For the record as it seems a lot of you guys out there just presume that all TG are up for it or we want a relationship with men. That is not the case, many of us have no interest in men except for a platonic relationship. I would class myself as Asexual. Hope that clarifies things so there is no misunderstanding. I am also in a happy relationship so not looking.

 

Dear friends thank you for your lovely comments and for adding my photos to your favourites. I am sorry but my time is limited and I am not here as much as I used to be. I still post when I can as you still seem to like seeing them.

Please note I am no longer in any more of your lovely groups as it has caused me problems in the past. Also I am not accepting anymore requests to add photos to groups. Sorry but after getting restricted twice I would rather stay under the radar.

  

Hi my name is Stephanie Monroe - Tutton from London, UK.

I am Transgender. I have come to accept my gift as we like to call it. I just feel more happy and comfortable living as a female.

In my spare time I do a bit of modelling and going out dressed to meet up with others Tgirls, for a girlie chat, shopping or going for a meal, nightclub or drink

I believe everyone has the right to be who they want to be without prejudice and intolerance, and should not be alienated because of their race, sexuality or the way they look or dress, there is no such thing as normal; every one of us is different and special. If we are all the same how sad and boring are world would be.

 

My favorite quote "You laugh at me because I am different; I laugh at you because you are all the same”

  

I have always thought I was different from an early age but could not understand why. Being born a boy did what any normal boy does. But I really wanted to play with the girls and do girl things. When I was about 7, I used to play with 2 girls in our street. Well one day we got to play dress up. Well they dressed me in a pretty dress and heels and I just loved it. It was not until I was about 13 that I started to dress in secret dressing in my mother’s clothes and putting on makeup. Throughout my life I have gone through stages of dressing and purging, but in the last two years the urge to become a woman has been very strong. I came out to my family at Christmas 2009, it was not until September 2010 that Stephanie stepped out in to the world and I have not stopped since. I feel very comfortable walking around London and traveling on public transport, during the day or night.

 

For the record, My photos are an extension of my femininity, I try to show all aspects of it. From everyday woman's wear to fantasy. and I have great fun doing it. It is not a fetish, and I don't get off on it. I have a keen interest in fashion and like to experiment with different looks.

 

Due to a birth defect I was born with the soul of a girl handicapped by being in a male body and have struggled and suppressed this throughout my life. It has been only in the last three years that I have come to terms and accepted my femininity. I have become a better and more caring person and have never been happier. I have been transitioning for 3 years and I am happy with the progress thus far. I am proud to be Transgender and I support the LGBT community in there struggle to be accepted and to be able to live their lives without fear and persecution. I support gay marriage and see nothing wrong with people of the same gender loving each other. Love is love and comes in many forms, who are we to judge on who can and can not marry.

To those of you who recite from religious scriptures and spew hate and want to persecute and even have us killed in the name of your Gods. Does it not say thou shell not kill.

Matthew 5:44

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;.

It's easy to spout scriptures bending it to your way of thinking. Religious scriptures were written by men for there own selfish reasons. My God is compassionate and caring, I don't believe in a God that treats woman as 3rd class citizens and does not renounce slavery. I do not follow a God who is vengeful and spews hate. It's so easy to attack vulnerable targets and blame them for all the ills in the world.. If all religious faiths pored all there energy in to making the world a safer place, helping to prevent poverty, starvation and persecution instead of being in conflict with each other the world would be a better place. The biggest evil and one of the biggest reasons we have overpopulation which is the main cause of poverty and hunger is the Pope's stance on condoms. apart from humans having to many children and causing food shortages. It also prevents the spread of sexually transmitted and deadly diseases. Millions of pounds worth of aid is wasted by corruption never getting to where it's most needed. This money would be far better spent on infrastructure and promoting a better way of life. Religion has caused wars, misery and hardship through out history it's is time that all faiths come together and resolve there differences and heal the world. Love, compassion, understanding and aiding all races of man should be there goal. There should be no place for hate & persecution . God loves all his children he made us the way we are. To hate and persecute Gods creations, is going against your own God. So do not judge others by your own standards only God can

 

I have two close friends who have helped Stephanie grow as a person and would like to say a special thank you to Gillian and Ann

I love dressing and posing for the camera, I do it for fun and love to play up to the camera and flirt a little, I hope you like my photos and enjoy them as much as I did posing for them.

