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Unwinding and Finding Peace in the Calm of Dusk

Unwinding and finding peace in the calm of dusk... ♥

 

Take a moment to unwind and let her thoughts wander. Sometimes the best company is herself... ♥

 

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. . . Pursuit of 'Us' . . .

 

She was aware that she needed a hero to strengthen her weaknesses, and that hero turned out to be none other than herself..

 

She chose to surround herself with men who have big hearts and unshakable confidence, and who are dedicated to her happiness without hesitation. She left behind those whose hearts were too small and only fought for themselves and the collective 'us', never considering her needs as an individual..

 

If they keep searching for a collective 'us' to fight for and settle with, they will never find true purpose and fulfillment with her. The sense of belonging to an 'us' only comes after they have fought for and settled with 'her' already..

 

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Us is ... You + 'ME'

Us is not ... You + Beautiful Planssss 'WITH' Me

 

Some relations never been relationship and was nonexistent, as there was no "you AND me" or "Us."

 

Between you and me

... never have us

... never about us

... nothing is us

 

And also there was never 'our' story because there was never 'us'

 

Between you and me

... it's just you and your plans to have them 'with' me. it never 'for' me and it never had us. There was never a single minute of 'our' story.

 

There cannot be a shared story between us since you are solely focused on making plans without considering who I am.

 

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☑ mutual Agreement 'is not' mutual Commitment

☑ mutual Agreement 'is not' Us

 

It is quite evident that ambiguity can be a straightforward explanation for some types of relations. If an individual has not assigned any status or label to another person or taken steps to advance to the relationship, it is apparent that there has never been a mutual commitment between them.

 

That is why she forbids certain individuals from using the words 'us,' 'our,' or 'ours' when addressing her or others. It is not within their authority to use such words and terms.

 

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Uploaded on February 20, 2023