Just a disclaimer: I have absolutely no idea why a lot of my photos are stretched, it doesn't seem to happen on a phone.

 

Well hello there, 40 years old Trans Female firecracker here. There is no ambiguity, I'm not non binary - this is me, there's no 'dressing up' anymore. I finally decided to transition in late 2022 and not regretted it once, however, just because I have fun and smile a lot, life is not perfect.

 

I have no fetishes and won't get involved with all that, I'm not a sissy and I don't want dominating - just wanted to get that out there.

 

People say I'm a social butterfly, I'm not remotely phased by talking to anyone especially when the drink is flowing, I like nothing more than talking complete nonsense to strangers, sometimes I need to rein it in :-)

 

Life can be a bit challenging at times but never dull, as I'm nearly certain I have yet undiagnosed ADHD. As I say, this can be a blessing and a curse. I find it very difficult to hold down a job due to lack of concentration and sheer boredom setting in, it's always the same story unfortunately - and it isn't like I haven't had a few jobs..

 

Anybody who is looking for Romance or the like you have no chance, I'm dry as a desert :-D HRT has nuked my libido and will to be with anyone in any aspect - hoping to address this somewhat next time I see my specialist as it's a bit of a bugger to feel so good and not want to share it.

 

Stand up for your rights, those rights could be snatched away.. I'll fight for you by just being present as and where I want.

 

In a lot of a ways I buck the trend of being trans, I am massively self deprecating and don't mind having the piss taken out of me if I know you, I do it to myself loads. I wouldn't say I have a really dark sense of humour, but it's on the cusp.

 

I don't see my birth name as a deadname, some of those years were fun at times, and without that boy they wouldn't be me now. I'll never be a genetic Woman, and in many ways when you start out transition it can be difficult to call yourself a Woman.. I'm a proud trans Woman, that's good enough for me.

 

I'm highly respectful towards Women, and in all honesty I respect their opinion towards me, even if it's negative, I'll never shout them down as I feel it's their right to question. On the other hand, if a Male has a negative opinion, that's bullshit, I'll call it, as they haven't a clue about any of it.

 

Thankfully it's very, very rare I have any trouble or negativity and I feel for those who do.

 

Interests include, mountain biking, raving/dancing, walking and history, especially local history. I like something that could be considered highly geeky, but I will leave you to guess.

 

Excited for the next chapter.

 

Jess x

  

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