  

My Blog ( scroll down for older posts )

 

8th January 2013

I received this lovely message today, I am always getting emails from guys declaring there love and the usual sexual undertones that come with it. But every now and then I get a really nice one. I thought I would share it with you

 

Hi Stephanie,

First I think you are beautiful, I think you have great legs and are very sexy. I also think you to be a beautiful person inside as well. I understand your conflict about the hormone therapy as well, you are very considerate to think how hard it would be for an employer to have you work two years as a woman so you can get the okay. Too bad, because the way you write I believe you are a woman. I have had similar feeling my whole life and never been brave enough to act on them as my family and wife would not understand. I was the last of 4 sons and most of my life I was told I was supposed to be a girl... strange huh? The other strange thing here..... and not to creep you out... I find you very attractive and I am straight as well not gay... so explain that one.... I am only attracted to women, I'm attracted to you so...

 

Anyway I enjoy your photos as well as your writings. Good luck beautiful in the future,

 

DJ

 

I think all us Trans have our struggles and internal turmoils throughout are lives, trying to understand why we feel as we do. I believe once you accept the real you, you can move forward. Even then you have to think of the repercussions coming out causes should you take that course of action. If you are married its even more pragmatical. Your wife will in most cases be angry, heartbroken that the marriage has been a lie and then the hate. If I had been honest with myself and realised what I was from an earlier age I would have told my partner from the very beginning. But I really had no idea that 20 years later Stephanie would be such a big part of my life, we had no internet back then so I was literally in the dark. It has been my biggest regret hurting my partner keeping it a secret all those years, bottling up my feelings and being in a state of denial. The saddest thing was that I really loved my wife she was my best friend. Sadly she was unable to come to terms and accept me for who I am, My love for her has died due to her hate. I still care for her and I don't hate her for what she has also done to me since. For the most part I am happier than I have been for many years, I have wonderful friends here and in the real world more so than before I came out. I have the love of my family and I thank god that I have two wonderful sons who don't judge me and still love there dad. What next for Stephanie, well there is no turning back, I still have a long way to go but I feel alive and feel I can accomplish anything set before me. a far cry from my male persona who was scared to try anything new and had virtually no friends. It's heart warming that people see me as a woman, for that is what i am but only different.

 

17 July 2012

The None Event

So Stephanie wanted to experience being taken out by a guy and being treated like a lady. So after chatting with a guy over a period of time on Facebook, I agreed to meet for a drink and go for a meal. I made it clear that I had no interest in a relationship but could meet as friends. Just two people enjoying each other’s company chatting and getting to know each other. Well the day arrived I spent a couple of hours getting ready then it was time to make tracks. Feeling confident I made my way to the bus stop and waited for my bus. Two buses and a train ride later I arrived at Baker Street some 20 minutes early. Well my date for the evening arrived about 5 minutes later he greeted me with a kiss on the cheek and we made our way to a bar close by. I felt at ease and found a table while he got us drinks. Well we started making small talk but noticed he had quickly finished his drink. Put it down to nerves as he went to the bar to order another drink. Well we were going to get a cab and go to another bar in Soho, but when he returned with his second drink he told me that he felt uncomfortable. Whether it was me or the reality had set in and the fantasy of going out with a Tgirl, or being seen with one unnerved him I guess I will never really know. So he made his apologies and escorted me to my bus stop and we departed amicably. So I made my merry way home stopping off at the Chinese for a takeout. So was I disappointed with the outcome slightly, but not surprised. I suppose it was a bonus that the guy even showed up or even stayed for a drink. Will I do it again may be, but it’s not something that’s important in my life at the moment.

