I consider myself to be transgender but am not full time. Would like to meet and get to know TVs and TGs from the lower Westchester and Northern New Jersey area for friendship and support. Would like to meet couples where the "male" is TV or TG to learn how they make these relationships work. I am also into BDSM. These days I am more versatile than Dom or sub. By the way, I'm way over 21 (try late 40s).