β™‘Note... please don't invite my photos to your group when it is 'lnvitation Only' and l haven't been invited. Drop me an invite, l'll probably join, and we're off! Bless you. 🌸

Hello lovelies! It's time for an update.. I am hopeless.

'24 saw me out more than l could have ever dreamed. Trips and days out. Two Gaynors Getaways;

These are fabulous events, especially for any girls that want a 'first time out' or are nervous about being seen...meeting like-minded girls for chat, company, and outings if you want. There is never any pressure to do anything, but Karen organises 'in-house' events like Casino Night as well as excursions to clubs and restaurants. When in a group, these things are less daunting and very supportive.

Several BNOs at Pink Punters, including Christmas, of course!

Numerous days out with Judy here and there, and another visit to the magical town that is Brighton for Brighton Races Ladies Day.

lt is wonderful there, and l now try and go as often as l can for a few nights at Legends Hotel and some shopping in the Lanes for much needed Bling!πŸ’πŸ’ŽπŸ’“

2025 is off to a rapid start, too, Valentines at Pinks, more Brighton trips, as well as days out alone, my confidence soaring and having developed a look l am happy with.

planning to go to Manchester Sparkle again in late June, with the girls, and to meet new friends.

Life is good, and Yollie continues to grow, independent and strong-willed. πŸ˜±πŸ˜‰πŸ‘±β™€οΈ l am very lucky, and l am surrounded by such good friends.πŸ‘±β™€οΈπŸ‘±β™€οΈπŸ‘±β™€οΈπŸ‘±β™€οΈ You know who you are...

Also, at home, an amount of freedom to 'be'....ears pierced 4 times, nails often done day to day. Wardrobes are now x 3..( The spare room is mine!)

So a huge thankyou and so much love to all of you, l feel truly blessed.

In my little village of about 300 souls, 100 of them know, and 20+ follow me on FB / IG, etc! Making the trial of leaving the house much easier and less stressful. l still keep it down as l don't like to push it at people, but the acceptance and support have been staggering and sometimes make me quite overwhelmed.

So, assuming you aren't bored stiff, read on, and l hope you enjoy my efforts, a girl tries her best. Mwah!,πŸ˜‰πŸ’‹

July 24...

Well, l have finally managed to get to Manchester Sparkle and OMG. What a weekend!!!! I really didn't want it to end, but having said that, my feet were in bits, my skin could take no more, and l needed sleep! lol...

Next outing is a Canapes Workshop Cookery day with 10 GG's ( l feel l am the 'entertainment' but hey-ho!) and then off to Brighton Races Ladies Day on the 8th of August!!🐎🎠 Very excited!!!

Lucky girl... fun times! πŸ‘±β™€οΈπŸ’„πŸ‘—πŸ‘ πŸ‘ πŸ’ƒπŸ’‹

Feb 24..

Latest update on Yollie's World....l can't believe this has gone as far as it has....12+M views, 2.5k followers (not much by some standards l know, but l'm in a state of shock..)

l have made so many wonderful, beautiful friends! At BNO and numerous other venues, PopWorld, LFF, The Northmore Arms, Proud Bar, She World, Touch.....and out in the real World.

Something as simple as lunch with my stepdaughter, but dressed, and in the centre of my home town! Trips to Wells, Haynes Motor Museum, London, etc

l am so grateful to everyone for the love and support l have received over the last 2 years..Thankyou to all of you, and you know who you are.πŸ’žπŸ’‹

If l start mentioning names, I'll miss someone out, and that would upset me.

Two girls, though, that are the World to me...my Bestie, Judy Taunton (We go everywhere pretty much, and talk about anything...always there for each other, Boy-mode or Girl-mode!)

And Martina Alexis, the sweetest, kindest, prettiest girl l know....such good fun to be with, there is nothing we don't share and we have each others backs completely, so, a note to Boys pursuing her, that's fine, absolutely, but l'll vet you thoroughly and Lord help you if you hurt her....lol!

So here we are, out and about, every 2/3 weeks or so, which is wonderful. More would be nice, but my partner is more accepting now of Yollie.

Still no 'meet' yet, and l hope when it happens (which it's bound to..) it's not by accident. But in all fairness, l am given a fair amount of freedom to be her... which l need. Yollie is me. And l love her. πŸ‘±β™€οΈπŸŒΈπŸ’‹

 

Jan 22...Hello there! And thank you for stopping by. Well, it's been quite a year, hasn't it? Apart from all of the global events that seem to come one after the other, in my small world, things have shifted seismically too. Coming out is not for everyone and I would never offer advice, but on a personal level, 40+ years of hiding has taken its toll...I planned it, carefully, timed it...only to get tripped up a week early and it all fell out of me the wrong way...but it's done now, and I can honestly say I feel amazing. I'm not as free as I would like, but a toleration is OK and hopefully will improve.