I guess this sort of thing happens a lot, guys like the idea of taking a Tgirl out. But when the opportunity arises for whatever reason the guys get cold feet or the actual reality of being in ones presence makes them uncomfortable, embarrassed or worried about being seen with one.

So the evening was not a total waste, it was good for my confidence to travel around by myself and not feel like a freak.

  

2 July 2012

 

My dear friend Diana, sent me a belated birthday gift, it was a lovely 50′s style floral dress all the way from Australia. I got to wear it last Friday and have posted some photos of the dress to Flickr and to Facebook, I Also made a video which I hope to post to Dreamgurl soon. Well I had a lovely weekend at Ann’s apart from doing a couple of photo shoots we had a couple of trips out. We went to Brent Cross for are weekly visit to check out the latest dresses and shoes and to scare a few shoppers Lol. I just love doing just the normal every day things like going in to a supermarket to purchase food etc and being served without any fuss. On the Saturday we took a trip over to Camden, Just love going to the market there. Spent a good few hours checking out the stalls and shops, lots of retro and Gothic clothes as well as every day and party dresses, I could of spent a small fortune. Then we popped in to burger king for lunch, whilst waiting in the queue a young woman was holding an adorable baby girl about 10 months old, well the baby was giving us a lovely smile and seemed quite happy to see us. The mother turned saw Ann and me and said to the baby your weird, And then said but you don’t like anyone and we all had a giggle at that. After lunch we walked to regents park and took a stroll through the park as it was such a lovely day. We did another photo shoot on the Sunday morning before I had to return home and put Stephanie a way for another week. Still only 6 night shifts to do and then I am off for 12 days. Hope to be going to the Way Out club on the 7th they have two new venues. this will be my first time there and am looking forward to it.

 

Well the stephaniedreamgur site has been updated with a few more photo sets Have finally added a Guest book page so would love to hear from you and get some feed back on my site or comments on my photos. I have also got a download page set up so you are able to download my photo sets and videos which are in higher quality than the ones you can view on the site.

 

Well that’s all the news I have for you take care love Stephanie xxx

 

21 June 2012

Well It has been a long while since I have been able to get out in to the garden, the weather in the UK has been rotten so far this year. Ann collected me from home and we drove over to Hampstead to do an outside photo shoot. I wore my new yellow floral dress and black open toe heels. We spent about an hour and a half taking photos clocking up 450 photos between us. Then we went back to Ann’s place for a spot of lunch, then afterwards we spent the afternoon doing a photo shoot in the garden. 4 clothing changes and another 600 photos later we decided to call it a day and then chilled out soaking up the sun and relaxing.

 

Well that’s about it for now staying over at Ann’s to do another photo shoot tomorrow, weather not looking good so looks like we will be doing it inside.

That’s the British weather for you “Groan”

 

6 June 2012

My dilemma

Yes I am a late starter I am 51 and came out at the age of 49 to my family. I have always felt different from an early age and never felt comfortable living as a guy. So The urge to dress has always been there on and off since the age of 7. But my desire to live as a woman has got stronger with each passing year. I finally accepted this back in December 2009 and have been happier for it. I have been on a bit of a roller coaster since but do not regret it for one minute. Being out dressed as a woman just felt so natural and right. I am luckier than most that I don’t have to much of a masculine face and body. I am not to bothered if I pass or not as long as I dress nicely and I am respectful while out. I have got used to the strange looks and the giggles behind my back. If people have a problem with me dressed as a woman then it’s there problem not mine. I have been fortunate that I have not encountered anything nasty and received more compliments than anything negative so far. But I am ever mindful that a day may come when my luck might run out. I would be happy if I could be put on the hormone treatment to help make me more feminine and if i did have the operation then it would be cosmetic rather than for sex reasons. So do i possibly suffer being ridiculed, shunned harassed and victimized at work and possibly hounded out of a job. With the job situation as it is, would I be able to find employment elsewhere. It’s hard enough getting a job as it is and would be even harder being Transgender. So reluctantly I have decided not to press a head at least for the time being. My situation may change and may be one day my dream will come to fruition.

