5 January 2026 - Just had five wonderful Karen days where I went from an apprehensive woman worried bout being around too many people to a confident woman using cafes, buying new clothes and books, and using the ladies toilet when needed. Karen will never be taken by others as a genetic woman, but she seems to not be noticed in public as a trans woman.

 

20 December - Pictures of Karen are now for friends and family only. That is the safer alternative than being accused of just dressing for sexual pleasure.

I will also reiterate that if you follow me but have no profile description or picture, or your profile is of a sexual nature, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.

 

19 December - Maybe not a good idea to bring Karen out again. Encouragement from many but the truth from some is to remind me that i still look like an old man wearing women's clothes. Increasing hatred in the UK towards trans women makes life uncomfortable. I had an enjoyable day with Gabby but the reality is that even trans women will not accept me. To them I am just another male admirer looking for sexual pleasure. The pictures are now just past memories.

 

13 December 2025 - Not a reboot as such, just a change of direction. My other side, Karen, has came out again after more than 10 years hidden away, but she is not the same person. Karen is now a mature 65 year old woman who has found her style, but more importantly she does not have to adapt to whatever she could beg or borrow. Karen is now confident to go out in public, because she has stopped trying to look like a woman and just be her feminine self as best she can. Hopefully no one will notice the 65 year old teacher/librarian who walks past.

 

You may consider yourself a genuine person, but if you have no profile description, then how do I know who you are?

FOLLOWING SOMEONE WHILE HIDING YOUR IDENTITY IS EFFECTIVELY STALKING. i WILL BLOCK YOU.

 

30 August 2025 - It would appear that within the TG community, a male looking for a fun (i.e. Sex) relationship is more acceptable than a male just wanting friendship. Maybe that is because it is assumed all males are only looking for sex and any male claiming to only want to be a friend must be a liar.

 

25 May 2024 - Another, partial, "reboot".

 

There will be nothing about my transgender friends, many of whom have moved on. Some have stayed with me because of a genuine friendship but I believe from experience, that many now see all males as their enemies. Those of us who have helped and supported in the past are now considered as part of your problem for reasons I cannot understand.

 

I will now only occasionally favour or leave any comments on pictures. The reason is that some will block profiles like mine because I am male, if I even make a genuine comment. I am therefore no longer putting myself in the situation to be blocked.

 

IF YOUR PROFILE IS BLANK OR SHOWING PICTURES OF YOUR GENITALS OR EXPLICIT SEXUAL ACTS AND YOU "FOLLOW" ME, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.

 

I am limiting where I go and who I meet. I no longer attend the Salisbury TG Group, partly because of time and distance to get there, but mainly because I felt that I was no longer welcome, so I felt that the effort to attend was not worth it.

 

I am now 64, 5'11", a cuddly build with blue eyes and dark brown hair, which is now going very grey. I am married.

 

My interests include, railways, motorcycles (although for health reasons I no longer ride) and photography, particularly wildlife.

 

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