I am a straight crossdresser with a wife that is somewhat tolerant of my activities. I like to dress once in a while. I find dressing as Deborah a nice break from all the hustle and bustle of life. It has a very calming effect.
My wife does not actually participate but knows that if I did not like to crossdress I might not be the person that she loves. She knows that I do not mind browsing the ladies department with her.