August 2025!!

Wow, could have sworn I had updated this...

For the last year the Mrs health has not been super good. This has involved a new joint, as well as splints, and other hospital stays. So I have been care-giving a lot. So between that and just getting older, (hit year 67 this year), I am down to 'lurker' status (On the 'plus side', since I have not been dressing, I have not bought any dresses or shoes).

Speaking of getting older, I have just retired...still seems a bit strange to not have someplace to go a few days a week after working for 50+ years. And it is amazing how much time my brain spent at work when I was not on the clock. Still catch myself in my old job frame of mind, better find something for that part of my brain to do before it rots completely.

As always, thank you all for being here.

Huggs!

 

New Years-ish 2020

Like many (ok...all) of you here, as 2020 winds down, we see a light at the end of the tunnel that is 2021.

But as the the Coyote found out, lights are not always what you think they are....

As for me, a child has returned home, and I have had my old buddies Doubt and Confusion again clear their throats and start singing loudly in my head (and yes their little cousin Shame helps back them up on the chorus's).

Plus, it does not help when I have really started to look and feel my age ( I have contemplated using a hair scrunchie on the back of my neck to firm things up a bit).

So as the New (and hopefully better) Year approaches, I am pretty sure my posts will be even more sporadic. I have given up on making the resolution that I will keep up with you all better, since I can never keep it...and lets face it, we do not need any more guilt.

But with that uplifting update out of the way...I would like to give you all a Covid safe hug, and wish you....

Happy New Year !!!!

 

LockDown 2020:

Well this sucks...

But it has provided much more opportunity to dress! And that is sort of a problem...I was having trouble keeping up with only my contacts be fore all this started. Now it is a real challenge because there are so many more lovely people on here than even 5 years ago!

So again, I am not the best contact to have if you want lots of communication, but ADORE you all for being here!

Huggs, and stay inside and be safe!!

 

Summer 2018 update:

Well it has happened...I had a numerically significant birthday recently, the big 6 0hmy God !!!!

Life still has me pushed way back in the closet, but who knows what next week will bring....pretty sure it's not a new pair of boots though :(

 

A quick note before I get to babbling about myself...

I continue to be amazed at the beauty that I see here, I would love to leave some kind of great comment on ALL of those awesome pictures ...but words fail most of the time and there is no icon for jaw dropping onto the keyboard. ...sorry about that.... But to those of you who are more eloquent than I and leave me comments.... a HUGE thank you!

 

The following is a bit rambling, but some people like to know this sort of stuff....

 

I am a happily married (but only kinda supported), closeted cross dresser. Sadly, I now fall into the 'mature' category, according to the calender anyway. You know you are mature when you are constantly surprised by that old fart who has taken up residence in your mirror. 21+ if you MUST know..ok, 56 ..there I said it, and it hurt, maybe that means it is going to rain. Been located in Central Oregon for the last 21 years.

 

Like most of you who have stayed awake this far down the page, I started dressing very young, and surprise, still going at it. Love nylon, heels, the usual things. Would love to not look like the Michelin Man, but other than that, have no desire to do any transitioning. Dressing provides an outlet and a balance that I need, and nothing else fills the bill in the same way.

 

NOT LOOKING FOR (OR AT) MEN!! But all comments are welcome :) I know that filling this out a profile falls into the same category as ' what I did on my summer vacation ', but it is nice to know a little bit about who you are. Not looking to get out for that matter (can you say "busted"? Sure I knew you could...). Looking just to show off a bit, and to get to know some people with similar interests.

 

All of my pics are public, sorry if you expect more if you add me as a contact. So far, I have not blocked anybody. I am not qualified to make judgments on how people are wired, but do not be offended if I do not add you back as a contact.

 

9/25/08 OMG!! 10,000 hits !(you can stop laughing now) Thanks to you all for looking (and the comments). Sorry if I am not the most active member or best contact here, but I have some constraints (don't we all).

 

3/18/09 Another milestone for me here, 20,000. Thanks to you all!

 

6/09 Wow, crawled over the 30000 hit mark..Thanks to everyone.

 

10/15/09 The crawl-o-meter just keeps on going, 45,000, thanks yet again.

 

Oh my...just when I had given up on my wife ever being real accepting, she surprises me....she painted my toe nails, and fingernails, and let my shave my legs again!!! (only took 45 min and 2 blades since it had been over a year). Love this woman, Don't give up guys, only took 25 years!!!!

And an other thanks to you for 50,000+ hits!!!

 

Have a Great one..

   

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