All the usual I am afraid...........I am a diagnosed Transgender, but this was in the relatively unenlightened times. I could not proceed, despite my Doctor’s opinion, because I would have lost my job and career and I would have completely lost my family and support network - no exaggeration. I have known I was different from a very, very early age, my earliest memory, probably 4 years of age. But honestly believing I was the only one ever to be like “that” and going through a strict Catholic education, I fought the feelings and desperately tried to hide them. The first time since found that there were others was when I read Caroline Cossey’s book during my final year at Uni. A revelation and a lightbulb moment. However, Family not accepting in the extreme etc etc etc since Married, thinking that would “fix” me but it reared it’s ugly Head and so also my wife not at all accepting etc etc etc, so fought the feelings as always but (better late than never - is FINALLY sort of starting to come around but still very much at arms length). Like I said - all the usual...

I WILL WRITE MORE OVER TIME

I deleted my account early 2011 following some "incidents" but things change in the past year so here I am again under a psueudonymn (not really - couldn't get the original back - but probably wouldn't have been such a good idea after last time!!).

Sorry - If you read above you will know why!! I may not add too many contacts. But I will add those who are like minded people

I will add:

CD, TG ,TS, people fully dressed and have photos of themselves,which must be INCLUDING their face.

Also a PROFILE with a buddy icon. (Oops, must get mine sorted!! - ah! have done and didn't break the machine - yes I am blonde-ish)

I will NOTadd:

People that only show Partial photos as I have seen enough tights/stockings/shoe shots to last me the rest of my days.

Nudity- it really doesn't do anything for me.

No profile, = No add.

Enough I think, but it appears obvious that most of those people that I wouldn't add don't read profiles, like last time, so it wouldn't matter what I put anyway!!. :-)

Please don't be upset with me if I don't add you, I decided to keep my contact list small was so I can more easily keep in touch and give the time to those who I have as contacts.