Update April 2025

6,000,000 views from all of you! To think where I started and where I am today, it is amazing! I am finding my way and it is very much tied to all of you being so supportive over the years. It was a super fun day today with my wife doing a fashion show to help her decide which dress of about 10 we ordered that be potential for a summer wedding we will be attending. I am thrilled that we found a Donna Karen blue and yellow dress with a cowl neck that is very flattering and makes her feel as good as she should! So I was putting them all in a space to be ready to return that didn't make the cut, I requested - do NOT send them back yet. So to celebrate this milestone tonight I will be modeling the ones that will fit me and have potential to add to my closet. We are getting there. She isn't ready to be the one I model for but this is all becoming more normal and fun for both of us. I hope it keeps going positively!!💋💋💋

Update February 2025

I am so glad that I finally shared this part of me with my wife. We have been working on boundaries so I don't make her uncomfortable or take too much Janet time versus being there for her in my traditional role. We went to therapy together which was both exciting for me and hard for her. It certainly made me focus on empathy. This is very hard to wrap your head around for us and our significant others. The three of us agreed that I will see my therapist alone for periods and then have my wife join monthly. I don't want her wondering how it is going. I wanted my therapist available to keep the trust high. Therapy will be remote which I am also quite excited about as it certainly makes it easier to be Janet during a session versus going to her office. I am excited about my sessions starting in March!

I have my own closet, have bought clothes and shipped them to the house. My spouse has helped with some moisturizers and we are enjoying a few more girly things together. We were just on vacation and we have always enjoyed shopping together for her for clothes and jewelry while traveling. We found a cute little store in Florida with brands we both love and you have seen in my stream over the years - Habitat is the brand. We found her a few things and then out of the clear blue she asked if I saw anything for me? I about fell over. There was no judgment, no emotions - just simply being kind. I am so fortunate to have made this choice of a life partner! It was simply a question of caring. My wife and clerk had some good laughs about people not seeing us anymore as we age. I think that also made my wife more comfortable helping to put this in perspective for us. I don't think most people care as long as you make a strong effort to not be a man in a dress. I thanked my wife deeply for such a kind, thoughtful, caring question that must have scared her. It didn't which is a huge step forward. We talked more about Janet and about seeing more in the future. It should be an interesting journey now that I have someone to share it with!

Love you all and thank you for all of your lovely comments, support, and faves!💋💋💋

Update December 2024

Today is the first day of my wife and I openly discussing my crossdressing. Tears and hugs have followed and I am sure there will be more follow up from here. She is processing and still incredibly supportive at this point. I am beyond grateful. Thank you to all in the community for supporting me on this journey. I hope as time goes forward we have more dialogue and refine our relationship. I have no idea if there will be an interest or opening to meeting Janet but that will be worked through on her timeline. I love her and would hate to have this negatively impact our lives!

Update March 2024

What a journey! I posted my first pic in August of 2020. That was after a very tentative toe being put in the water by joining this site in 2007. I know, it took a long time to start sharing more of who I am. Subsequently, in November 2022, I hit 1M views. My mind was blown! Then, after more posts and so much more encouragement, in November 2023, I hit 2M views which is still hard to get my head around. Now, on the doorstep of 3M views, it is only March 2024. Along the way, I had a ton of fun, engaged with wonderful people on this platform, and learned more about what I like, who I am, how to do what we do better, and generally had a lot of fun! Thank you all for being warm, caring, and engaged in this community! I appreciate you!

Love, Janet💋💋💋💋

Update September 2022

I have thoroughly enjoyed connecting with so many of you on this platform. it has truly been a gift to help me make sense of this odd compulsion we have all lived with in our lifetimes. I feel the unfortunate need to be a bit more clear about what I enjoy and what I don't. If there is an opportunity to connect with anyone that does their best to emulate the female form in all its glory, count me in! Today I chatted with a woman I admire deeply about the shoes in one of my pictures. She asked where I bought them. I was more than happy to share and loved the exchange. She is wonderful. If there is any intent to send me photos of equipment that I have already, I am not interested. Please don't. Included in the not interested category is any photo or image that either directly or suggests any attempt to denigrate women in our society. I love women. I love them so much I spend time as one. I love all of women's fashion and gorgeous clothes they get to experiment with to get their look just right! Please be respectful. Our time here is short.

August 2020

My story is similar to most. It started very, very young in dress up games that my mom encouraged or at least didn't discourage. Returned as adolescent and has always been a part of me to some degree. I appreciate this window into the world.

Well, I guess this didn't take too long to feel compelled to add this note now that I have had more of a presence here. I suggest you view what I have in the Faves as a glimpse into what I admire in this forum. I love women and those that emulate women with class, style, and grace. Noticeably absent is anything that is less than a celebration of the gorgeous gurls located here. To be direct, I love your pictures of femininity, of you living your lives as you desire, without the gratuitous pictures of your anatomy. Please be respectful of my wishes in what you note or send my way.

Ok, now that that is out of the way, let's get back to appreciating all of you in all your glory.

Hugs,

Janet