I would have to live and work as a woman for two years, and only be prescribed a low dosage of estrogen before they would prescribe the full hormone treatment. Having

to work as a woman before the hormones had given me a more feminine look is crazy not only for me but my employer.

I could do it but it would not be fair on me or my employer. Some would say well it weeds out the time wasters etc. Which is bullshit, You have to see a doctor who then refers you to a psychiatrist who then refers you to the gender clinic, which is a long process do you honestly think a Tgirl would go through all that if they were not serious. When I am not at work I dress and do day to day things as a woman. I want to transition with dignity not be made to feel a freak

 

25th May 2012

Hello been a while since my last update.

Yesterday I had a fabulous day the sun was shining, and it’s been a long time since it’s been that warm in the UK. Went to my friend Ann’s to do another of our photo shoots and make a few videos.

Then in the afternoon we set of for our favourite place to do an outside photo shoot. It was so nice to be able to put on a summery dress and wear it out. After the shoot we popped in to the Bull and Bush for a cold refreshing drink. It was so nice nobody was staring us out and just accepted us being there.

 

I post some photos to this group but sadly they turned my photos down.

On 25 May 12, 9.00PM BST Pleasant_One said:

as much as I admire your clasy photos, I couldn't let them into the group Best Pantyhose Ever, because as the group rules state it is a group for females in pantyhose only.

I decided to put up that limitation and want to stick to it, sorry.

 

However I invited your pictures to my crossdresser group and would be really happy if you accept the invite.

 

Best Regards

Mel

 

Hi Mel

It's your group and you have your reasons, slightly disappointed as although I am not a genetic female, I am probably more feminine than most females you see out and about in public. I am not asking you to reconsider, just that for a genuine Tgurl striving for our kind to be accepted by society and treated as equals. I try to push the boundaries and prove to the general public that we are not a fret or some kind of sexual deviants. It does not help that a lot of crossdressers do it for sexual pleasure and I can understand why you would not want that in your group. I try to portray all aspects of femininity in to my pictures and always hopefully in good taste. Thank you for the invite to your crossdresser group.

 

Best Regards Stephanie

 

Just to say I have no problem with people who get there sexual kicks out of dressing there is nothing wrong with it and there are many groups that cater for it. I am just saying for Tgurls who are trying to be accepted in to society, it just makes our cause harder.

  

I would like to thank everyone who has taken the time to view and favour my photos. I love all your comments and would love to receive more from my beautiful friends. Love Stephanie xxx

  

6th April 2012

Well it’s been a while since I updated my profile; first I would like to wish you all a Happy Easter to those of you who celebrate this time of year.

 

Well I have been a busy gurl, done numerous photo shoots and have been really happy with the results. Ann has adjusted the lighting so the photos are a lot brighter, plus she has extended the length of floor space which has helped in me being able to do new floor poses.

 

A few weeks back I met up with Gillian and Rachel for a gurls night out, and the lovely Katie Smith joined us we all had a fabulous night.

 

Last weekend Ann his wife & I met up with some friends at the Revolution Pub near the Tower of London for Sunday lunch. They hold the London Alternative Fair there once a month, lots of nice Fetish clothes and shoes and other naughty things can be purchased. We even got our photos taken so hope to be in there Web site gallery for April.

 

Well I decided in the end to trawl through all 6,000 photos checking that I had them classified properly. It seems that Flickr does not want Transgender videos classed as safe. I would advise all Tgurls to adjust their videos to moderate viewing. I have had 5 other Tgurl friends been made restricted because of their videos. Also on the cautious side I have made all my photos where I am modelling with another girl restricted. Well I am happy to say that Flickr have reviewed and reinstated my account to safe.

