I have decided to up-grade my profile, as certain aspects of my life continue to change. I am a life long transvestite, but only in the last few months have I finally come to the decision to "deal with it". This does not necessarily mean coming completely out of the closet- far from it, I am still secretive regarding my dressing. but I have begun to let a few trusted friends know, and at least get a glimpse of Jennie as I appear on flickr.

I am thrilled to say my loving spouse has met me as Jennie and I genuinely hope and pray will eventually develop a warm and loving friendship. Needless to say, It only makes me adore her more, and I look forward to a life long friendship, love affair, however you wish to describe it, I love my wife.

One more thing... I love to make contact with others, and adore the attentions of an admirer, but if you have no profile photo, or a photo of your face or simply a genital shot, you needn't bother reaching out to me. All those with no profile photo, no profile, no evidence of any kind apart from some silly name- I know you won't read this , but you'll be ignored or blocked. Any genital shots- blocked! Serial faves- blocked! Headless Horsemen- blocked! Sexual activity- blocked!! And finally, if your not making a serious attempt to portray yourself as a feminine entity (I know, that's somewhat subjective, but nevertheless)- BLOCKED! In truth, if there is serious sexual activity on your photo stream, I will not reciprocate with a "follow" either. I have no interest in seeing what you do in the intimacy of YOUR bedroom.

Put bluntly, I will not answer mail if your profile does not include a picture of how you look, and I don't mean your PENIS (ugh)! and if you've got nothing for me, I'm not following you- really rather simple, nest-ce pas?

Sorry to be such a Bi@#!*, but that's just how I feel...

Aug. 15th, 2016, and approaching the 2 year anniversary when Jennie announced to her spouse she was re-emerging after a few decades of hiatus. Since then I have 1) convinced said spouse not simply to tolerate, but actually enjoy the company of Jennie, and her none too infrequent shopping trips, 2) done several make-overs with the world renowned stylist Monica Prata of NYC, who has shown me not simply a look, but the ability, grace, poise and confidence to walk amongst the living out in the big bad world, 3) gone to 2 conferences where I lived full time en femme for several days, and pretty much waked talked and breathed as a woman, 4) assembled a wardrobe (see "shopping trips", #1) which is enabling me to finally appear in public as I wish to be seen, 5) come out to a few well chosen individuals, some even getting to meet the "real" me, 6) begun therapy which has helped me enormously in gaining the confidence to go forth, by allowing myself to finally accept and embrace what I really am. What I really am- full time, part time, 10,000% female, 50/50,? - all of this remains before me to suss out, but I am growing in ways I never even dreamt possible, and have turned one of my deepest fears (dressing in public- yes, I thought of it as terrifying) to one of my greatest joys and delights. And along the way have gotten in touch with feelings and issues within me I have battled for years.

But I'm not done yet. Stay turned........ much much love