Camera:

Nikon D50 DSLR. Bought in 2006. Does just great for all I will need.

Flash:

Nikon SB-400 Speedlight. Mainly for bounce flash.

Lenses:

Nikon AF-S 18-55 DX, f3.5-f5.6, SWM, kit lens www.kenrockwell.com/nikon/1855.htm

Nikon AF 70-300 G, f4-f5.6, noisy bugger, kit lens www.kenrockwell.com/nikon/70300g.htm

Nikon AF 50 D, f1.8, nice low light, contrast, sharpness and shallow depth-of-field, great bokeh www.kenrockwell.com/nikon/5018daf.htm

+ other various 2nd-hand manual lenses to play with...

Software:

Nikon Capture NX 2 and always shoot in RAW mode

P&S Camera:

Canon PowerShot A590 IS

Nice and cheap and has lots of manual controls.

(Replaces a Pentax Optio S6 which was tiny, but bad in most other ways!)