 

On a personal note I mentioned that I was seeing a consultant at the Gender Clinic in Charing Cross.

That was back on the 19th Feb, I have been soul searching ever since whether to proceed with the transitioning process. My main concern and always has been is the work issue and how my company may view it. I have no problem going through with it just don’t want to find myself pushed out of a job and then trying to find another especially with the current job market as it is. So still undecided my next appointment is in July, so I do not have much time left to decide TBC.

 

This last Wednesday I had arranged to meet a friend who is well on the way to transitioning at Charing Cross Hospital. Wanted to get her views, and information on the process. She was able to fill in the blanks and give me more food for thought. I had finished work that morning at 7am, went straight home to change and transform myself in to Stephanie. So about 9am I set off for the bus stop to get the bus to take me to the underground station. Did not have to wait long and no one seemed to notice and It was not long before I was quite relaxed and enjoying the journey. Arrived at the underground station and did not have to wait too long for my train. All the seats had been taken so I had to stand and that’s when an elderly lady started to take an interest in me. Well it looked and kept looking for quite an age. I thought to myself okay you have seen me get over it and go back to your paper. Well I just ignored her and continued to enjoy my journey. I am happy to say that was the only time I felt eyes on me for the rest of the day. On my return Journey while waiting for my bus to go home a young man asked me which bus went to Wembley, so I was able to tell him? Then he then sat next to me on the bus and asked if I would let him know when we were at his stop. Well not sure if he knew I was a Tgurl or not but he thanked me as he was getting off. So all in all I had a good day and it was good for my confidence knowing that I could do it on my own.

  

30th January 2012

Just had a lovely weekend, Friday I was at Pedestal night club met some lovely people and had a really good night out. I was dressed in a purple velvet corset and a black and purple Tutu. Saturday went up to Oxford Street shopping bought myself some shoes, Bra and fashion tights. Then went for a Pizza with Ann. Sunday we went to Camden Market and bought myself a lovely 50's style dress. Then it was back to Ann's for lunch and a photo shoot. 3 days dressed has been heaven one lucky lady.

 

26th January 2012

Well been a busy month managed to do quite a few Photo shoots with Ann and a few visits to the shops. I picked up a few bargains from the January sales, all ways very nice to pick up a bargain and save a few pennies as well.

 

Ann and I have a large indoor shopping center close by, so no wrapping up warm for us. Out of The car and in to the mall we stroll with are heels making that lovely sound. No Jeans and baggy T-shirts for us but two well dressed ladies going about town. First stop Monsoon to check out some lovely dresses only slightly spoiled by a male shop assistant who called us Gents, which we just totally ignored. Then it was on to are next port of call where a lovely young girl assistant gave us a warm welcome.

We then made are way to John Lewis and perused some lovely shoes and dresses before heading to the stockings and pantyhose department. We both selected some pantyhose and made our way to the cashier, We were served by two lovely ladies who were not in the least bit put out and treated us with respect and were very friendly and made lovely conversation with us. We then popped in to Boots the Chemist to purchase makeup and then made are way to the men's department to look at the razor blades. Poor guy next to us was totally gobsmacked seeing us two discussing the price of razors, Well we just burst in to giggles when we made our way out of the store.

We do have great fun going on our weekly visits to the Mall and I have bought a few dresses and a skirt and blouse just recently. But I think it's the reactions of some of the shoppers that tickle us the most. It can be quite hilarious just watching some peoples reactions when they notice us.

