How old do you think I am? I didn't discover my fem side until I was late 30's and only then because I had lost my job and one day ran out of clothes at my girlfriends apartment when I was broke and didn't have a car to get to the laundry mat. How humiliated I initially felt when I discovered I had only a choice between dirty guy clothes or clean woman's clothes on a hot day home alone. "How the mighty had fallen" I thought to myself. But the "disaster" turned out to be better than Alice in Wonderland with perspective on the other side of the looking glass.

Basically being "forced" into female clothes turned out to be a discovery I would have missed had life not thrown me off my man world. Until then, I wanted females out of clothes. After that, I wanted to wear them myself. lol. Without life's curve balls, I would have missed seeing the world more as females do. With a little "magic" makeup, I was no longer a drab guy but a striking female. It was how I "disappeared" in plain sight, someone who was NOT the person being pursued by creditors or international gangs (which happened in the Netherlands once). I once went to a church in Monterrey Mexico with my wife at the time, presenting as female. No one seemed to notice.

Being Michelle has been a liberating side of my personality. The cool thing about age is that you get to a point you don't give a damn what anyone might think. You aren't trying to impress or climb the ladder. We older gurls just like to have some laughing kind of fun! And do some good.

I have been many things: lawyer, pilot, entrepreneur, global strategic thinker, political junkie, writer, and yes, one who jumps back and forth across the gender line.

I found my female side helps me deescalate conflict. That has helped my business and cut my stress. it makes doing administrative crap more fun. And nothing beats a cool dress on hot triple digit killer days! I predict men will soon have to dress like Arab men in robes because its the same thing, a dress to stay cool in (in more ways than one). I prefer the female version.

I am open to conversations. I don't have much free time since I run a successful business that keeps me traveling, so it could take awhile for me to respond. But the intent is there. I like intelligence and wit. Bigots can go f themselves. lol. If I were a woman I'd probably be a Lesbian because I've never liked a lot of men, most of whom I find boring and crude instead of intelligent and witty.

My email is MichelleRich2020@yahoo.com

Michelle