May 2026

I have decided to mark AI pictures with a watermark to be transparent (no pun intended). As it is not always obvious at first glance.

February 2026

After many years of using Paintshop Pro (free version) Photo Editor and more recently Google Pixel software to edit my photographs I have started to explore ChatGPT software. Initially to learn how I can improve Clare's appearance requesting "make up guidance" as well as "guidance in relation to spectacle frame style".

At the time of writing I have found that I can request "Improve Image Quality" and was very please that some pictures that were ok could be amended to a much higher standard.

October 2024

I really enjoy the photography side of being a crossdresser. The challenge of choosing the outfits, lighting, posing as well as the editing. Most of all I must stress for every photo posted on Flickr there is up to a dozen deleted. Having as a teen used Kodachrome 35mm slide film, and later spent a small fortune at Bonusprint the part of modern life I really appreciate is digital photography albeit the mobile phone for convenience.

Summer 2023 update.

12 years of learning the trade of putting a dress on and some lippy, 6 of those years as a single man and still not feeling confident if, or when out in public. 😔

About

I crossdress for my own enjoyment and I choose to share my experiences with anyone via Flickr and YouTube (fellow crossdressers and followers). In return I enjoy other peoples experiences, advice and feedback. I must stress that I am not a fan of the male genitalia just for the sake of it therefore I have Blocked dozens of followers for what I consider inappropriate material, but erotic art and the like I do not particularly mind.

Born in 1961 and living in Yorkshire in the north of England. I feel very privilege to have the opportunity to dress and makeup as I do, recording my progress on Flickr. I am a divorced man, with adult children and now have the freedom to do what I did behind my wife's back for many years, hiding my secret which gave short lived pleasure followed by a lot of guilt.

I am generally the type of person who wished to conform to society and not to stand out from the crowd in any way. However I have enjoyed photography since childhood as well as the female form, so what I do now is perfect. Recently a Follower (Kerry Nope) referred to seeing items in the Exchange and Mart (paper / magazine) when they were young and this was also my introduction to crossdressing.

Purely by chance in my late teens involved going to a local drag bar with friends to be entertained on a Friday evening after a long day at college.