 

Had the big disappointment of having my Flickr account marked as restricted. From what I can gather Flickr don’t like Transgender videos being flagged as safe. My more daring ones of me in lingerie and the rubber including my cheeky strip show were marked as moderate. But it seems me in pretty dresses were deemed to be unsafe. They also thought that photos of Ann and I in fetish gear, which were marked as moderate and which were done in good taste to be classed in the same light as full frontal nudity and acts of a sexual nature. I have now had to make all my photos of Ann or any of my friends who pose with me restricted so as not to offend. I post most of my photos to either transgender or adult related sites, just annoys me that if people should find such things upsetting then why are they looking at these groups in the first place. Well flickr of reinstated my safety level for now or until the next time some poor righteous soul wants to complain.

  

3rd January 2012

Wishing all my Flickr friends a Happy New year.

I saw in the New Year dressed at my friend Ann and Pat’s place. Then for the next two days I did a couple of photoshoots. I got to dress up in an American style School girl dress that was sent to me by my American friend Jamie, who wished to see me wear it for her. Thank you Jamie, I hope you liked the photos. To round of 3 fabulous days of being dressed we did a bit of window shopping at Brent Cross, but did not see much that I liked apart from one dress which had a nice price to. Needless to say I did not buy it, I need to win the lotto :-)

  

Merry Christmas & Happy New year to all my Flickr Friends

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14th & 15th Dec 2011

Wednesday 14th night had a lovely night out with Ann & Gillian. We first popped into the Verge bar in Brick lane and then went for a meal in one of the local curry houses.

Thursday 15th Katie Joined Ann and I for a photo shoot, which was great fun. After dropping Katie off at the train station Ann and I headed off to Brent Cross shopping centre to check out the latest fashions. Bought a lovely dress in New Look which had been marked up at £32, but had been reduced to just £8 “Bargain”. Then I went back to Ann’s for dinner, she cooked me fish & chips followed by cherry pie and custard “Lovely”.

I would like to thank everyone who gave me nice comments on my new shorter hair style. I will still model my longer wigs for my photo shoots but needed something more suitable for going out.

I would like to wish all my friends on Flickr a Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday hope you all have a lovely time.

Hugs Stephanie xxx

  

25th, 26th & 27th November 2011

Was out at Pedestal nightclub on Friday the 25th had a lovely evening I wore a red and black fashioned corset and red and black tutu, black stockings and 5 inch red platform heels. On the Saturday Ann and I met up with my friend Jenny from Australia and we spent a lovely afternoon walking round the west end checking out the clothes and shoe shops. Had lunch in pizza express near Soho and had a nice girlie chat. Then to round my weekend off I did a 6 hr photo shoot, great fun but I was exhausted at the end. Next Week I am planning on doing either a Goth or Vampire shoot or may be even both.

 

18th November 2011

Thought I better update my activities since my last entry, well I spent a week in Spain staying with my Mum and Dad, Was not able to dress as it could of be awkward for my Parents, explaining me to their friends. Had some lovely chats with my Mum and she even gave me some jewellery, which was so lovely. On my return home I had picked up a cold so was not up to doing any photo shoots, but I did venture out to Camden and Liverpool St to check out the markets.

Then the following week had planned to go to the Magic Theatre with Ann, but she took ill and was stranded in Yorkshire, so we had to cancel going. Last week managed to do two days of photo shoots it was great to get back in front of the camera again.

On Wednesday Ann and I went to Brick Lane to check out the vintage stores then met up with my friend Charles for a drink in the Verge Bar.

Yesterday we did another photo shoot in the morning but I was a bit out of sorts so did not feel or look my best. In the afternoon we went to Brent Cross to browse around the stores and made sure we were seen Lol. Was slightly annoyed at a male shop assistant in River Island who said “did we require any help gents” but every where else we went we were treated with respect.

Well next Friday fingers crossed I will be going to Pedestal night club and also hope to do some more photos on the Saturday or Sunday

 

3rd & 4th October 2011

Spent two lovely days dressed, On the Monday Ann and I took the tube train to Waterloo Station.

