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Beyond the Surface

Tale: Unveiling the True Meaning of Beauty and The Importance of Looking Beyond Our Emotions

 

☑️ Embracing Provable and Testable Beauty

☑️ Relying on Evidence and Facts

 

Various types, distinct scores, differing levels and values exist for those who perceive the significant contrasts between images and facts.

 

They understand the big difference between people with genuinely beautiful hearts and those who merely project an attractive image, genuinely good people and those who merely want to appear good, as well as between true goodness and the strong desire to be perceived as good.

 

That's why thousands beautiful attitudes and words, thousands lines of impressive and touching words are just thousandsss of lies that cannot be truly valued and admired even a half-word.

 

And this is why appealing manners and eloquent words, innumerable lines of deeply moving expressions, 24/7 of flattery and hundreds messages of good attitudes per day for years are nothing more than countless deceptions that hold no value in terms of goodness and no value to upgrade the D/s situtation to be meaningful relationship.

 

A real value should be based on the honorable deeds accomplished, not on the extravagant tales recounted. It should focus on the positive 'actions' performed for 'others' rather than the positive 'intension and vision' for self-serving habits that designed to secure personal advantages.

 

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True Goodness should center on how we contribute to others' well-being rather than deeds done solely for personal gain. Thus, don't be astonished that even after years of shared D/s experiences, nothing holds more value or genuine significance beyond the thrilling passionate connections.

 

This explains why some dominant-submissive connections should remain as situational associations without progressing to more committed meaningful relationships since true relationships require a foundation of intrinsic worth and untainted goodness for optimum efficacy.

 

The true measure of goodness should be based on the positive impact one has on others, rather than on self-serving actions geared towards personal gain.

 

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Tale: Seeds

Inspired by D/s relation

 

For her, to choose which D/s situationships to upgrade to a relationship is like selecting the right seed. Just as we cannot predict what the tree will look like by merely examining the seed, we cannot be sure of what the future holds after committing to a person we trust. Sometimes, we cannot solely rely on the label of the seed to determine if it's the right one for us. It may require extra effort to confirm that it's the authentic seed of the tree we desire. In essence, selecting the right seed and choosing the right person to be in a relationship with require a similar approach. It's essential to examine the situation carefully and put in the necessary work to determine if it's the right seed for us.

 

Genuine quality resembles a good seed, and it's essential to be certain of its identity. She would never intentionally choose an incorrect seed, dedicating time and energy to nurturing it with care and attention, only to be dumbfounded later, when it turns out the tree isn't what she expected after years of nurturing.

 

In this scenario, imagine believing you have a seed of a lovely tree, but after a year of watering, it's revealed to be an unattractive and other type of tree instead.

 

In some wrong cases, she must decide whether to let the wrong tree grow after nurturing it with her efforts, kindness, and time or cut it down. She must weigh the options carefully and consider the future implications of her decision.

 

If someone believes that just because she had invested a lot of time and effort into a certain pursuit, she should continue down that path even if it is not the right one, they may be mistaken.

 

The truth is, if something is not the right fit or is simply the wrong tree, it doesn't matter how much dedication and love has been poured into it - it must be cut down.

 

Continuing to pour resources into a misguided endeavor will only lead to further disappointment and frustration in the long run. It can be difficult to let go of something that we have invested so much of ourselves into, but sometimes the best thing we can do is to accept that it's time to move on and redirect our energies towards a more promising path.

 

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