A life of dressing in secret, hiding things, feeling generally rubbish about myself and convinced I was 'weird'....then the internet....Wow...I am not alone!....Far from it. Since then, a few tentative steps out into the World...my first walk (albeit late evening in the dark!), A trip to Chateau Femme and I was hooked...This September I met a wonderful girl on TV Chix called Judy..we talk...about anything and it's unbelievably relaxing and refreshing. She mentioned she was going to BNO at Pink Punters in MK....I was in...no question. It's a long drive from the SW, but what a night....so many girls!! All so sweet to me, so kind and accepting. So that's it...the Genie is 'out' lol..so hoping to go back in December, be so good to meet more girls as this time I will be less nervous..Then other things LFF, London clubs? I have been to Chateau Femme since and now have a trip to Jodie's Boudoir and a third CF visit planned...Yollie is out, and I am so happy! It's still a struggle. Going out in public is still hard, but I force myself to do it as it's OK once I am actually out. Living in a small village is complicated as physically getting out of the house to the car is tricky! But hey, it's never going to be easy, is it girls...Thankyou for reading this, it means a lot that you've got this far! I'm friendly, I don't bite (unless you ask nicely)

 

Things that annoy me...

 

Not much, but...

People that have photos of 2,3 5 years old, lots of nice comments from people and don't respond to any of them...arrogant.

People who have been here for years and still have no photos (still have followers..WTF)...then fave 100+ pics.

Bicycles in hallways...(There is nothing more useless than a bike when you aren't on it)

Anything that doesn't do what it was designed to do (I don't include myself in that )

Being stared at by a real woman who has made no effort and frankly should be the one hiding at home.

Trump

Brexit (WTF happened there??)

General rudeness and lack of consideration.

 

Things I like...

 

Chocolate

Attention

Chat

Nights out

Making new friends

TGirls

Most music except Boybands..

My Fox Terrier

The idea of the right girl..

Being naughty.

 

Latest update, girls... having come out at home ( could have gone better but hey-ho!)I have become tired of late...things that simply aren't in the spirit of...well, anything really....firstly, this is a Photo sharing site...so WTF are you here if all I get when I click on your "profile" is 'Out taking pics' when you joined in 2007 or something...don't collect photos to the tune of 200k+...I'm going through my follows and having a cull.....no photos, no follow....simple. Rant over....

 

Just a quick update 04/22...

I may be in a minority but from where I stand, the inevitable changes here on Flickr have to be seen as a good thing. We have had a long run of FREE service, and now the times dictate, nothing is for free in this world...Β£1.00 or $1.50 a week for unlimited use is a bargain.. all these whingers crying about how they will lose their photos and have to find alternative FREE storage, go ahead. And in 6 months or a year, that platform will go the same way.... and you will move again, and again..... stay here. Accept that you have to pay something, Why should we get all of this for free? I'm staying, and I hope my friends stay too, but in all fairness, it's their decision. The saying "it's a free country" is fine... but it's only free because some of us pay.

Sorry! ..... God I'm a bitch...next....

 

May 2022..

 

Hi there! Firstly, I need to say a few rules... We are ALL different and I fully respect others tastes, however, please dont 'follow' me or 'fave' my pics if you are just a hairy panty wearer...I will block you, sorry!

I like 'girls' who are making an effort to be just that, femenine,sexy and yes, a bit naughty... I dont mind dick pics, but essentially, CD's who are like minded, some of you girls are so brave and confident!

Thankyou to you all for reading this, and please don't reproduce any of my photos without asking me first...I share them on this site only and I would like it to stay that way, thankyou!

Now the good bit... Crossdresser,Secretary, Mistress, Bitch, Pain in the Arse, but deep down a softy that loves hard, straight and true..no virgin....

A love of tight skirts and high heels / nylons and all things Secretarial.. I have also grown to love PVC, Latex and on the flip side, I am trying to develop a look that works in the real World...so jeans or skirt, sensible (5") heels, toned down make-up and just trying to blend a little but I still can't resist the urge to turn heads!

 

Sept 2021.......joined... πŸŒΈπŸ’‹

 

Hi there! I can't describe how wonderful it feels to finally be here, and to able to share this part of my life with you all. Yolanda has been a part of me forever and, though the opportunities for her to appear are few, just to know that all you girls are there is just lovely!

I dress up as often as I can but have never summoned up the courage to go 'out with the girls'.

I like to make a real effort with full make-up, nails, the works and am gradually improving, learning all the time! Hope at some point to be brave enough to 'show my real self' but in the meantime, I will post what I am happy with and enjoy sharing with you.

Thankyou for reading this and I hope you like some of my pics!! Love Hugs and Sunshine...Yollie πŸ’‹πŸ’•πŸ’‹πŸ’•πŸ‘ πŸ‘ πŸ’…πŸ’…πŸ’„πŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸŒΈ

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  • JoinedSeptember 2021
  • OccupationSecretary and Office Bitch.
  • HometownTaunton
  • Current citySW UK
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I want to deeply thank you for the opportunity to catch a glimpse of your beauty and affectionate rebel attitude that appears in your photos, it is wonderful to observe the combination of beauty, pose, attitude at the level of a muse of inspiration.

February 21, 2022