Where we met up with Diana Mathews, who was on vacation from Australia. We then took a stroll along the south bank of the Thames and had a few photos taken. We then visited a pub for a drink

And spent a while getting to know Diana. We then jumped in a taxi back to Waterloo to collect Diana’s luggage before taking the tube and bus back to Ann’s house for dinner. Later we took Diana to her hotel, and joined her for a drink in the bar before we returned to Ann’s place. Next day we collected Diana who joined us for a photo shoot, she kindly let me borrow her pink girly dress for the shoot. I also was able to wear my curly hair after Ann had managed to restore it to its former glory.

After the shoot we took Diana to the station and said are goodbyes. As it was not such a nice day we cancelled are outing to Hampstead and went to Brent Cross shopping centre. We spent a lovely few hours looking around the shoe and dress shops and purchased some food from M&S for our dinner.

Spent the rest of the evening at Ann’s before I had to return Home and hang my dress up for another Week.

 

24th & 25th Sept 2011

Had a lovely weekend, on Saturday Ann and me did two photo shoots. We went to are favourite garden area on Hampstead Heath; it was a nice day and managed to take quite a few photos. A young lady offered to take Ann and I's photo which was so nice of her. We then went back to Ann’s place to do another photo shoot after we had lunch.

On the Sunday we drove over to Camden to browse round the market. We did get quite a lot of attention due to our over the top outfits Lol. Two young girls rushed to catch us up and asked if they could have photos taken with us. Not ones for turning down a photo opportunity we said we would love to. We then hit the High St checking out the shops, and then went to Burger King for lunch. After lunch did a bit of shopping and then I had a mishap. The platform part of my white Boots broke off, Just as well I had a spare pair of flat shoes in my bag. We then went back to Ann’s place to chill out watch tv and have dinner.

 

Fri 16th Sept 2012

Did two photo shoots one at Ann’s Place and then in the afternoon headed over to Hampstead Heath.

There is a Garden situated by an old building which is great for taking photos. Then it was back to Ann’s for dinner

 

Thu 15th Sept 2012

Ann and I decided to travel up to Liverpool Street by Tube. We spent the day walking around Spitafields Market and Brick Lane, checking out the vintage stores and dress shops. We popped into a fish & chip shop for lunch before visiting a few more shops.

 

Wed 14th Sept 2012

Had a lovely evening, went to Tranntshack nightclub with my friend Ann. Enjoyed dancing and the Drag show was funny if not a little rude Lol. Got back to Ann’s place at 3am and stayed up to watch an old Colombo Movie before hitting the sack.

 

6th and 7th September

Spent two lovely days visiting my friend Ann, We managed to do a couple of photo shoots and visit Brent Cross Shopping centre.

 

9th September 2011

I received this from a guy who was not happy with me posting my photos, to groups that are not Trandgender related.

 

Guy:

Why in the fuck do you ruin Flickr with this shit??? Nobody wants to see your ugly face cross dressing and posting pictures in groups designed for REAL women's photos. Please put a gun in your mouth and pull the trigger...your parents would be a lot less ashamed if you did.

 

My reply

Well not all people are like you with a closed mind, the groups you are on about, I have been invited by the administrator of those groups. You have a choice and that is not to view my photos if it disturbs you so much. Also I suggest you read the Flickr rules. I have over 5,000 friends who think different. Have a good day

 

Guy:

You are sorely mistaken about me having a closed mind. The only reason you have "friends" on here is because the world has literally millions of people in it and you are bound to find more who are sick like you are. Why don't you stick to the groups that feature people who are as mentally ill as you are, like your 5000 "friends".? How do your parents feel about you?? Tell me honestly...does your Mother and Father support your "habit" or are THEY "closed minded" as well?

