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When we make decisions based on our own beliefs, our thoughts tell us they represent objective reality. But reality often convinces us otherwise. Yet, we continue to believe, even in the face of pain.

Cognitive fusion...

When we treat our thoughts as absolute truth, we become vulnerable to negative emotions and unpleasant states. In a state of cognitive fusion, we believe our thoughts about the world, ourselves, and others are completely accurate, regardless of evidence.

 

This becomes problematic when we make decisions based on deeply ingrained beliefs, often formed in childhood. Our brains often treat these beliefs as unchangeable facts, shaping how we interpret the world around us and ourselves within it. These powerful beliefs can create the illusion that our interpretations are the only truth, leading to serious communication issues with others.

 

Decisions based solely on personal interpretations trap us in mental cages, hindering our ability to objectively assess situations and potential consequences. It's crucial to remember that beliefs, however strong, are merely our personal versions of reality, shaped by our life experiences, values, and biases.

 

When our view of reality clashes with someone else's, it often leads to misunderstandings, isolation, anger, and even violence – realities we witness daily. This highlights the danger of cognitive fusion, a trap most people fall into. When we become fused with our thoughts, they control us and our behavior. Stepping outside ourselves and critically examining our thinking becomes difficult when we're deeply immersed in our own heads.

 

Therefore, developing the ability to defuse, or detach from our thoughts, is paramount. Defusion helps us see our thoughts as products of the mind, not as reflections of absolute reality. Understanding and overcoming cognitive fusion is a crucial step in psychological development, leading to greater flexibility, adaptability, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth. Investing time and energy in this process empowers you to make better decisions, build healthier relationships, and live a more fulfilling life.

 

Remember, only persistent self-work can unlock this transformation.

Get out of your head and into your life...

 

Djordje Nikolic Art

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Uploaded on December 29, 2023