If you add us as Family and or Friend and you have nothing to share or only a couple of pics, I will remove my self from your contact list. If you happen to have faved any pics then unfortunately, they will be removed as well.

We only use the Friends setting, every thing is in that if it is not public.

1. If you have nothing to share and want to fave my pics, go ahead, just don't add me as F/F, add as contact only, I will not reciprocate tho.

2. If you only have pics of your male genitals or pics that are a from over a year ago or pics taken from the web, I will remove myself from your F/F list.

3. If you are not sure how that happens, just delve further into flickr and you will learn. A good place to start is here.

www.flickr.com/groups/unsafe/

4. If you want one of our pics added to a group, send an invitation to the group at the same time. Personally I do not like my comment area on my pics being cluttered with invites and the only way to get rid of them, with out clicking the no thanks button is to remove myself from your contact list. This will also unfortunately, eliminate any comments you have made or faves on all our pics. No invite, no add, simple as that. Nothing worse than not knowing what a group is about before adding a pic or having to write a note to the group owner asking to be allowed to join.

If you are just starting out and have nothing to share yet, don't worry, I do check my contacts from time to time and if something has been added lately I will add you...

I am 53 and bi. Wife is bi as well and we enjoy playing with others either at home or at gatherings. I do cross dress and we luv to have MFM 3sums when I do.

If you have a blank buddy icon like this[https://www.flickr.com/photos/example/] and or nothing to share in your photostream after you add us, we will not add you and probably block you.

An added note, I have gone thru the list of my contacts who are just one way contacts, IE; you have made us a contact or f/f but have nothing available for us to view... I do check this list from time to time and as I find someone who has something for us to view I add them from our end...