 

My reply

What is it that you find so offensive, Are you attacking me because i prefer to wear woman’s clothes or are you attacking me because of my sexualality which happens to be straight. I am not mentally ill as you seem to make out. You don't know me so how can you make these statement just because of the way I dress. Everyone is special in this world and should be accepted regardless of race, colour, sex , disability or how we dress or look. If everyone was the same how sad and boring this world would be. You have been brain washed by society where everything has to be black or white. well its not, open your eyes because there are lots of kind decent caring people out there who are different. Thank God. Yes I said God but my God is Compassionate, caring and loving. Not what is written in some story book that was written by men for men. To answer your question yes my parents know and yes they love me. How and what I do in my life is no concern of yours, Just like every other Human being on this world, we have a right to live it as we please so don't go preaching to me and telling where and where I can not post my photos. Like I said before you have choices either to look or not look that's for you alone to decide. I am proud to be a Tgirl and not ashamed of who I am, I am a caring human being, you may think I am a freak but least I am not ugly like you seem to be inside

 

Guy:

Good points, I will give you that, but I think you are lying about your parents knowing. It's fine if you want to tell a stranger lies, but that's what I think. As far as being straight, if you ARE then why dress like a woman and flaunt it to the world?? You know what, I served my country for 6 years and a year of it was in Iraq during the Gulf War fighting for your freedoms, so you go on with your bad self...be who you are (I GUESS) because I fought for your right to do so. If you choose to dress like a woman and howl at the moon then go ahead....but I am not alone in my thinking about people like you..I'm sure you know that 99% of the world despises you and people like you. Good luck getting through to EVERYONE.

 

My reply

I have no reason to lie my parents do know about me. You were fortunate to have been born a man in a mans body I was not so lucky. Is that my fault I was born that way. You say you dispise our kind what is it that you hate about us , are you scared of us do you think we have a disease or something. Well I can put your mind at rest there it's not catching, However I would suggest that you never try to put on any woman's clothing you might just like it.

I have had contact with many armed forces personel and they have liked my pictures for what they are . I have had many compliments from Men and woman of all ages, many tell me they are straight and state that they really enjoy my photos even knowing that i am not a girl. Don't you think there is more than enough hate & evil in this world caused by men and religion. It's all to easy to hate, because people are afraid of, or not understanding anything that is alien or different from themselves. They think there way of life or there god is right so everyone else’s is wrong and must be evil.

As a child you are taught by parents teachers and priests. so you follow there religion and teachings and you believe what is taught you. The child only has one view on life he has not been opened to all the other possibilities in this world so he is blinkered. This is brainwashing you are then pigeon holed by society and heaven forbid that child realizes he has a mind of his own and starts to question what is taught him and what is normal and what is not.

Got news for you every one of us is a human being. not one of us are the same we are all individual and special. The world is a far richer place for it.

I support the brave soldiers who risk their lives to protect what is right. I do not support our governments who sent you guys over to the Middle East. Only time will tell when the real truth comes out as to why you were there. Oil being the main reason otherwise why has the west done nothing about the atrocities in Africa.

 

I would say that the vast majority of Transgendered folk, this covers a wide range of different people, are very caring and loving people who only want to live like every other Human being in the community without prejudice and fear we are not a fret to you. We are a soft touch you should be taking your hatred out on the real evils of this world the ones who want to kill and rule by fear. They are already in your community not in the Middle East.

  

Do you know what i find disgusting is when I am bombarded by men who want to make me a contact and all there pictures are of there erect penises and much worse images. My images are a way of glorifying feminity from cute to vamp sorry you don't like them that’s your choice.

 

Guy:

I'm sorry that I was hard on you. Your points have made me realize that you are who you are because God has chosen you for it. Please accept my apology and I am glad that you are strong because closed minded people like myself will always judge you. You obviously have embraced who you are and are making the very best of it.

 

Stephanie

All credit to the guy for apologizing may I also say I mean no disrespect to the Bible or any religious book for that matter. But men have interpreted what has been written for their own goals. All this has caused wars, cruelty, misery and hate through out history.

 

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