualities that aren't as good as his.)
Key 2
Narcissistic or arrogant people often struggle with jealousy. They can't stand seeing others succeed, possessing true happiness that comes from being happy with someone who's better than them. They'll do anything to stop that from happening. They might even agree to pursue someone of lower status just to avoid losing her to a better man. (This works in case he doesn't know her yet or hasn't lived with her for so long that he's really bored with her./ But in the cases where he has been with her until a bad impression and hatred has developed, he won't pursue her again, no matter if she pairs with someone better than him.)
This is the strategy of a clever woman determined to win the game. She dates a higher-status guy but doesn't play by his rules fairly like other women of lower status treat him. By staying on top, she pressures him to play along with her games and put in effort, even though he's much better.
Pick an option. Choose from 3-4 options and decide who you're going with:
1st
Top-notch guy (Best)
2nd, 3rd
High quality guys who are a step down but still ahead of you.
4th
High quality guy who is the lowest of the bunch but still higher than you.
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1st - The TOOL
☑ To be used to tame 2 and 3 to be under your control.
☑ Top-notch guy
2nd, 3rd - The TARGET
☑ Your real target, the guy you really want.
☑ High quality guys who are a step down but still ahead of you.
4th - The Troublemaker
☑ The troublemaker is to be used to punish your target when he's being stubborn towards you.
☑ High quality guy who is the lowest of the bunch but still higher than you.
" Your target will get annoyed when you pretend to be more interested in and prioritize the 4th over him. To avoid the negative feelings caused by annoyance, he tends to give you what you want more easily to escape the annoyance he faces. "
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The show you will do
☑ Pretending to pursue 1
☑ Pretend to focus on 1
☑ Spend time with 1
☑ Be busy with 1
☑ 2 and 3 will interest you more than before.
☑ They will be better and more adaptable to your game than before.
☑ They will accelerate themselves to make you like them and increase their commitment to you more than before.
☑ They will allow you to control them more easily and compete to win against 1, to feel victorious and consider themselves successful and superior to 1.
P.S.
" These strategies mostly work with WINNER-type men, but they don't work with most Heroes as most heroes are of the loser type. They are broken and fragile easily under stress and negative impressions, often breaking down and fleeing from all Arenas. They can't endure and lack the resilience needed for competition. Just seeing the competitor in front of him, he dropped his weapon and fled, even though he didn't know whether his opponent had learned to fight or not.
If you encounter a hero, don't pressure him into competing or fighting - just let him go, as these men are easily discouraged. Not only does he refrain from fighting his opponents, but he also won't push through every obstacle that life throws your way while journeying with him. He doesn't even fight for his own happiness and well-being. Simply let him go. There's no need to force it. Find a new winner-type to fill the void."
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Unveiling the Truth: Behind the Curtain of the Show
" Why doesn't she pick 1 when they spend a lot of time together? "
Because 1 is her bonus. She knows well that 1 cannot be controlled and will never choose her. He won't choose her because he has too many choices of women who are much better than her and are still chasing his games as he wishes. So, 1 is her bonus in life, he cannot be the real man she can truly possess and rule.
ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ.-:**★**:-.ღ
. . . Letting go . . .
" The strategy of defying nature and cheating the game involves practicing and controlling until exhaustion sets in. Eventually, you'll come to realize that for all these years, you've been manipulating and controlling nature, twisting it from what it should be. It becomes tiring, and you yearn to stop and rest. You crave some time to relax and allow life to take its natural course without interference.
Even though relinquishing control often leads to unfavorable outcomes, and sometimes even dire ones, there is a certain peace in surrendering to the laws of nature. Stop controlling and cheating, embrace natural living, accept its unfavorable results, and release the beasts you've confined into the wild to live freely without your control. This can bring a sense of fulfillment to you eventually, at least for a while."
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