Hello and welcome to my photo album displaying just some of the clothing, footwear and accessories that I have in my extensive collection, I have also included some catalogue photos. I am not a big fan of labels or tags so, if asked to describe myself I would say that, I’m just your average guy who loves to wear absolutely anything that a woman might wear. I dress as often as I possibly which is normally every weekday evening as soon as I get home and have a shower, almost all weekend and when I’m in bed but, during the period where I was furloughed during the coronavirus lockdown I was dressed en femme 24/7 (sheer bliss). I would define my preferred dress style as smart casual, stylish and hopefully on trend. I also try to dress appropriate for my age although I can and often do get it wrong but in recent years I think my overall ability to coordinate outfits has improved greatly.

I think it’s important to clarify that, despite what you see my photos, I am not a smoker, I have never smoked and never will but, I love using them as a prop when taking photos and especially when wearing a pair of leather gloves from my extensive collection, I sometimes take it a bit further by actually lighting a cigarette which I find visually quite erotic. I consider myself to be down to earth, sociable, open minded and genuinely love chatting with others over a coffee or online about my passion for all things feminine.

The clothing that you see on my Flickr page has all been bought by me mostly in recent years. I really love receiving comments so if you like what you see, please leave a message, as I genuinely appreciate all nice comments.

I don’t get out en femme as often as I used to before COVID but I like to think that in time this will change. I used to enjoy shopping trips to the likes of Glasgow, Edinburgh, Perth and St Andrews, and once or twice a year I used to stay for two or three nights in a hotel and would be 100% en femme throughout my trip which was a fantastic all round experience. I have a very extensive collection of clothing, footwear and accessories so I am generally spoilt for choice and like most women I spend absolutely ages trying to decide what to wear then at the last minute I will often change my mind several times.

I love wearing absolutely anything that emphasises my feminine side and especially my favourite perfumes which are, Estée Lauder, “Youth Dew” and Estée Lauder “Beautiful”. I combine wearing these with the Estée Lauder matching body lotions. In my opinion these must be the sexiest scents on the planet. When going out I normally prefer to wear my Estée Lauder “Beautiful” as it has a strong and very long lasting scent, and at the weekends I normally opt to wear “Youth Dew”.

Looking back at many of my earlier photos I have to admit that, more often than not, I got my outfits badly wrong but, Flickr’s decision to limit the free account to 1000 photos has meant that I have used this as a convenient excuse to delete many of my older photos. I still have my faux pas moments but, I like to think that these days my ability to coordinate outfits has improved and is more on trend. I am a lot more relaxed about who I am although I’m not as confident about going out in public fully en femme as I used to be pre COVID. When it comes down to it, I own my own space and whatever I chose to do in that space is my business, if anyone has an issue with how I dress then it’s their problem. That said, it’s also fair to say that, although attitudes in this country have changed substantially for the better over the last twenty years, there have been some events just recently that seem to stigmatise certain people like myself. Toilet facilities are now a minefield issue, I mean honestly, where do they expect us to go when we need the toilet? I like to think that most people are more relaxed and inclined to accept those of us in the transgender community and how we choose to dress.

For others like me who enjoy dressing but who might be afraid to go out in public en femme I would say that, you just have to go for it and I guarantee you will won’t regret it. Life is too short and too precious to deny yourself the pleasure of going out en femme all because you are worried what some small minded people might say or think, although personally I have never had any negative comments or responses from anyone despite having been on numerous days out fully en femme. I have been dressing since my childhood but only started going out fully en femme on a regular basis about fifteen years ago and I just wish that I had done it sooner.

I love the classy look which more often than not doesn’t come cheap, I have spent an absolute fortune over the years and it has become quite a serious addiction that I seriously need to get a grip of. I love chatting about feminine fashion, makeup or girly stuff and am comfortable when dressed meeting men or others who share my passion. I am happy to meet and or chat with any crossdressers providing they make the same kind of effort as I do when dressing. I would never condemn, look down or have anything negative to say about any guy who doesn’t dress to my standard because quite simply, if all you want is to wear are women’s knickers or some pvc then that’s your choice and I respect that. My preference is always to blend into the crowd, and draw as little attention to myself as possible, I hopefully achieve this with meticulous attention to detail.

Life is far too precious, we are only on this planet for a relatively short period and unfortunately there’s no reset button to hit if and when we get it wrong. Life is unpredictable (coronavirus proved that) and we have a tendency as human beings to worry about so many things that never actually happen. What we should do is to take each day as it comes and be grateful for what we have and not focus on the things that we don’t have. We can often look back and regret not doing things when we had the opportunity (again coronavirus proved that) but going out in public en femme shouldn’t be on your list of regrets when looking back. Over the last twenty years attitudes towards the LGBT community in the U.K. has improved in leaps and bounds to such and extent that going out in public en femme is a lot more acceptable these days, and dare I say, a normal thing to do.

I would encourage anyone who shares my passion for dressing to go out in public sooner rather than later but, do it in stages. I started on my public journey by wearing lingerie under my male clothing, then I later added a unisex jacket, then I would swop my male tee shirt for a plain self coloured top and jeans all of which were purchased in the ladies departments much of which could almost pass for male clothing. It didn’t take me too long to realise that no one seemed to bother about what I was wearing so I moved on to wearing more feminine items and in particular I paid a lot of attention to applying makeup to an acceptable standard, and wearing a decent quality wig which you can purchase for very little on Amazon. Every time I went out in public I would push myself just a little bit further outside my comfort zone which would increase my confidence for my next outing. The whole process of going out en femme is extremely exhilarating and totally addictive although my reasons for dressing have absolutely nothing to do with any form of sexual gratification. When I dress en femme the woman that I am inside is released from her male shackles and I am free to enjoy life like any other woman, as such I am confident, comfortable and have no issues or concerns when using the ladies changing rooms, toilets although this has recently become quite a decisive topic that has led to a change in the law. Always use common sense and good judgement.

Live life to the full, be kind, considerate and respectful to others, take every day as it comes and try not to worry about anything until it actually happens.